Is Sumitra right? - Page 6

Originally posted by: sectoreight

I am sorry. I love the technical difference between "letting" and "getting" ganga to go out of the haveli.

Unfortunately, despite the clever verbal difference between both, let us be clear that in terms of spirit, this distinction is not applicable in the case of sumitra's behaviour.

In this case, the "letting" and " getting" were one and the same.

Sumi never said to throw ganga out but sumi's non-verbal resentment conveyed much more than her verbal "get out".

Originally posted by: Shinya

How arrogant was it for Jagya to scream at his mother for a woman who left the house on her own free will with a nicely written letter addressed only to him??

Originally posted by: sectoreight

well naturally, it was addressed only to him. He was out at the police station. The others were present at home. 🤣🤣. Should she have written a letter to dadisa and to gehna and sumi? 🤣

Oh yeah... well he was at the police station.. so she had to write a long full page letter to him. Perhaps she would have missed her train or bus or maybe flight if she had waited for a few minutes longer..🤪

but then she would have lost a golden opportunity to make sumi feel like a criminal. So a well planned move.👏. and yes, the suggestive words she wrote "I am not your worth" they were just too good for a man to read between the lines ...😉

hats off to ganga! well done woman...👎🏼

Originally posted by: Missesha

Shinya, I agree. G came on J's insistence to haveli so she should have waited for him to leave. That would make more sense. And then if J wanted to stop her, he could have.

Originally posted by: Missesha

. But what I feel sad is the way Sumitra is being made responsible for G leaving haveli. Sumi didn't ask her to leave just the way she didn't stop her from going. So how does Sumi become responsible?

Originally posted by: SPuja

There is a difference in letting Ganga walk out of door at night and getting Ganga walk out of door at night, unfortunately members are considering that Sumitra asked Ganga to go out at night. As regards letting Ganga out, there were Sumi's elders- DS, Basant and Gahna (Gahna is younger than Sumi but actually she is the elder brother's wife) why everybody including those elders thinking that it was Sumi's fault? Sumi never said to throw Ganga out.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

Missesha,

I disagree. I think that Ganga was right to leave before J came back.

If he came back and she told him, then it would look like she was sort of manipulating the situation so that she could stay, because she knew that he would never let her leave. Her desire to leave would look fake, and she didn't want to have a drama of "no please stay". Her execution of her desire to leave before J came back was indication of the seriousness of her intention.

And even if J stopped her, and G stayed because of J's insistence, it would not have been a pleasant stay in the house -- there would be no dignity in her existence and sumi would just be more angry and convey resentment towards her. It would be a very unpleasant stay. Ganga would have to stay like a kicked dog.

@ bold - If she was so serious about her intention, then no one in the world could have stopped her , not even her dactarsa...

Then why blame Sumitra for not stopping her when she was hell-bent on leaving ? How could Sumitra have stopped her?

Or maybe Sumi should have tied her up to the pillar with the same rope Ratan used for tying them ...🤪

Originally posted by: Missesha

Shinya, I agree. G came on J's insistence to haveli so she should have waited for him to leave. That would make more sense. And then if J wanted to stop her, he could have.

Anyways, I am happy that G stepped up and left haveli to secure her self-respect. But what I feel sad is the way Sumitra is being made responsible for G leaving haveli. Sumi didn't ask her to leave just the way she didn't stop her from going. So how does Sumi become responsible?

The good thing in today's episode is that Ds acknowledged it was her fault to release all guards at once & how Sumi had warned her, yet she ignored. This shows that DS did not stop G because somewhere she was answerable to her family for putting them through the terror.

She did realise that helping someone is one thing and putting entire family's life at stake is another. That's why she did not insist G to stay back.

Yes exactly, dadisa realised her first responsibility was towards her family.

It was ganga's decision to leave and she is an adult to make her own decisions in her life. Ganga is not a child who does not understand her wellbeing.

First jagya was screaming and now anandi... both were not present when Ganga came down with her bag. They did not see how determined she was to leave...

Why jagya did not open his mouth and tell anandi that her leaving was well planned, she also left a sentimental letter for him ?? Why crucify poor Sumi?