I have had enough! - Page 5

nika jub anandi ne doobara necklace ko apne maathe se lagaya aur pehna tub uske baare aapka kya khayal hai

Monamie, its not about what she said and what she didnt say.

plz do not defend anandi she had done a very bad thing to tear the neck piece and look at her attitude plz she begged him for marriage and now ?
I'm a anandi fan but today I also will not support her silly mistake and I am agree with you @ iloveidiotbox

Originally posted by: surabhi01

nika jub anandi ne doobara necklace ko apne maathe se lagaya aur pehna tub uske baare aapka kya khayal hai

now this is too much tinoo anandi change attitude after some time but still u go on critizing anandi that anandi should have done this why anandi is behaving like this

Originally posted by: tinoo

yes, yes. she is staying there out of LOVE.

But that doesnt change the fact that if she ever did want to get out of the haveli because their LOVE was suffocating her and forcing her into things that she didnt want to do, then she cant do so because she does not have financial independence.

surabhi, it is not about the necklace at all. whether she puts it on or not doesnt matter in the broader scheme of things.

Originally posted by: monamie111

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okay i am giving up...bcoz i don want to argue anymore here where assuming something is a fact!!...i know u don need any excuse tinoo..even if she would walk out of the family and would live alone someday u all would have found another reasons to criticize anandi...that she does not care for her family, she is not looking after them etc etc...

so does not matter what she does...but here in this forum anandi is criticized for her each and every action!!

monamie,

I read all the discussions here. I partly agree with every one.

A is going through a very tough phase in her life, her divorce, her mother's death and then this forced marriage. All these turn of events are taking place so quickly that it is difficult for her to grasp everything and understand what is hitting her. Moreover these things are all closely related to her life and all of this is happening without her consent. Till this point I have full sympathy with her. I understand her restlessness, her fear to get into another relationship and the uncertainty that it holds. I feel very bad for her till this point.

I am pretty sure that she no longer loves J. He was more of a habit for her and she is basically exhausted emotionally. All her memories unfortunately are connected to him which she needs to put an end to or leave it behind her before she thinks of fulfilling her mother's promise.

The decision to fulfill her mother's last wish i.e. her marriage is HER decision. She could have very well taken time to get married to Shiv rather than rushing him to get married to her immediately and inform his parents too about it. It is not a small thing to get married. It involves alot of emotions not only of the two people involved but also their respective families. How is she thinking of doing justice to all this? When she asked him to inform his parents what did she expect him to tell them, oh I found a girl who is getting married to me only to fulfill her mother's last wish and not coz she loves me? She is already involving Shiv in her request to marry her. He is a human being with emotions and feelings and by this kind of a request is she doing him any justice? Its is fair? What is his fault in it? he told her to take time and don't make a decision in a hurry. Why was she in so much of a hurry then? She soothes her guilt, her mother's last wish is fulfilled, the Singhs are happy, but then what? What about Shiv and his family? Don't they have the right to see their child happily settled? The problem I have with her is she was in a big hurry and now she is not even ready to make a effort to accept the relationship whole-heartedly. Today she did show some change in behavior when she spoke to Shiv although not enough at all. But I feel at least in front of his family she needs to look happy, that's the least she can do in return for Shiv. Right now I see only him being supportive to her but she has not respected his sacrifice for her. She should not take him for granted.

Till now A's character has been very sensible so I am sure once she comes out of this trance she will realize how wrong she has been to Shiv and his family. If not then I quit watching a senseless show.