Was Nidhi being Selfish? - Page 5

Originally posted by: ssktlk

As for Ashu firing her in the beginning, was due to his realisation that he loved her, and guilt, he always pushed her away from himself, though am not justifying that.

But jus bcz of his realization of love n guilt he fired Nidhi n destroyed her future n career !! not fair !

Ashu waited 42 years for Nidhi without knowing whom he was waiting for, his life was an endless desert. But now that he has Nidhi and they love each other so deeply, its hard for him to wait, hence he said he thought his loneliness was gone, but its still there.

Am not blaming Ashu for his desire , as i said earlier that both AshNi r right 😊 But Ashu never ever talked about this after marriage ( about the baby ) until DB told him 😕 so i think its DB to b blamed for the baby issue .. oh DB 😡

btw , nice topic .. but still my pov is , Nidhi was NOT selfish 😊

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

I don't know about selfish but I found her thoughtless today on two occasions...

She is either not seeing or refusing to see that Ashutosh's consent to her desire is not wholehearted...what DB is able to ses, she is not for whatever reason...the minute she sees his face drop on the meniton of the B word, she says how can you be this way when we agreed not to talk about it for two years...and when he says he is unable to hide what is in his heart, then she says let us talk...which part of what she said is he supposed to take seriously...no wonder he said she won't understand...

The next morning, she sees him upset...and taunts him by saying that he was probably regretting not having driven a harder bargain...if this is not insensitive, then I don't know what is!

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Yh thts what i was meaning that.. i mite hv written wrongly quoting u.. but i personally feel its Ego.. 😊

Originally posted by: Ahlaweya

No , i dont think that Nidhi was selfish !! ya few of her behaviors were unlikable in y'day epi ( in the cabin scene with Ashu & DB ) , but she was not selfish at all !!

but am not saying that Ashu was wrong either , i think both AshNi r right in their places 😊 as we can understand Ashu's desire of having kids bcz he is getting aged n as Shyama aunty said , he wants to get his familly back through his kids 😳 but Nidhi is also right , bcz she wants to live her life n enjoy her married life with Ashu bfr being a mother n get more responsibilities 😊

i jus wanna say 1 thing to Ashu , ( itne saal intizar kar saka Pyaar k liye , toh sirf 2 saal intizar karlo Bache k liye ! what the big deal !!! ) 😉

about this thing , i kinda disagree with u ! ya Nidhi was sitting at home since long without working again in a hospital , but she had many reasons ..

as bfr marriage :- firstly , some how Ashu was responsible for that .. bcz he fired her bcz of his anger n stupidity 😡 but after that Nidhi at least tried to get some jobs but she was rejected as she was fired frm her ex job !! ( remember that day when she went for IV , n Rohan went to take her frm there for the 1st time n both repaired her car's wheel ) !
n yes she also got a job at Dr.Sunil's hospital but it was bcz of Ashu's recommendation !! so it was next to impossible for Nidhi to get a job as doc bcz she was fired frm her ex hospital .. n fired ppl doesnt gets job easily !! n after breakup , i dont remember if any 1 frm her family encouraged her to get back to work .. its only Ashu who suggested Rohan , n Rohan took her to jevan sandya ! ( n Nidhi got accepted there bcz they needed a doc n it was not a hospital ) ..

n as after marriage :- in the first days of her marriage Nidhi dint thought about it as she was a new dulhan n she wanted to spend her time only with Ashu 😳 but after few days Mallu came 😡 so Nidhi was only thinking about her n dint got to think abt any thing else !! n Ashu was there in the home all that long so she dint missed him ..
but after Mallu's exit , n Ashu resuming his duty , the home was suna suna so she felt lonely n started missing Ashu !! n she knew the value of the work so that y she rejoined the hospital 😊

NOT to escape from responsibilities !!!

thats my POV 😉