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vidya.anand

@vidya.anand

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: despicable_me
Couldn't agree more. 👍🏼 Even I don't like her wandering around the spot but her, supporting him..even from a distance? She earned my respect! 😉

Exactly PC, she should be trained in self defense and shouldnt be shown always as a damsel in distress to be saved by the knight in armor...

I guess, thats to show that her knight in armor is ever ready to save her from all problems...ab yeh sab kehte toh sab kahenga ke die hard romantics ko Arjun jaise action thriller serial mein kya kaam!

We always try to give CVs our constructive criticisms and refrain from making fun of them and bashing them...and some of it are implemented as well...Sakshi-Arjun's natural subtle scene was a result of that...I can see that!

Anyways, jo hai so hai...I think we should just relax and enjoy the show!

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NSohi13

@NSohi13

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Thank you do much Shilpa for this positive Post on Sakhshi ... And I m agree with you :)

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Mimi2609

@Mimi2609

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Hmmm Nice one sweetheart😉

well for one when one is in pain and has lost a loved one, he/she tends to close down to each and everyone is his life, even his best friends, and wanna spend time alone

At first everyone says it's better to leave them alone, but with time we see them drifting apart from each and everyone in his life...

The case with Arjun, he has completely closed himself from everyone, his father, his friend who now hates him...

Only they can help him, but both are angry with him

Arjun, in his present state, would never go to ask help from anyone, nor would he let anyone can close to him

Unfortunately for such people, you have to gatecrashed in their lives to make a difference!

I dont like Sakshi's lies and all, but she must have guts to try to help someone at the risk of that same person finding her disgusting! and Yet she came to see if he was fine, and with that simple "I do believe you" she managed to calm him at least even 1%...

I do find it strange that Sakshi loves Arjun already, but well this is also a show😛

So in my eyes, i hated her when she lied, but that scene in Arjun's office was a simple, pure and soothing one😊

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Aditi

@bright_star89

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

HEY SHILPA, nice post.

I agree with u on the reasons about Sakshi supporting Arjun..

There is no wrong in her supporting Arjun. Infact, she is here for doing that only😊

But can't that be executed in a better way? I mean her way of bringing out a reaction from him , by faking an injury is childish! Agreed that she is in love and can't see him grieveing and sulking all the time, but Why resort to such childish practices to bring im out of his gloom??

I personally feel that dilutes the effect of her character and precisely her 'female lead' status immensely .

Arjun deals with a huge loss and the depth of his pain is too much to be treated like this.

A loss of a dear one is always painful. A loss is a loss. and I personally feel that no one, no soothing or comforting words can help you heal your pain. It's a matter of time.

I remember when I lost my pishemoshai..(my paternal aunt's husband) to an immature death , I couldn't look at my aunt's face for months.. she was strong from outside, but she missed him terribly.. till now she does.. and in those times, I saw many relatives coming and consoling her.. But I could never utter a word of comfort to her coz I felt those were so small and insignificant before her loss.. I just kept quiet and let her be..

sO to answer your question that is it right to leave a grieving person alone.. I guess Yes..

But since this is a serial.. we can't expect a heroine leaving the hero alone to grieve😛

But only if that could be executed in a better way!

Like some heart - to- heart talk , paving the way for a mutual admiration😳

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Mimi2609

@Mimi2609

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

and yep for me, forget about love and all, Arjun needs a friend right now , someone who makes him share his pain through words, that doesnt diminish the pain, but makes the pain more bearable and this i'm talking definitely from personal experience of myself😊

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vidya.anand

@vidya.anand

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Yeah Aditi...her faking injury and lying to him werent justified

And her character needs improvisation...she has to be stronger and not always needing Arjun to save her...

An investigative journalist, her character still needs changes...

And about leaving the person to grieve alone...for how long is the next question??...

should the ppl around him wait till he succumbs to his grief! well I dont think thats an option..

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Aditi

@bright_star89

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: vidya.anand
Yeah Aditi...her faking injury and lying to him werent justified

And her character needs improvisation...she has to be stronger and not always needing Arjun to save her...
An investigative journalist, her character still needs changes...

And about leaving the person to grieve alone...for how long is the next question??...
should the ppl around him wait till he succumbs to his grief! well I dont think thats an option..

I think it depends on the person. Ultimately, everybody has to move on.. thats the only option in life.And I believe the person who lost his dear one also knows that he is gone and he has to move on .. without him.. Thats the worst part and most painful.. And to make that happen depends on time and to go thru that time is the real test that life puts on him. but finally , everything becomes normal after a point, atleast it seems so.. To deal with that time is the toughest and u have to do it alone I guess..

Relatives, pple come around you, help u, support u.. heal u but at the end of the day, its u who have to deal with the loss.. thats why pain and loss is always personal..

I am not discouraging pple to lend a helping hand.. otherwise what are family and friends for??

ps:I am surprised at myself at doing such heavy talks😆

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@through

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

😊Thank you very much for this post di... it feels great to know that atleast some of you share the same feelings about arakshi as me. for me yesterday's arakshi scene was by far the best. they both behaved the way they were expected to behave. If you see someone breaking down infront of you, you will definitely check if he/she is fine even if it is a stranger (if you are a noble soul). and for sakshi arjun was a colleague and a partner , and her checking on him whether he is fine was genuine. the scene was very natural and not at alll forced. Even if arjun asked her why she was there , the softness in his tone was indicating that "I was expecting you". shaleen and mrunal carried out the scene brilliantly. mrunal showed the fear, confusion, care, felt by sakshi so beautifully. The scene was soft, subtle and beautiful and hats off to cv's for bringing such a beautiful scene... I just want to thank you shilpa di once again for making this post.😊

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Mimi2609

@Mimi2609

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: bright_star89

I think it depends on the person. Ultimately, everybody has to move on.. thats the only option in life.And I believe the person who lost his dear one also knows that he is gone and he has to move on .. without him.. Thats the worst part and most painful.. And to make that happen depends on time and to go thru that time is the real test that life puts on him. but finally , everything becomes normal after a point, atleast it seems so.. To deal with that time is the toughest and u have to do it alone I guess..

Relatives, pple come around you, help u, support u.. heal u but at the end of the day, its u who have to deal with the loss.. thats why pain and loss is always personal..

I am not discouraging pple to lend a helping hand.. otherwise what are family and friends for??

ps:I am surprised at myself at doing such heavy talks😆

Lol, i agree that in the end it's the person who really can tackle and live with his pain, but then without the support of our loved ones, we'll never ever get the courage to even move on😳

In life we need people to need us, believe in us and support us, their mere words can help us atleast decide on the path we are gonna take to move on, but ultimately we never ever forget about the pain, it's just that the pain becomes one with us, and we learn living with them

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

😊I do have a doubt. Was she faking the leg injury? Or did she have an injury but she just delayed removing the bandage even after the injury was healed so that she could get close to arjun? for it's the second option. Because she saw a different arjun when she was hurt and thought that arjun might open up to her because for the first time arjun was soft towards her. yeah , i know, i am going mad. but i do have this habit of thinking up stuff to convince myself that my favourites are always right.😊 And with arakshi i have been doing that quite a lot.

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