There is a difference between love and lust

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Guys, even i'm strictly against pre-marital consummation but if a relationship is (or rather i'd say was) like ArVi where their love was true, where Arjun left his everything for purvi, where he risked his life and took bullets for her, where they were getting married in few days then there is nothing called apavitra about it. (at that time). So chill, and just enjoy the much awaited scene and the new twist in the story. In real life one can never have a relationship like onscreen ArVi, that's why it's prohibited in our society. But still this is the generation of live-in relationships. Anyways all that i can say is one shouldnt have problem with the thing that they had taken their relationship to a new level since what they had is true love not lust or something like what Punni and Malik had. Nor Arjun and purvi were any teenagers from Channel V's Gumrah where they wanted to 'try' something new with high teenage hormones. There is a clear difference isnt it?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I just cannot forgive Purvi for betraying her mother's trust in her ... Very sad day in PR for me because I loved the relationship between Archaan and Purvi and always defended it ..
But today I hope Archaan is thrashed publically by manju and savita when the truth about her daughter's baby comes out ..
If Varsha is balmed for Soham's upbringing .
Manav is blamed for Ovi's upbringing ...
then now I will blame Archana for Purvi's upbringing ...Shame on you Archana .always talking big about daughter being your abhimaan and so being so perfect .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I use daily soap logic with Ekta's shows, not real life one.

Good point about Gumraah Tich.

Yes it was wrong to have unprotected, pre-marital sex, but I'm sorry, Ekta's dramas thrive on that. A one night stand between unmarried people results in a pregnancy, but married couples can have problem conceiving.

It may reflect badly on Archana sanskaars and Purvi's character as shown earlier, but when if ever have PR CVs not butchered characters? It's a constant cycle where either you disappear from the show or become a terribly pale comparison of what you once were.

We've witnessed that dramas more than anything has gotten TRPs, well here was her chance and she showed it. We can all bemoan about how things could be done differently, but CVs aren't exactly listening, are they? We never wanted Ovi marriage or a pregnancy track and yet the makers went ahead with it.

So either we can change the channel, or know we can whine all we want, but Ekta will do what she likes.

And for the nth time, I'm not looking to PR for life advice or to serve as a moral compass.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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let me b honest premaritial sex wid ur fiance is not at all wrong(i was d one who supported shravni 4 dis too)
but leaving ur fiance on the day of marriiage after having sex is wrong for me
and den force him to get married to her sister,
and den sleep wid her sister is wrong
many are assuming ovi not carrying arjun child-wich i dont agree,cause she wldnt have given birth to any1 else child except arjun,and arjun cant deny he had sex wid ovi,caus he was happy whn she announced her pregnancy
but y shld arvi unite,especially whn purvi has married onir,who really luvs her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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tanya,

Well it's not about archana or her upbringing or purvi and her sanskaars..
It's about two lovers who were getting married in few days and proved their love with fire test in front of everyone. What they had was personal.

(my reference is just this scene before arjun-ovi marriage)
Edited by AquaNymph - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its the "unprotected" sex that makes their love making more yuck worthy... ok they were in love and felt they couldn't wait !!! I can take that. But how could they not use protection... now there is a BABY !!!! No actually 2 babies !!!! What will happen to them? I agree things happen... even bad things ... just happen... and we have to accept it and move on... but at least the CVs can show the parents getting super mad and telling them off for their irresponsible act... all can sit and think of a solution and ways to move forward... but THIS SHOULD NOT be upheld as some great tyaag !!! Purvi knows what she did was wrong thats why she did not have the guts to say it loud to all yet !!! All her slogans about "sacchayi ka saath dena" flushed royally down the drain !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AquaNymph

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Well it's not about archana or her upbringing or purvi and her sanskaars..
It's about two lovers who were getting married in few days and proved their love with fire test in front of everyone. What they had was personal.

(my reference is just this scene before arjun-ovi marriage)

In m yeyes , it is the betrayal of her mother trust ..
I blamed Varsha for Soham's wrong actions .
Blamed Manav for Ovi's wrong actions ...
Now I will blame Archana for spoiling Purvi so much and Purvi's wrong actions ...Archanh was getting Purvi married by going against her whole family .The least Purvi could have done for her mother was to wait for one more day ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

let me b honest premaritial sex wid ur fiance is not at all wrong(i was d one who supported shravni 4 dis too)

but leaving ur fiance on the day of marriiage after having sex is wrong for me
and den force him to get married to her sister,
and den sleep wid her sister is wrong
many are assuming ovi not carrying arjun child-wich i dont agree,cause she wldnt have given birth to any1 else child except arjun,and arjun cant deny he had sex wid ovi,caus he was happy whn she announced her pregnancy
but y shld arvi unite ??
,especially whn purvi has married onir,who really luvs her



YOU REALLY NEED THE ANSWER AGAIN ?😲😲
AND THE ESPECIALLY IS NOT SO ESPECIALLY,
SPECIFICALLY IS DIFFERENT, WATCH WATCH LAST YEAR'S EPISODES 😆 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sindoorfan

Its the "unprotected" sex that makes their love making more yuck worthy... ok they were in love and felt they couldn't wait !!! I can take that. But how could they not use protection... now there is a BABY !!!! No actually 2 babies !!!! What will happen to them? I agree things happen... even bad things ... just happen... and we have to accept it and move on... but at least the CVs can show the parents getting super mad and telling them off for their irresponsible act... all can sit and think of a solution and ways to move forward... but THIS SHOULD NOT be upheld as some great tyaag !!! Purvi knows what she did was wrong thats why she did not have the guts to say it loud to all yet !!! All her slogans about "sacchayi ka saath dena" flushed royally down the drain !


dear, protection is used when it is planned. Here ArVi didnt plan and they werent high on hormones to try it. It just happened.
What all happened for that ONLY PURVI was responsible coz she could have used pills later. And when she got pregnant she didnt tell anyone.
yes, she is protecting the family and Onir is there for her, to support her.
But Arjun has the right to know the truth.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: blas_morf



YOU REALLY NEED THE ANSWER AGAIN ?😲😲
AND THE ESPECIALLY IS NOT SO ESPECIALLY,
SPECIFICALLY IS DIFFERENT, WATCH WATCH LAST YEAR'S EPISODES 😆 😆

wats there in spelling dude,
and wat do u mean by i shld watch last year episode?
my question is that y shld purvi leave her husabnd for her past,wh her husband luv her and her baby too

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