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Hey friends, its been a long time since I have posted anything here and I wasn't going to post anything now either but after reading some posts, comments and analysis I am wondering about something.
I am wondering, is it right to leave a person who is grieving alone?
Why do I ask this?
Well one year ago today I lost a good friend to death while group of us were on a vacation in Europe. I went to see his wife over the weekend and after reading some comments it made me wonder about person who is grieving for a loved one.
So was it wrong of Sakshi to check on Arjun after his breakdown? After the one person who should have supportedhim, been there for him blames him for the death of his wife?
I understand that some people think Sakshi was being pushy, why? In grief even a stranger will lend support to another stranger so why not Sakshi?
Especially when she is going thru a similar grief. Yes I know her father is still alive but is he really living, he might as well not be. And why is her pain different from Arjun's? Speaking from a personal loss of a parent I assure everyone that no pain is greater than pain of losing a parent.
Would are loved ones who are gone want us to be in pain remembering them? Would we wish this on our loved ones when we are gone from this world?
Would Roshni, who loved Arjun as much as she loved him want him to suffer the way he is suffering? Would she want him to die too?
Yes she died tragically, no one should die the way she did, and Arjun must fight for justice for her and him also, but does that mean he has no right to live life?
Now coming to Sakshi's feelings for Arjun.
Why is it too soon for her to fall for Arjun? She joined ETF in April, and I am sure she had some inkling of his past and she has come to know the type of person he is. He is smart, kind, compassionat, he even shared bit of his past withe her (RE: about his dad). She has observed him and on the very first day she noticed the pain in his eyes also, so why in this time could she not fall for him? (We did from the very beginning)😊
And besides this Sakshi loves him but that doesn't mean he has fallen for her.
Now coming to Arjun.
I think he would have rebuffed her small gesture of support if he didn't really wanted it, especially after what has happened between them recently.
I also think Sakshi's intentions were not wrong after seeing angry Arjun yesterday. If his anger doesn't find an outlet he will be hard to control when it is time to deal with Sikandar because no matter what he says he can not deal with Sikandar on his own. And his anger will one day put everyone's life at stake as Rathore stated to him.
So friends, was Sakshi wrong in supporting a person who was grieving over lost loved one?
I say hats off to Sakshi for her attempt to support him even after knowing that he is angry with her and disgusted by her. And I think it's perfectly natural for her to go support him given the way she is feeling for him.
Sorry for this long rant, but I dislike the fact that Sakshi is being called a stalker for supporting someone who is feeling the pain of lodd of a loved one.
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