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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: ...Mithuz...


@Bold - This cracked me.🤣



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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: ll-Shilpa-ll

Let's put the the whole heoine being there for the hero aside for a moment.
Let me just point out that yeah your grandmother delat with her grief in her own way, but she knew that you all were aroun her, lending her that silent support and she has someone to lean on when the need arise, does Arjun have this?
No, i didn't mean grandmother... I meant Pishi, which means Bua😊
and her husband is what in hindi I dont know!! in Bangla officially, bua's hubby is pishemoshai... I fondly called him Pishaan..😊


No he doesn't we don't know about his mother but his father abanodned him long time ago, the person he loved the most is no longer in this world and the best friend he relied on is blaming him for his wife's death.
This loneliness is just for the time -being. They share a common grief. arjun's is defo much deep coz he was her hubby.. But the source of pain is same. this blame game is for the time -being. even Rathore knows that Arjun had to pay the price of his duty .in their professions sacrifices are there but he is so blinded by grief that he is not able to cope things..
I sometimes wonder why Arjun goes so soft and vulnerable when he blames him.. maybe coz he believes that his blame is true.. for that, someone has to confront him, push him to believe that he is not to be blamed.. But sakshi's childish antics, her theory of making him 'smile' seems ridiculous to me.. that's not the way to turn him around I think. and then time will heal everything eventually.

So there was nothing wrong in what Sakshi did, she checked and when she realized he didn't need her she backed off, but she conveyed the message that she is there if he needs someone to lean on and I think that in itself would have made hime feel slightly better.


I never said she is wrong. her endeavours are not wrong .. but her ways are.. Please.. she needs to have some depth.And i liked that in that episode she backed off silently.. that was a good move..

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Posted: 12 years ago
#43
I made this post based on reactions from Sundays episode not about what Sakshi did before.

My point here is that she did not push herself on Arjun, she just wanted to let him know he is not alone.

And yes she behave childishly but that is another matter entirely point here is she did act with maturity yet she is being called a stalker. Why?


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Posted: 12 years ago
#44
great post👍🏼

and agree wid u😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: ll-Shilpa-ll

I made this post based on reactions from Sundays episode not about what Sakshi did before.


My point here is that she did not push herself on Arjun, she just wanted to let him know he is not alone.

And yes she behave childishly but that is another matter entirely point here is she did act with maturity yet she is being called a stalker. Why?



I would say,...

She perfectly handles mature things in a childlike way.

Which is not everyone's capability.

But her taking an initiative to do something... Isn't that good?

When wee ppl begin to see some good points in her??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't like all these tragedy stuff. That is the sole reason why i don't watch episodes which shows arni flashbacks again. Because everytime i see arjun happy in those flashbacks i get a twinge in my heart. But yesterday was different. Just after the flashback we got a beautiful scene which was filled with hope and positives. That is why i want arakshi to happen. And i have watched the flashback and the arakshi scene many times just because of the beauty of that arakshi scene.😊

Am i being extremely philosophical? I have never talked such serious stuff before. Dunno what has happened to me😆
Edited by swathi93 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47
I totally Agree with you Shilpa Dii...

And yes.. If someone is grieving for a loved ones loss, he shouldn't be left alone because in mosr case, eg: Arjun and Roshni, the survivor will somewhere blame himself/herself... They may even try to harm themselves..!

I think that Sakshi checking on Arjun was really sweet of her.. Well, even if we ignore the fact that she's in love with him, it shows that she still cares about him! and caring about someone is more important than loving them!

Pushy?! No no... She didn't say anything or force him to open up to her.. she just asked him if he was OK.. I do that to a stranger if he'she seems upset!

Whoever the loved one may be.. father or lover.. grief is always the same kind...! It's is more hard to see your loved one alive and in tremendous pain than to see them dead (my personal view)...

Coming to her feelings, I think that if you have to fall in love, you can do that even at a "hi"... (thoda zyaada dramatic 😉) But.. seriously, there is no time limit that you can't fall in love before that, is there?!

Arjun does need to get his anger under control but I don't blame him for the height of his anger.. I would probably be the same..!!😛

But anyways.. lets see.. Aage aage hota hai kya?!
Edited by Arjunkibehen - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: ll-Shilpa-ll

I made this post based on reactions from Sundays episode not about what Sakshi did before.


My point here is that she did not push herself on Arjun, she just wanted to let him know he is not alone.

And yes she behave childishly but that is another matter entirely point here is she did act with maturity yet she is being called a stalker. Why?



OKAY,I didn't get that you were talking abt Sundays episode exclusively..
Agree.. She did act mature by keeping quiet.. let's see for how long she continues to be so.. Its not that her cahracter was redeemed in last night's epi. consistency seems to be a big problem with her😆

Also, A character analysis can't be done based on one episode! there is always a character graph which she lacks.. like I said somewhere before she has no progression , so there isn't much contribution from her in the scope of the story.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
Thank you everyone for the reply.

Just few last words I want to share with you that a friend of mine, who does not watch the show but after seeing my post, shared with me.


Grief is personal and ppl tend to open up to strangers more than they tend to open up to ppl they know for the simple reason that ppl wouldn't judge.. also a person going thru grief is more likely to understand and provide some saner guidance.. they know what buttons to push without the risk of being seen as judgmental


Thanks my angel, this about sums up what I wanted to say.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50
Sorry I didn't find this post earlier. Better late than never..
I do completely agree with your point Shilpa.
I used to get annoyed with the mere chirpiness of Sakshi.but the way the character is moulding up is going perfect.
Noone understands the need of a shoulder help until someone offers it to you. And it's high time Arjun gets one.
All alone in the world of crimes, with none to support him, even pushed away by a family and friend, here at least a stranger can come in.
and Sakshi, the chracter sketch is building up day by day, from the mere bubbly girl,to a girl who is living with a father who is almost equal to dead, to an understanding lady.
If someone can relate to pain, then its her.
But still the reason for her to lie is not completely justifiable for me.Though her goal was indeed good, her path was wrong.I could even have agreed to it, if we never saw how much hurt Arjun was when he knew he was cheated.
Again, more than the actors we are discussing about the characters. This just show how successful Shaleen, Mrunal, Behzad and the whole team is in portraying the whole story...
Hats off to all of you guys...
PS: never intended to hurt anyone... If I did, I'm sorry

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