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Posted: 13 years ago
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😲...but it has shown in today's episode that she is doing it for her mother only!! yes she is doing a favor to everyone! but she did not run and blame everyone that u guys r destroying my life!! she was just crying alone inside the room..trying to lightening the bojh everyone putting on her!!..that was her outburst...which i think is very normal and today anandi became more real to me for this!!

she never wanted to marry anyone..but everyone forced her actually..no one here is asking her what she wants but just expecting her to marry shiv!! the circumstances now is so that she is not able to understand what she should do...and her ultimate decision is that she wants to fulfill her mother's last wish...that is what was shown today i think..not that anandi still loves jaggya!! 🤢...so i totally disagree with u...

moreover, while asking shiv to marry her she was very clear that she is asking bcoz her mother wanted this to happen!! and shiv knows this very well... from today's phone call it is very clear that he knows it that for anandi it is a compromise only! she does not love him!

i would not mind it if CVs will show shiv's outburst now..he is also a human being..i don think for a long time shiv will be able to bear a wife who does not love him but only did a compromise..i would be happy if one day shiv will show his pain to anandi!!..so i did not mind anandi's restlessness today!! 🤔

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know.. She did speak to shiv afterwards, did react to him politely and its clear she is not angry with him. She is angry with her own situation and the mess she is in. She will react to it in private. She did not brood about it in public ...so even if she is displeased it will be her own inner battle...

She will try her best to giver her 100% to Shiv and his family.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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suchi, then she needs to take a stand with her mom's promise too.
anandi made the promise under the impression that bhago would get better.
she said "maa mei shaadi karoongi, aap please theek ho jao jaldi se" (or something like that)
Now two minutes after saying those words, bhago suddenly breathed her last.
I still feel that it was a "trick promise"
If anandi had known that her mom was going to die so soon, she would not have made that sort of promise to bhago.
She just did it with the hope that it would improve bhago's mental state.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

My main irritation is with her today when she says "My wishes have no meaning, I am just like a leaf being blown wherever the wind blows. I have to listen to other people's wishes"

My reply to that is "so cut it out!"
start asserting your wishes anandi. Tell them what you want, and if they dont agree, then be prepared to take a stand.
Take the stand that you will leave the haveli if they dont listen to your wishes.
No, but you want to stay in the haveli under the mental handcuffs of dadisa and bhairon. And then complain.


she is not complaining...she is just can't make her mind...she is compromising...and to do the compromise she needs strength!! today she was just trying to gather the strength inside her..was it so wrong? 😔

she can't take a stand now tinoo..she took a stand when first time she came to know that DS is planning for her marriage..but now she can't...as it was her mother's last wish!!...this is what i got from today's episode..for me today's one was less disgusting than yesterday's...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Am with tinoo on this one Suchi. I understand that she needs time to heal..then SPELL IT OUT CLEARLY.

Tell your family not to take it fast and that she needs time to heal and understand Shiv. Or walk out stay with your dad and work. She knows to give weird dialogues like Jetsar and me are soo much in love, then walk out and live alone in Jetsar on your Sarpanch bitiya salary.

She cant do all this. She is Anandi remember - Devi ma - She will kill her feelings, her thoughts and live for the sake of other's happiness. This ofcourse does not apply to Shiv. Shiv can be treated like crap because he loves her. Only she is entitled to keep loving, no one else can.

Sorry for the rant. Am super pissed with her atttitude today.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi remembered the scene where Bhairon told that he found Sita for his Ram and then remembered the scene where CM tells that now Anandi is our daughter...She is connecting both the marriages, where the decision of her life was taken out of her hands...That was the reason she throwed away the necklace in anger, because the Ram which Bhairon had choosen for her had destroyed her life and now some one else was saying the same and she in her anger is comparing Jagya and Shiv in same balance...But then she remembered the promise and her mistake and took back the necklace and respected it putting it to her head, knowing she needs to fulfil her duty...! Though she was sad, she did call Shiv, out of respect and he understood her anger...And he understood her emotions as well as shock...He himself said that he was shocked by what ever happened so suddenly and asked for forgiveness...He understood her delima completely and that is the reason he told to himself, that it was why I wanted to give her more time and now he got 4 months...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't know tinoo..
the thing is Anandi feels guilty that its her fault that her mother died. If her relationship would have been better. if she did something else, which might have not lead to her broken marriage her mother would be still alive.

Plus her anger on herself for not being there for her mother in her last days...

Anandi def. feels guilty, ashamed, low self-esteem , cause of what jagya did to her. Does not matter if it was her fault or his... that act left her void ... so even though she dislikes jagya now (bhabut scene.. she actually wished bad for him) her inner conscious has related his betrayal to her mother's demise.

So she thinks that if she were happily married, then her mother would not have died. So its no longer , her want to be with jagya... its about what lead to her mothers death.

She has a HUGe guilt that she is carrying and for that, she really really wants her mother's last wishes to be fulfilled. SO that she may feel relieved of some of the burden.

Which she clearly stated during her proposal to shiv. That is why when shiv said , we should give some time for marriage, she reacted immediately and kind of coerced that , no please do not say that. I really want the marriage to happen.

So I do not think she can take a stand against that wish, because the fulfillment of that wish is the only way she can feel the pressure of guilt reduced.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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and i am pissed off unecessary anandi criticism by some members .didn'nt she said koi baat nahi to shiv when shiv was apologing to anandi for suddenly coming .arey aadhey scene pur kyon comment karte ho poore scene pe comment karo na .
Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why is Anandi not taking up the issue with Dadisa?She is the one who is walking over everybody's wishes in order to redeem herself ?
Apart from that protest on that day when she got to know of her plans she has not done anything.
She got so angry with her mother when she clearly knew it was DS who made her mother say all these things to her.
When is she going to tell DS to stop meddling with her life?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The thing is Anandi felt everything was happening so fast- which indeed was, but why did she ask Shiv to hurry up for marriage? She need not have rushed then.
Her mental position can be understood but if it was only a matter of time then she should have waited instead of rushing.

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