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Posted: 12 years ago
#51
I agre!!
that gesture of Sakshi was very much natural!!
though I prefer Riya over Sakshi,
i dnt thnk shez stupid!!!
we r yet 2 knw her past,
we shudnt be judging be4 we get all the facts!
P.S she aint useless in the crime scene!!
she is here to cover ETFs work!!
remember??
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
I agree with you completely shilpa di😃...

If an individual consoles another, there is nothing wrong with the gesture. I mean, last time I checked it was seen as a human quality to lend someone a shoulder when they are crying or offer someone support when they are emotionally or physically weak.

I personally don't see it as something being wrong with Sakshi's character. And I would definitely not label her as a "stalker", a "stalker" is a very negative word and should not be mixed with Sakshi's gesture which was more like that of a companion or a close friends'.

She did what, she thought she should do. Even though things are not exactly brilliant (understatement😉) between them, her gesture was very genuine and caring. i personally didn't see anything too creepy or negative about it😊...



Edited by gujjupari - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hats off to you Shilpa, you said it. This was a badly needed post, especially to all those Sakshi haters who keep bashing her for every action of hers. This is a fitty reply to all of them (no offense).
I downright agree with you on this.
Arjun is right now in a dark, cold and miserable ditch of suffering, pain and immense sorrow. He hasn't got the support of his friend, or his family, so he's drowning deeper into it...As Sakshi said, he's just putting on a mask of duty, and he's just living everyday like a zombie. He isn't as strong as he looks, he is bound to break some day...
And Sakshi, besides her immaturity of lying to Arjun and being all bubbly and chirpy, is trying to help him... It is a huge deal...No matter what flaws she has, she's the only one who can understand him. I know she can never completely erase his wound, but at least she can heal it to a certain extent...
Arjun badly needs her support. I'm pretty sure Roshni, even though she's dead, won't like to so Arjun suffer like this, as someone mentioned...
And guys, lets be real here, who isn't flawless in this world???
I agree, this is a show, and all characters should be perfect, but isn't it more realistic if the character had flaws? In Sakshi's case, her intentions are right, but her actions are immature...Even Ayesha pointed this put, and even Sakshi realized it...
And as for Sakshi loving him, I don't really know, but she never ever admitted it...
It might be a crush or something, rather than love...
But to sum it up, I feel Sakshi is an embodiment of another chance sent by god to arjun, and a blessing to improve his life...
Edited by Prettyaish123 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
well every1 said evrythg ... i agree with yu all one thing is for sure saakshi's character is not useless at all...especially arjun he is a broken soul...running away frm relationships...she will mellow down him very calmly...its quite natural frm saakshi coz she is suffering ... guys we still hv to see her story more deeply...till now its arjun's pain...atleast he know roshini is dead...wht abt living dead... my hopes are positive fr arakshi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think she was wrong for trying to be there for him, nor do I think she is a stalker for the same. But she is a stalker for other reasons, she is far too obsessed with Arjun. The thing I don't like about her is that she expects Arjun to open upto her, as if it is a must. He barely knows her, so why would he? Maybe in time he will, but sometimes she needs to give him space.

I don't agree her grief is the same as Arjun's. Her dad is alive, he wasn't brutally murdered in front of her eyes. The level of pain she feels might be similar, but his to me seems worse, imagine every day of your life whenever you close your eyes all you see is someone you loved being murdered? It must be sheer torture.

I also don't think Rathore should have supported Arjun, there is no duty on him. As a friend of course it is expected that he would support Arjun, but it is clear from his words that for some reason he holds Arjun responsible for Roshni's death. If any of us held someone responsible for the death of someone we cared about, would we really want to support that person? I don't think so. I'm not saying Rathore is right, but he has his reasons, maybe one day he will forgive Arjun or realise it was not Arjun's fault.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I don't think she was wrong for trying to be there for him, nor do I think she is a stalker for the same. But she is a stalker for other reasons, she is far too obsessed with Arjun. The thing I don't like about her is that she expects Arjun to open upto her, as if it is a must. He barely knows her, so why would he? Maybe in time he will, but sometimes she needs to give him space.

