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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

I think this is the way Suhana would behave which ever house she goes to, high class or middle class. And even if she was married to a high class family, I dont think those people would also be interested in tolerating such behaviour. So its not just about the Kashyaps, if KK had to consider her prospective in-laws family as far as Suhana's behaviour goes, it would be better he doesnt get married her at all 😆!

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Good one...

But I liked Suhana yesterday. She was really getting irritated with so many people in the room. It would have been better if there is no AC only. Though I am not against JF, I wont like if someone comes and use my lipstic (even if it is my own sis) .... I may be wrong.

Liked Badi ma's words then. She was asking everyone to go out of the room, but told very firmly about keeping the child there itself. She is a great lady.

No one is wrong actually. Everyone is right from their POV. Suhana is brought up in such an environment and naturally she doesnt know and didnt anticipate this, KK being a great father wanted to fill his daughter's life with happiness, Ishan's family bought AC thinking that they will keep Suhana happy (without any selfish motives), Disha & Rajni getting irritated because they cant spend their time in Suhana's room and why she is diff, Bua thinking of Ishan and his happiness.....

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Pallavi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#133

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Very well said serieljunkie 😊. I agree with you, its close to impossible trying to change someone's belief system, especially as far as God & similar topics are concerned. Infact lot of people have tried to change his attitude, including myself, but has always been a futile effort. So nowadays, we dont bother much. As they say, we agree to disagree 😉.

I especially like your last paragraph regarding atheists and theists, that theists are the people who strategically try to undo the ills of wrong deeds through prayers and mannats (I use the term 'bribe' for the same 😆).

And through experience, I have seen that lot of people who do wrong deeds are the ones who are more religious, indulging in regular pooja phats, temple visits to far off places, etc. On the other hand as I have mentioned, my uncle is one of the most straight forward and sincere people I have met in my life. So I do believe even if he doesnt want to believe in God, its still fine. As at the end of the day, God also accounts for only your deeds and not the number of times you have visited his temples, mosques or churches. I think that would be called Spirituality 😉.

Yes, totally agree with you both.

Actually we shouldnt question the belief system of others. Each one is free to have their own beliefs and perceptions as long as the person is good and his/her beliefs doesnt harm others. Even my father doesnt believe much in religion (I feel it is mainly because of the fights taking place in the name of religion). I dont know whether he believes in god or not. Because I have never seen him going to temples. But at the same time, he doesnt stop any of us going to the temples and he doesnt stop us from celebrating the festivals and doing pooja. He has never argued with us about the existence of god but he always argues about the fights taking place in the name of religion. And he is such a great person, always there to help any one in need. And his love for children is beyond words.

So we should judge a person by his actions and not by his beliefs. And no point in arguing about their beliefs as it doesnt trouble any one.

Edited by reguser - 15 years ago