Romanticising & infantilizing Anupamaa's braindead traits.. - Page 2

No women should aspire to be like doormat anupama who has no ability to come out of abusive EX in law house! She is good for nothing ! Lady with suicidal attitude! 🤢

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And it is not about dumbness. It is about faireness from anupama side.

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To yahaan baat dumbness or great ness ki nahin yahan baat fairnes ki hai. Anupama apni taraf se fair rahi to anupama koi question nahin kar paayega ki tum aisa, karti thi isliye saamne wala, tumhare saath aisa misbehave karta, tha

Fairness?! Anupama is fair? How so?

Samar was ridiculed as loser by his siblings and his rev.father openly in front of everyone. I recall seeing Baa also nodding her head and joining in the banter. We see the dad high fiving his kids Toshu & Pakhi on that comment. What kind of a sick father does that?

What should a mother ( or anyone, but moreso a mom!) do in this situation. At least tell her other kids - Toshu & Pakhi not insult their brother. It is wrong on many grounds to be a mute spectator. "maa hoon ne... " bhashan dene se achchi maa nahi ban jati hai.

On top of this, time and again she keeps telling everyone that Vanraj is a good father? How so?

Reg. Samar opening up to Anuj instead of his dad to solve Rohan's prob speaks volumes of impact the mild abuse that he has been put through over the years.

Anupama dealing with baa. It does not always have to be either extreme. She does not have to bend backwards to please baa nor pick a fight with her all the time. There is something called a middle ground, if baa does/says something wrong she should call it out and not just let it pass!

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Yes, thank you!

Characters like Anupamaa perpetuate such harmful expectations from women in our society.

Women see Anu & aspire to be like that. If they too dumb themselves down, stay docile, & walk right into abuse in the name of family.. They will be put on a pedestal & be called 'mahaan'. Men look at Anu & get a hard-on. Aspiring to date/marry dependent, all-forgiving, willing-to-get-manipulated women like her.

These are not feminine virtues! Sita Mata was the manifestation of womanhood.. And even she went back to Dharti Maata instead of living in a lack of respect. That is aspirational femininity & motherhood! Not whatever Anupamaa gets called mahaan for.

I LOVE that they have a character like Devika who shows Anu the mirror. But would really appreciate if she started calling Anu dumb instead of mahaan.

Sitaji had never accepted to going back to Ayodhya. She had forgiven everyone but never forgotten how they disrespected her so went back to dharti mata ! Sitaji bhi maa thi ! Sitaji mai bhi mamta thi !

Anupama acts like she is only mother on this planet who has children and feels herself as epitome of motherhood! No self respect no self worth🤢

Lagta hai anupama ne kabhi Ramayana and Mahabharata nahi padhi hai ! Sita mata and draupadi se 0.5% bhi kuch inspiration liya hota toh Aj bhi EX sasural mai bina self respect ke padi nahi hoti !

As I said this lady is good for nothing !

As i told if u go to lawyer th then lawyer bhi client ko apni taraf se fair hone ko kehnta, hai. Yahan fair hone ka matlab hai apna, part safe rakhna,

Yahan pur vanraj good father hai iski baat kahan se aa gayi.

Yahan to hum anupama ko apna part safe rakhne ki baat kar rahe they

Saamne wale chahe lakh galat ho but apna part हमेशा safe rakhna chahiye taaki saamne wala galti na, nikaal paaye. Yahi anupama ne kiya ki usne agar samar ko bola, ki vanraj ko bata, do to aise anupama ka samar ka part safe kar diya. Ab vanraj samar ko yeh nahin keh paayega, ki tumne mujhe bataya, nahin

Ab agar vanraj anupama Aur samar pur blame lagya, ki tumne mujhe bataya, nahin to samar aur anupama ke paas jawab to hoga, ki blood relatiion ship hone ke naate bataya to tha but kya, kiya

Apna part safe rakhna galat nahin hota hai jo anupama kar rahi hai hai .

