Is it right to...? - Page 4

Originally posted by: _Mohabbatgirl_

Okay.. I see, the point has come across with just the right amount of sensibility..
You know how I feel on this one.. And I didn't jump in right there, varna log humare RMJ pe taane maarte u see.. 😉

But yes, B1..

And no.. Maybe yes for a while when the person wants to be alone, maybe one shouldn't interfere in his/her personal space.. Coz no amount of words or consoling gestures can make up for it.. I've seen a very dear person to me go through it as well..

But until when; as Vidzi rightly pointed out.. Leaving aside Sakshi's love for Arjun and the possibility that she's forcing herself upon him for whatever reasons or 'stalking' for that matter, she is a fellow team member for crying out loud.. When you work with someone that closely 24/7 and esp. the nature of her tug of war like relationship with Arjun so far, I think it was only natural that she walked up to him..

Mind you; she did not barge into his cabin and FORCE her way into his private space.. She stood still until he was ready to acknowledge her presence..
He did not rebuff her despite the fact that he was mad and disgusted with her just a few days back..

Come on, knowing the 'Sanki' Hotwa, he would've blasted her head off right there if he wanted to.. One would argue that he was too heartbroken to deal with such trivial stuff, but I beg to differ here..
Maybe yes.. But that look on his face and his body language after she said she believes him did not hint at any discomfort or annoyance.. It was a silent acknowledgement if not anything else..

I agree.. Losing a life partner and living a life without them must really be a cruel thing and for him especially since he blames himself and is being blamed by the only other living person he is most attached to..
But I wouldn't say it is incomparable to the loss of a parent.. In fact, I'm sorry if I sound rude, but losing a parent is much more painful! I lost my FIL a year ago and I've been there and understand what it feels like to lose a parent.. And hence been through all the grieving and consoling..

Arjun will never get over Roshni.. Period. The guy is living not only with grief of having lost his love but also with a guilt that doesn't let him live nor will it let him die in peace..
But I don't think Roshni or even Rathore would want him to spend the rest of his life sulking and being alone in the dark, with nothing to hold onto..
He is way too young to do that.. He's got a long life ahead to live.. Like they say, 'Zindagi jee jaati hai.. Kaati nahi jaati..'

There definitely is something more to Sakshi's father which was hinted at during that one Flashback.. He was surrounded by security guards who even refused to let his own daughter step in.. Definitely kuch toh choot raha hai..

Besides, why can't a girl who is grieving herself try n make others happy and spread smiles around? Doesn't mean she's forgotten her own grief, but if that is her way of getting around it, why not?
Yes, I agree with some here that her character wasn't drafted well.. Maybe they wanted to portray her as a chirpy, bubbly girl who would make him change his outlook towards life and slowly help him deal with his loss in a friendly way..
In the process, they did mess it up by overt chirpiness, lack of sensitivity at times and loitering around at a crime scene when a flying bullet could hit her in the head..

But after yesterday, me thinks, that is about to change!
She's a civilian and journalist.. I don't think they go around carrying guns unless they're trained for it.. They should have made her stay back..

But yes, then again, she's not useless at all.. Time and again, we've seen her contributing her bit to their cases.. The 'water wastage' case couldn't have been cracked that early had it not been for her crucial inputs on it.. Maybe they're getting there now that they know
WE DO NOT want to watch a mushy, corny love story with unexplained eyelocks or falling into arms and I think the CV's have realised it by now!

She was attracted to him right since Day 1.. He's hot, for starters.. 🤪 (okay.. sorry!) 😛
He's brave, intelligent, has a compassionate heart, is mysterious and has heart-wrenching pain etched in his eyes.. Leaving aside Arjun, Sakshi and the show (And my Doc too), but I would've been attracted to a guy like that in real life as well..
Mind you again.. Attracted.. Not fall in love head over heels with him..

So yes, I do believe that her attraction to him and concern for his well-being is only natural.. Even now I wish they hadn't brought in that darn 'lies' track.. But well, her reasons are justified to an extent after Arjun's emotional outburst yesterday.
He will destroy his enemy and everything that comes in the way.. EVEN HIMSELF! Coz he is blinded by rage and revenge.. He needs to calm down.. To realise what is happening around him and plan his moves calculatingly rather than plunging into it head-first.. Coz obviously, his enemy is stronger and shrewder than he can ever imagine.. (Atleast that's what we're led to believe..)

