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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lavy

She knows to give weird dialogues like Jetsar and me are soo much in love, then walk out and live alone in Jetsar on your Sarpanch bitiya salary.


Lavy,
I learned a little while ago that sarpanch's all over India only earn Rs 1000 per month. (one thousand) . It is a pittance and a token job.
She cannot live independently on that salary. She needs the financial infrastructure of the singhs.
I wish she had actually done a degree in social work and then joined an organization like oxfam or something where she could earn 12 lakhs per annum doing social work.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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she did do a degree in social work. Form what shyam said way back... that was her major.
She does not want money, she wants the betterment of Jetsar and Money i do not think she will have any issues.

Singhs have taken care of that.

She will come around. Its been less than a month since her mom died. Give her time people she will slowly become the loving Anandi ... we were so used to (in her childhood)
Edited by Suchi-Virmanian - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She did her B.A in social work.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

she did do a degree in social work. Form what shyam said way back... that was her major.

No she did an ordinary graduation without qualification in social work.
There is no way one can do an online degree in social work -- it requires internships and stuff -- going and working in NGOs, going and working in children's prisons etc. all sorts of rehabilitation work is required. It is not an academic type of course ... it requires all sorts of experiential learning.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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aparna how can u say ki anandi ne dadisa se apni shadi ke liye protest nahi kiya usne yeh bhi kaha tha ki dadisa aapne mujhe vachan bhi diya phir bhi aap .pur jub anandi protest kur rahi thi tub bhi khuch members ko problem thi ki anandi ko badon se baat kurna nahi aata
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

😲...but it has shown in today's episode that she is doing it for her mother only!! yes she is doing a favor to everyone! but she did not run and blame everyone that u guys r destroying my life!! she was just crying alone inside the room..trying to lightening the bojh everyone putting on her!!..that was her outburst...which i think is very normal and today anandi became more real to me for this!!


she never wanted to marry anyone..but everyone forced her actually..no one here is asking her what she wants but just expecting her to marry shiv!! the circumstances now is so that she is not able to understand what she should do...and her ultimate decision is that she wants to fulfill her mother's last wish...that is what was shown today i think..not that anandi still loves jaggya!! 🤢...so i totally disagree with u...

moreover, while asking shiv to marry her she was very clear that she is asking bcoz her mother wanted this to happen!! and shiv knows this very well... from today's phone call it is very clear that he knows it that for anandi it is a compromise only! she does not love him!

i would not mind it if CVs will show shiv's outburst now..he is also a human being..i don think for a long time shiv will be able to bear a wife who does not love him but only did a compromise..i would be happy if one day shiv will show his pain to anandi!!..so i did not mind anandi's restlessness today!! 🤔



Mona agree with you...she always made it clear that she had no intentions to marry anyone.Its just that shes doing it out of helplessness.But I would say I would hate Shiv if he gets angry on Anandi at this point of time.First of all he really knew the reason shes entering into this relationship.Secondly she requested him but didnt put a knife on his throat to say yes.It was purely his choice.If he himself has chosen a girl who comes with past baggage he ought to handle it patiently.Else if he wanted a lovey dovey relationship it was better he had chosen someone else.He said yes for the marriage bcoz she finds anandi a perfect match for himself and his family.But the most precious things always come with a price tag.And the price he has to pay is gather that level of patience he hasnt even thought abt!If he ever wants to make a place in her heart...all he needs to do is be patient.Thats his biggest test.Well I wonder If my expectations from Shiv are too HIGH😆But I am sure he will fulfil them all and make me proud😎
Edited by Malika - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

aparna how can u say ki anandi ne dadisa se apni shadi ke liye protest nahi kiya usne yeh bhi kaha tha ki dadisa aapne mujhe vachan bhi diya phir bhi aap .pur jub anandi protest kur rahi thi tub bhi khuch members ko problem thi ki anandi ko badon se baat kurna nahi aata

Yes further more, her mother protested, that how could Anandi talk like that to her dadisa, when Anandi was angry on her...Her mother made her feel guilty, by telling her how much her in laws cared for her and are worried like them...She told her that she was lucky she got so good in laws which is true, because it is very rare in India that in laws take daughter in laws side and get her married...That made Anandi quite as she did not want to disrespect anyone and hurt her mother and she kept quite and said yes seeing her mother in pain...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

suchi, then she needs to take a stand with her mom's promise too.

anandi made the promise under the impression that bhago would get better.
she said "maa mei shaadi karoongi, aap please theek ho jao jaldi se" (or something like that)
Now two minutes after saying those words, bhago suddenly breathed her last.
I still feel that it was a "trick promise"
If anandi had known that her mom was going to die so soon, she would not have made that sort of promise to bhago.
She just did it with the hope that it would improve bhago's mental state.


She should decide once and for all what exactly she wants out of life. Jagya chapter is closed forever unless CVs think something really ridiculous and try to bring them together( I hope it does not happen).

That leaves her with Shiv and her promise to her mother.

If she thinks she is getting married just to keep her promise to her mother she needs to think not once,not twice but, thousand times.

So far I have seen her only thinking of her predicament,how she has been made to fulfill other people's wishes,so on and so forth.

Time has come so she needs to think of some body else too. She is walking into some one else's life. This relationship is not hers alone,somebody else also is deeply involved in this. There is a family involved in this.

It is not fair that you take every one for granted and think that your suffering,your problem,your prevarications are far more important to you.

If you can not make this judgement,then quit it. Do not punish somebody because you walked into a marriage with him without your heart in it.
He did no wrong and he does not deserve this treatment.
Please spare Shiv.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

Lavy,

I learned a little while ago that sarpanch's all over India only earn Rs 1000 per month. (one thousand) . It is a pittance and a token job.
She cannot live independently on that salary. She needs the financial infrastructure of the singhs.
I wish she had actually done a degree in social work and then joined an organization like oxfam or something where she could earn 12 lakhs per annum doing social work.


she is not staying at the haveli bcoz she needs financial support...she is not Ja or Go that she wants singh's money...she is staying there bcoz she loves them!!..have u heard the word LOVE ever in ur life?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

aparna how can u say ki anandi ne dadisa se apni shadi ke liye protest nahi kiya usne yeh bhi kaha tha ki dadisa aapne mujhe vachan bhi diya phir bhi aap .pur jub anandi protest kur rahi thi tub bhi khuch members ko problem thi ki anandi ko badon se baat kurna nahi aata


After that protest DS went behind her back and manipulated a very ill Bhago and got her to say what she wanted Anandi to hear.
Anandi realised that it was DS who made her mother say all those things yet she shouted at her mother.
Now she has no option but has to marry against her wishes.
Not even once did she say to DS that it is all happening because of her.

She is showing anger at herself her situation at Shiv for agreeing to marry her and his parents for accepting her

Why is Anandi not showing her anger to DS who is the root cause of all this mess in her life????
Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago

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