I have seen real life samne wala opposite client khuch bhi jhooth ya blame lagata, hans but lawyer हमेशा apne client se bolte hai ki aap shant rahiye aap. React mut karo woh aisa, isliye bolte hai अगर client ne doosre client ki jhoothi baat ko sunkar react kiya ya shout kiya to judge uske against jaa sakte hai

U first understand post before replying. Anupama ne samar ko isliye nahi bola ki vanraj ko ki woh good father hai agar samar batayega to vanraj help. Kar hi dega. Yahan pur anupama ne samar ko vanraj ko isliye batane ko. Bola taaki samar ka part safe ho jaaye

Anupama ko Iski topi uske sar bolne se pehle Jan to lo puri baat Factory ko bachane ke liye sirf raat tak ka time tha so aise mai wo rakhi ke pass odd time pe gayi kyu ke ghar mai sab ne apna thikra anu pe foda..anu ko panic attack hua aur fir you know rakhi ne fir kavya kinjal ne kya kiya 🤔

Anupama aur uske jaisi lakho ladies hai jo bahar ki duniya se bekhabar hai...mai khud check book leke apartment manager ke pass gayi thi ke check kaise bhagte hai yaha Canada mai so above 40 50 years ladies not dumb but not experienced

Draupadi ne to aswathama ko jisne draupadi ke paanch bete ko mar diya ( pandav ke dhokhe mein aakar aswathama ne unko mar diya)

To jub arjun draupadi ke saamne aswathana, ko lekar aaye to draupadi ne aswathama ko forgive kar diya aur draupadi ko aswathama ki haalat dekhkar kar aswathama pe daya aa gayi aur isliye bhi draupadi ne aswathama ko maaf kar diya kyonki woh guru ke bete they

Sita maa ka dharti pe jaana bus ek lok leela thi. In realty mein sita maa dharti pe jaa kur phir paatal ke raste se kheer sagar chali gayi

Jo ram aur seeta, ne jo khuch kiya woh bus ek lok leela thi jo ram aur seeta ne already ek doosrr se man hi man decide kar liya tha . Yeh lok leela isliye bhi rachi taaki logon ko secret bare mein pata na chale

Like lord ram took agni pariksha of seeta not because to proove chasity of seeta, but because in arnaya kand of ram charitra manas ram tod now it is time to full fill my aim of my incarnation like killing demon. So he ask real. Sita to hide in fire aur maya sita is created

And maya sita, was kidnap by ravan. And so ram actuually ask maya sita, to enter fire so when maya sita enter fire and real sita came out fronm fire aur yeh secret hi raha ki ravaani ke yahan real sita nahin ek maya sita thi aur log yeh samjhate rahe ki sita ne pariksha paas, kar liya jub ki realty khuch aur hi thi yeh pariksha nahin balki jo fire mein real sita, baithi unhe bahar nikalna tha

To ordinary Human fictional charcter aur bhagwaan mata, sita draupadi ka koi comparison na ho to better hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Draupadi ne to aswathama ko jisne draupadi ke paanch bete ko mar diya ( pandav ke dhokhe mein aakar aswathama ne unko mar diya)

To jub arjun draupadi ke saamne aswathana, ko lekar aaye to draupadi ne aswathama ko forgive kar diya aur draupadi ko aswathama ki haalat dekhkar kar aswathama pe daya aa gayi aur isliye bhi draupadi ne aswathama ko maaf kar diya kyonki woh guru ke bete they

Sita maa ka dharti pe jaana bus ek lok leela thi. In realty mein sita maa dharti pe jaa kur phir paatal ke raste se kheer sagar chali gayi

Jo ram aur seeta, ne jo khuch kiya woh bus ek lok leela thi jo ram aur seeta ne already ek doosrr se man hi man decide kar liya tha . Yeh lok leela isliye bhi rachi taaki logon ko secret bare mein pata na chale

Like lord ram took agni pariksha of seeta not because to proove chasity of seeta, but because in arnaya kand of ram charitra manas ram tod now it is time to full fill my aim of my incarnation like killing demon. So he ask real. Sita to hide in fire aur maya sita is created

And maya sita, was kidnap by ravan. And so ram actuually ask maya sita, to enter fire so when maya sita enter fire and real sita came out fronm fire aur yeh secret hi raha ki ravaani ke yahan real sita nahin ek maya sita thi aur log yeh samjhate rahe ki sita ne pariksha paas, kar liya jub ki realty khuch aur hi thi yeh pariksha nahin balki jo fire mein real sita, baithi unhe bahar nikalna tha

To ordinary Human fictional charcter aur bhagwaan mata, sita draupadi ka koi comparison na ho to better hai

Log bhagvat Geeta se sikh lete hai , Ramayana se sikh lete hai , Mahabharat se sikh lete hai ! Kyunki yeh sab jivan mai sahi marg dikhane ka kam karte hai !

