anavisalwan
That would be too easy, and Jyoti's favorite hobby of building and managing rishtas w/ people who hate her would not be realized. Yeah, she had the perfect solution in front of her - just agree to marry Kabir in Udaipur, and there'd have been no question of her entering the haveli. Instead, now she can go head on w/ chachi-sa, and icing on the cake - try & force Vikrant to marry Reshmi, which will improve her relations w/ the family even more.
W/ your pecking order above, I'd exclude Asha & Bhavri from the list, as they were probably just forcibly married off to Sumer & Raghu. I consider Vikrant as worse than Raghu: Raghu at least tries to manage things and has been w/ Bhavri since the start, while Vikrant has secretly married and impregnated Reshmi, and then abandoned her. He belongs up there w/ his mom. Also, I hate chachi even more than RP - not only does she want RP's seat for Vikrant, she wants to force feed Ragini down Kabir's throat. I hope that unlike w/ cm, Jyoti shows her her place early enough.