I don't agree her grief is the same as Arjun's. Her dad is alive, he wasn't brutally murdered in front of her eyes. The level of pain she feels might be similar, but his to me seems worse, imagine every day of your life whenever you close your eyes all you see is someone you loved being murdered? It must be sheer torture.

I also don't think Rathore should have supported Arjun, there is no duty on him. As a friend of course it is expected that he would support Arjun, but it is clear from his words that for some reason he holds Arjun responsible for Roshni's death. If any of us held someone responsible for the death of someone we cared about, would we really want to support that person? I don't think so. I'm not saying Rathore is right, but he has his reasons, maybe one day he will forgive Arjun or realise it was not Arjun's fault.




Read my last post and you will understand the point of this.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I don't think she was wrong for trying to be there for him, nor do I think she is a stalker for the same. But she is a stalker for other reasons, she is far too obsessed with Arjun. The thing I don't like about her is that she expects Arjun to open upto her, as if it is a must. He barely knows her, so why would he? Maybe in time he will, but sometimes she needs to give him space.

I don't agree her grief is the same as Arjun's. Her dad is alive, he wasn't brutally murdered in front of her eyes. The level of pain she feels might be similar, but his to me seems worse, imagine every day of your life whenever you close your eyes all you see is someone you loved being murdered? It must be sheer torture.

I also don't think Rathore should have supported Arjun, there is no duty on him. As a friend of course it is expected that he would support Arjun, but it is clear from his words that for some reason he holds Arjun responsible for Roshni's death. If any of us held someone responsible for the death of someone we cared about, would we really want to support that person? I don't think so. I'm not saying Rathore is right, but he has his reasons, maybe one day he will forgive Arjun or realise it was not Arjun's fault.



Who knows?
Sakshi's pain may turn out to be worse that Arjun's maybe her whole family is dead, except for her dad who is living dead...and I'm not trying to be a pessimist here...but who knows, Sakshi's dad may also die, and then her life's story may be revealed...it's a possibility right?
Atleast, Arjun's parents are alive(at least his dad, don't know about mom), but Sakshi might end up having no one...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kunchu

Sorry I didn't find this post earlier. Better late than never..
I do completely agree with your point Shilpa.
I used to get annoyed with the mere chirpiness of Sakshi.but the way the character is moulding up is going perfect.
Noone understands the need of a shoulder help until someone offers it to you. And it's high time Arjun gets one.
All alone in the world of crimes, with none to support him, even pushed away by a family and friend, here at least a stranger can come in.
and Sakshi, the chracter sketch is building up day by day, from the mere bubbly girl,to a girl who is living with a father who is almost equal to dead, to an understanding lady.
If someone can relate to pain, then its her.
But still the reason for her to lie is not completely justifiable for me.Though her goal was indeed good, her path was wrong.I could even have agreed to it, if we never saw how much hurt Arjun was when he knew he was cheated.
Again, more than the actors we are discussing about the characters. This just show how successful Shaleen, Mrunal, Behzad and the whole team is in portraying the whole story...
Hats off to all of you guys...
PS: never intended to hurt anyone... If I did, I'm sorry



I agree that lie is going to be hard to get past, but hopefully she has also learned a lesson from this and next time she thinks before she acts.

Other than that, I agree her character is shaping up nicely, let's hope it continues.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thanks for making this post... you hit the point right on! i hope atleast now people will realise that they are putting blame on someone who doesn't deserve all that...people just expect too much too soon..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kirthiii

thanks for making this post... you hit the point right on! i hope atleast now people will realise that they are putting blame on someone who doesn't deserve all that...people just expect too much too soon..


Well said!! 👏

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