There is a difference between love and lust - Page 10

Originally posted by: naava

Very Good post naava. Yes I am totally angry of why Ekta, the CV's and writers to enjoy so much pain & heartache in the characters they create. I hope ARVI united soon & not too much pain for the writers will do with Dr. Onir.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

What was Archana supposed to do then ..Not even cry for her children that they were away , that they hated her ..Only love and love Purvi, forget about the fact that Ovi and Teju too are her daughters ...

If this is what Purvi felt , that she is not important to Archana , then she needs to see a psychiatrist , that's all I can say ..

Purvi is a pretty spoiled girl I think . She never consults anyone when making major decisions ..Yet again she was saying on Friday " I wil lhave to leave the house ' .How can she just say this without even talking to her husband ..I can make a very long list of some pretty major decision this girl has made that are effecting other people's lives ...She thinks she is God or something ..

Always taking decisions for others , just look at how she has ruined Arjun's life and also Ovi 's by giving Arjun the marching orders to make her pregnant ..

Purvi is a bit of a control freak actually ...

Maybe all her life she saw that her mother is a big emotional fool who easily gets used by others so she decided to become the mother to Archana and control her life as she sees fit ...

Now controlling the life of everyone around her has become her habit ...

Her decision making skill are pretty pathetic ..mostly causing more harm than good in the long run .

And just look how much she lies ...Her everyday is all 80 % lies and only 20 % truth ...

That is wh yI am blaming Archana for her upbringing ..What kind of a girl she has raised here ??????

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

What was Archana supposed to do then ..Not even cry for her children that they were away , that they hated her ..Only love and love Purvi, forget about the fact that Ovi and Teju too are her daughters ...

Of course not dear, Archana was doing the right thing to cry for her children. Her heart was crushed and broken and she was betrayed by the man she loved more than herself. Why i said that Purvi misread, misinterpreted . I wasn't faulting Archana at all, but saying that Purvi was wrong.

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That is wh yI am blaming Archana for her upbringing ..What kind of a girl she has raised here ??????

I can't blame Archana for Purvi's mistakes. I think Archu did all the right things...but each person has choices to make and those choices aren't the fault of someone else. Really, I don't blame Manav at all for Ovi's insecurities. Ovi is old enough to make good choices, she's not stupid. We all have an innate sense of right and wrong.

Soham's predicament is yes due to the circumstances Varsha place him in. But in the end, his own strong sense of right and wrong will triumph.

Youre right Tanya, Purvi has often been the mother and Archana the child and maybe that's whats' wrong...but she's a terrible decision maker...headstrong...and doesn't stop to think . She is a little spoiled in that sense i guess.