Since his best friend has deserted him, (For the time being) and he has no other soul he can call his own, why can it not be a girl who feels something for him lend him a shoulder? I see no harm in it..
Maybe we are to witness a silent bonding; one which needs very few words leading to a comfort zone where the duo can start talking normally at the least.. And if she stands by him being a silent support system, I do not think there is any harm in it..

Who knows, this friendship or bonding might just be the thread he may want to hang onto after he's done avenging Roshni's death.. Or maybe it will stay the way it is..

I will be utmost happy in either case..

I'm sorry.. I must have bored you guys to death and may not have made sense at all.. But one last parting thought..

Would Ayesha be criticised as much if she were in Sakshi's place? Coz obviously she too was worried and looked shaken up after the two friends' outburst..

I highly doubt it.. Coz remember she did walk up to Rathore during that 'Nagin case?'.. If that was considered as a friendly gesture, I wonder why Sakshi's silent support to Arjun is being criticised as much..
No comparisons intended.. I love Ayesha more than I like Sakshi, myself..


Anyway.. Darn.. That was too long.. 😛 Sorry.. Kaan pakadke!

Originally posted by: haruhi26

Avni you almost wrote an OS😲😉

Originally posted by: bright_star89

Yes, absolutely..

there is no doubt in that.

I just made that comment in general. I know that can't happen in a serial.. How can a heroine leave the hero alone..?😊

but everything between arjun and sakshi looks very clumsy to me.. there is no progression in their track.. I wud love to see Arjun falling in love and looking forward to life again..

but the scheme of things dosen't allow me to enjoy watching them together .

THeir track needs clarity and better scripting.

Originally posted by: _Mohabbatgirl_

even i forgot that. Sakshi being bashed for her chirpy behaviour. ok. i can adjust with that. but mrunal was being bashed too. we shouldn't forget she is also working hard like others spending long hours on sets . even when she is ill (as we saw in the BTS). But her hardwork was smartly overlooked. 😊

Originally posted by: swathi93

Tina, you forgot.. She gets bashed off screen as well.. Iski toh aish hai.. Itni publicity muft mein.. Badhiya hai.. 😆😆

Originally posted by: _Mohabbatgirl_

Okay.. I see, the point has come across with just the right amount of sensibility..
You know how I feel on this one.. And I didn't jump in right there, varna log humare RMJ pe taane maarte u see.. 😉

But yes, B1..

And no.. Maybe yes for a while when the person wants to be alone, maybe one shouldn't intrude in his/her personal space.. Coz no amount of words or consoling gestures can make up for it.. I've seen a very dear person to me go through it as well..

But until when; as Vidzi rightly pointed out.. Leaving aside Sakshi's love for Arjun and the possibility that she's forcing herself upon him for whatever reasons or 'stalking' for that matter, she is a fellow team member for crying out loud.. When you work with someone that closely 24/7 and esp. the nature of her tug of war like relationship with Arjun so far, I think it was only natural that she walked up to him..

Mind you; she did not barge into his cabin and FORCE her way into his private space.. She stood still until he was ready to acknowledge her presence..
He did not rebuke her despite the fact that he was mad and disgusted with her just a few days back..

Yes, she just asked him how he was and turned to leave. But only turned back to say those 3 magical words... I m talking about "I believe u"😆

Come on, knowing the 'Sanki' Hotwa, he would've blasted her head off right there if he wanted to.. One would argue that he was too heartbroken to deal with such trivial stuff, but I beg to differ here..
Maybe yes.. But that look on his face and his body language after she said she believes him did not hint at any discomfort or annoyance.. It was a silent acknowledgement if not anything else..

I would say, at last he got someone to believe him. His best friend no longer trusted him, as these words even if it would come from a mere stranger would have some amount of comfort in it.

And I seriously want to believe Sakshi knows a little more about Sikander then others.

I agree.. Losing a life partner and living a life without them must really be a cruel thing and for him especially since he blames himself and is being blamed by the only other living person he is most attached to..
But I wouldn't say it is incomparable to the loss of a parent.. In fact, I'm sorry if I sound rude, but losing a parent is much more painful! I lost my FIL a year ago and I've been there and understand what it feels like to lose a parent.. And hence been through all the grieving and consoling..
I m sorry about that

Arjun will never get over Roshni.. Period. The guy is living not only with grief of having lost his love but also with a guilt that doesn't let him live nor will it let him die in peace..
But I don't think Roshni or even Rathore would want him to spend the rest of his life sulking and being alone in the dark, with nothing to hold onto..
He is way too young to do that.. He's got a long life ahead to live.. Like they say, 'Zindagi jee jaati hai.. Kaati nahi jaati..'