Yeh sach hai sitaji bhoomija thi aur Ayodhya wapas jaane ke badle apne self respect ke liye Bhoomi mai sama gayi ! Woh sansar ki women ko jo sandesha dena chahti woh unho ne de diya ki har stree ko apne self respect ko sab se uper rakhna chahiye!

Sitaji ka Bhoomi mai sama jana chahe Lok Leela ho yah pre-planned execution ho ! It doesn’t matter because crux of the story is she never returned to Ayodhya !

Ofcourse doormat fictional character jisko rock star portray kiya Jaya hai , Wonder Woman portray kiya jata hai , strong and independent portray kiya jata hai uski asli auukat dekhne ke liye sita mata and Draupadi ko yaad karna he padta hai !

Agar sansar ki stri ko kuch inspiration lena ho toh strong and independent sita mata se lena chahiye ! Ex sasural mai padi rehne wali doormat anupama ko strong/independent bol kar sita mata ke sacrifice ka aur unke diye sandeshe ka apman nahi karna chahiye!

Why he should warn anupama to keep vanraj away.

Kya anupama ne vanraj ko bola tha ki tum havan mein aao aur aisa tamasha karo

So on what basis anuj should warn anupama. Vanraj to havan mein aane wala kya iska, pata anupama ko tha??

Kya, vanraj ne nahin bola tha ki woh havan mein nahin aa raha hai

Aur anuj kyon anupama ko warn kare

Kavya ko warn karna, must tha because now kavya is wife of vanraj aur kavya bhi vanraj ke galat kaam mein support karti hai

Haan anuj bilkul jaata, agar kisi doosre employee ke saath hota, because in one of episode when samar met with accident tub anuj ko pata bhi nahin tha ki samar anupama ka beta hai. Usne to samar ki aisi मदद ki thi . To isme anupama ko special treatment ki baat kahan se aa gayi

Anupama ko to yahi lagta hai anuj hai hi helping person naturre wala and it is fact jub anuj ko. Yeh nahin pata tha ki samar anupama ka beta hai tabhi anuj ne samar ki jaan bachai to anupama kyon samjhe ki anuj anupama ko special treatment de raha hai

Anupama ko special treatment mil raha hota to anuj anupama se yeh nahin kehta, ki maine pehle tumhare idea ko board ke saamne discuss karenge tub koi decisiion lenge

Jub anuj khud board se meeting se discuss karke anu ko पार्टनर banaya to kyon anupama samjhe ki anuj use special treatment de raha hai

. Yahan pur anuj ne kis angle se business mein special treatment diya hai anupama ko. Mujhe samajh nahin aaya,. Na to. Anuj ne yeh kaha ki tumhe jyada business ka share milega tum. Busc office mein 1 ghanta kaam karogi . Samajh mein nahin aaya mujhe aisa, kya special treatment diya jo anupama yeh samjhe ki ki baaki employee se use special treatment diya jaa raha hai??

Himne jo katha jo sunate hain unse suna hain ki bhagwan ki katha sunne padhne ke liye hoti aur uska chintan karne ke liye hoti hai but un katha unki nakal nahin karni chahiye

Sita ji bhale hi ayodhya na lauti ho but sita ke man mein tabhi ram ke liye bahut repect rahi th

To bhagwaan ki katha bahut deep hai jitna deep. Jaate hai utna naye vichaar aate hai to bhagwaan ki katha ko aur manushya ki katha ko ek doosre se door rakhe to better hai

Anupamaa is such a lost cause that I feel bad for Anuj...altho Anuj is no child and is now will fully degrading himself by showing up at Shah House at the drop of a hat

Anu can't recognize abuse I feel cause she will fully takes it at the hands of the entire Shah house...id say excluding Vanraj but she from time to time falls under old patterns

What's scary is how ppl say Anu is a role.model & inspires women..I don't get that 🤷🏻‍♀️