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Is Sumitra thinking and behaviour towards Ganga is right?

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

Sumitra is wrong. For that matter every one is wrong in this whole track.

Sumitra was wrong in not being able to voice her opinion despite having valid points on her side. She acted like a coward . She should have convinced her family instead of making faces at ganga. Next she did not mind a woman going out of her house at night all alone without any support. That isn't right. she doesn't have to give away her life...but she can have the basic courtesy.

The whole pack of singhs, mainly the decision makers of haveli are wrong in not taking proper measures of safety and in ignoring sumi's fears.

ganga was wrong in not giving enough warning to the singhs about her husband. instead of searching for ways to leave haveli, she was focusing more on love and spent a whole day in crying which a victim like ganga is less likely to do.

So on the overall, I think no one is right here.

@red bold - That was the most annoying part of Ganga... even while walking in rain she is not concerned that her child might get sick, but dreaming how she enjoyed eating ice-gola with her dream-man and falling on his body in the giant-wheel... what a disgrace as a mother.🤢

Even before leaving, she wrote in the letter 'I am not your worth, so I am leaving' .. who asked her for her worth ??😡

She knows jagya's rishta is fixed to sanchi, yet she wants to convey to him that she was considering marrying him but felt she was not his worth... How smart was that for a destitute victim ?? 😡

Edited by Shinya - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#62

sumi does not say ganga to go out but her expression says yes yes go .niklo yahan se turant

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: Shinya

Yes exactly, dadisa realised her first responsibility was towards her family.
It was ganga's decision to leave and she is an adult to make her own decisions in her life. Ganga is not a child who does not understand her wellbeing.
First jagya was screaming and now anandi... both were not present when Ganga came down with her bag. They did not see how determined she was to leave...
Why jagya did not open his mouth and tell anandi that her leaving was well planned, she also left a sentimental letter for him ?? Why crucify poor Sumi?

@blue - Jagya should have informed the family about the letter, it is not all Sumi's fault as is being made out.

@Red - Main thing is the track is filmy. If indeed everybody had suffered the violence the way it was shown, at least three members of the family and Makhan (they think Ganga as family, but Makhan who is working for quite a long time, and old servants are almost always shown as part of family, but here nobody in Singh family bothered about him) would have been in hospital. Jagya and Anandi are screaming because they do not see any effect of Rat attack. I wonder what would have been Anandi's reaction if she discovered that Jagya has a fractured skull, Bhairo and Jagya in bandages in hospital, Gahna had had miscarriage, if still she would have been worried only for Ganga and screaming at her mother?

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: sectoreight
Once again I am asking. Is there really such a big difference in practical terms of sumi not asking her to leave, just not stopping her from going?

Maybe there is a technical difference or a difference in terms of language ... but in the manner that it counts, in this case, it was one and the same.

People don't stop someone from going precisely because they want them to leave.

If they don't want them to leave, they ask them to stay.

Sumi is certainly responsible for Ganga leaving.

There is no doubt that Sumi very much wanted G to leave, but is she wrong if she wished that. In my POV - No ( Looking at the circumstances in which Sumi felt that I don't find her wrong.) What would have been wrong is if Sumi had literally asked her to get out.

But here the situation played in her favour. Sumi wanted something and that happened.

The question is ' Is sumi wrong?' Well No.

Besides G, was asked to stay back by 3 people and she didn't. And I applaud her for that. Ds also sensed the same and did not insist for her to stay back. So how does Sumi become wrong? Then that way DS and all Singhs should be wrong.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: sectoreight
Missesha,

I disagree. I think that Ganga was right to leave before J came back.

If he came back and she told him, then it would look like she was sort of manipulating the situation so that she could stay, because she knew that he would never let her leave. Her desire to leave would look fake, and she didn't want to have a drama of "no please stay". Her execution of her desire to leave before J came back was indication of the seriousness of her intention.

And even if J stopped her, and G stayed because of J's insistence, it would not have been a pleasant stay in the house -- there would be no dignity in her existence and sumi would just be more angry and convey resentment towards her. It would be a very unpleasant stay. Ganga would have to stay like a kicked dog.

If anyways she had plans to leave then how would Sumi's stopping matter? And if we are talking about dignity, then isn't this the best thing G did for herself? So why are we blaming Sumitra

Sumitra is both right & wrong in assuming that G is responsible for the terror on their family. While G did not call Rat to come to BH, she is the reason he became enemies with Singhs. And Sumitra does not like that.

The real culprit is lack of security from Singhs. Niether Sumi nor Ganga. But blaming Sumi for G leaving is unfair.

G had started sensing that she is becoming Unwanted in Singhs household after J's attack, but she was putting up with it for her own reasons and Sumi was putting up with her knowing that she will soon leave to bangalore.

In the midst this terror happened, and G felt guilty along with 'not wanted' so to maintain her self-respect she left. I appluad her for that.

It is not Sumitra's fault that she worries for her family and does not want to put a stranger's security against her own family's lives. Everyone is not that strong hearted.

Apart from which I agree that Sumi was wrong in taking out her frustration on G. She should have been more firm in taking this with Bhairon & DS with respect to security.

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Shanu1818

@Shanu1818

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Posted: 12 years ago

#66

She is wrong her rude and unhuman behaviour towards Ganga cant be justified at all...this Ratan Singh trerror is just an exques for her.

Edited by Shanu1818 - 12 years ago

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Antacid :P

@Spring-Dew

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Shinya

@red bold - That was the most annoying part of Ganga... even while walking in rain she is not concerned that her child might get sick, but dreaming how she enjoyed eating ice-gola with her dream-man and falling on his body in the giant-wheel... what a disgrace as a mother.🤢

Even before leaving, she wrote in the letter 'I am not your worth, so I am leaving' .. who asked her for her worth ??😡

She knows jagya's rishta is fixed to sanchi, yet she wants to convey to him that she was considering marrying him but felt she was not his worth... How smart was that for a destitute victim ?? 😡

think yourself in ganga's place then you can understand her feelings...

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SPuja

@SPuja

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

think yourself in ganga's place then you can understand her feelings...

Is that suggestion directed to me? If that is the case, trust me, i did! It's just that i've been putting myself in Sumi , Gehna ,Nandu and in the deadly injured person - Makhaan's place too. And i find it so unfair for all these things to happen to them!😭 When i put myself in Ganga's place, i just could not think of me crying and spending a whole day crying on the thought of my benefactor getting married...while there is an impending danger to him and his family because of my mean, cruel inhumane husband!

I agree with Truthseeker. The impartial viewer should think about all the character and not just one particular character. Coming to Ganga's actions, a truely indebted person and also a person in love, will always think about his/her benefactor/love interest and here lies Ganga's fault. After it was clear that Jagya was attacked by Rat's men, she should have decided to move away. But she did not even informed the family about that mandir incident. Sumitra's fault lies in her nasty behaviour with Ganga and Ganga's fault is being selfish and not thinking about the family who gave her shelter.

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