Yes... the main question is what after his revenge? Will he end his life? Big NO. He is against Suicide.

He needs a reason to live. And he is a social animal. A human. and No human can live Alone in this world, no matter how strong he is.

There definitely is something more to Sakshi's father which was hinted at during that one Flashback.. He was surrounded by security guards who even refused to let his own daughter step in.. Definitely kuch toh choot raha hai..

Besides, why can't a girl who is grieving herself try n make others happy and spread smiles around? Doesn't mean she's forgotten her own grief, but if that is her way of getting around it, why not?
Yes, I agree with some here that her character wasn't drafted well.. Maybe they wanted to portray her as a chirpy, bubbly girl who would make him change his outlook towards life and slowly help him deal with his loss in a friendly way..
In the process, they did mess it up by overt chirpiness, lack of sensitivity at times and loitering around at a crime scene when a flying bullet could hit her in the head..

Oh yeah... The CVs added a little more to the Chirpiness... People wanted a chirpy girl. When they have, they complain its more.

I do believe on giving Sakshi a little more importance, then just a showpiece.

But after yesterday, me thinks, that is about to change!
She's a civilian and journalist.. I don't think they go around carrying guns unless they're trained for it.. They should have made her stay back..

But yes, then again, she's not useless at all.. Time and again, we've seen her contributing her bit to their cases.. The 'water wastage' case couldn't have been cracked that early had it not been for her crucial inputs on it.. Maybe they're getting there now that they know
WE DO NOT want to watch a mushy, corny love story with unexplained eyelocks or falling into arms and I think the CV's have realised it by now!

She was attracted to him right since Day 1.. He's hot, for starters.. 🤪 (okay.. sorry!) 😛
He's brave, intelligent, has a compassionate heart, is mysterious and has heart-wrenching pain etched in his eyes.. Leaving aside Arjun, Sakshi and the show (And my Doc too), but I would've been attracted to a guy like that in real life as well..
Mind you again.. Attracted.. Not fall in love head over heels with him..

Yes... Attraction is the word. Its too early for her to fall from him. And may be even as a normal person she cared for him.

Come on... If I knew a person, who isn't actually my friend, but I know he is hiding some big pain in his heart. I would want him to share it, release his pain and just CRY.

And if I take the initiative I would want that person to be me.

If not me then his best friend, with whom he is a little more comfortable.

But in this scenario, Sakshi doesnt know about any such person (She isn't shown to know abt RR chemistry)

So definitely, she would volunteer herself for the role.

So yes, I do believe that her attraction to him and concern for his well-being is only natural.. Even now I wish they hadn't brought in that darn 'lies' track.. But well, her reasons are justified to an extent after Arjun's emotional outburst yesterday.
He will destroy his enemy and everything that comes in the way.. EVEN HIMSELF! Coz he is blinded by rage and revenge.. He needs to calm down.. To realise what is happening around him and plan his moves calculatingly rather than plunging into it head-first.. Coz obviously, his enemy is stronger and shrewder than he can ever imagine.. (Atleast that's what we're led to believe..)

Since his best friend has deserted him, (For the time being) and he has no other soul he can call his own, why can it not be a girl who feels something for him lend him a shoulder? I see no harm in it..
Maybe we are to witness a silent bonding; one which needs very few words leading to a comfort zone where the duo can start talking normally at the least.. And if she stands by him being a silent support system, I do not think there is any harm in it..

Who knows, this friendship or bonding might just be the thread he may want to hang onto after he's done avenging Roshni's death.. Or maybe it will stay the way it is..

I will be utmost happy in either case..

I'm sorry.. I must have bored you guys to death and may not have made sense at all.. But one last parting thought..

Would Ayesha be criticised as much if she were in Sakshi's place? Coz obviously she too was worried and looked shaken up after the two friends' outburst..

Anyone except Sakshi, would never had been criticized.

I highly doubt it.. Coz remember she did walk up to Rathore during that 'Nagin case?'.. If that was considered as a friendly gesture, I wonder why Sakshi's silent support to Arjun is being criticised as much..
No comparisons intended.. I love Ayesha more than I like Sakshi, myself..

Comparison was something even I wished to avoid.

But seeking an old report or newsclipping of your senior about his personal life wasn't a issue then, when Riya had did it.

Previous case everyone wanted things sorted out, but now... They want Sakshi to go on exile?

Fair enough👏

Anyway.. Darn.. That was too long.. 😛 Sorry.. Kaan pakadke!