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Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold what does she know that she has the most Sharmila husband possible who is even scared to ask her to go on a trip 🤣. This all makes sense now , remember her imagining holi dance with Veeru which was way above Virats Sharmila standards🤣🤣.

@italic - haan neither of them will ask the other any questions directly and even if they do before they get an answer someone will show up at the door or they will somehow get distracted miraculously since it's not yet time to clear the misunderstanding as per the syllabus 🤣🤣

Such weird couple they are who talk about everything under the sun except for their issues. They cannot live without each other and need to keep pulling each other's hair to spend their days😂

Summed it up pretty well. If it's not Sai, it's Virat, if it's not Virat, it's chowkidar, if it's isn't chowkidar, it's KD syllabus - something will make sure they keep maintaining their jalebi shop.

@bold I'm imagining it literally🤣🤣

Super nethraa. It appears clear now to me 🤗

I did think sai bai is extracting a confession from him by using the deal word!!

And virat agreeing to her deal word for a moment appeared as though he is ok with whatever she thinks till she is there with him. Agree with giving space part.👍🏼

He is too detached with pakhi to even consider the previous kaand. Hawa mein ud rahan hain banda 😕.

Thanks for clarifying!

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Super nethraa. It appears clear now to me 🤗

I did think sai bai is extracting a confession from him by using the deal word!!

And virat agreeing to her deal word for a moment appeared as though he is ok with whatever she thinks till she is there with him. Agree with giving space part.👍🏼

He is too detached with pakhi to even consider the previous kaand. Hawa mein ud rahan hain banda 😕.

Thanks for clarifying!

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Originally posted by: tptwi

@Bold: Exactly! I brought up this same point during the college festival fight and the ring gifting too. She purposefully phrases her questions in a way that center around the zimidari, hoping that Virat will counter her and say that this marriage is real. But bechara is so scared of losing her and her reaction, that he always takes the easy or safe way out. In terms of what Virat said at the hospital, I actually have a slightly different take. When Virat says he wants this marriage to be real, Sai answers that what she wants should matter too. She is entirely vulnerable in that moment... she does not have her usual walls around her. She does not deny that she doesn't want the same thing...rather, she says that she won't go home with him. To me, this seemed like an indirect acceptance. However, she was in no state to truly take in the significance of that moment, hence why it has not affected her understanding nor her perception of their relationship in the long-run.

P.S.- this is exactly like the chilly grinding incident in my opinion as well!! Sai has been attached to Virat since the very beginning, and she has always wanted to be more than a zimidari to him. And, a part of her has always known that Virat treats her like a wife and a partner, not just some responsibility...hence her constant confusion and inability to understand him. She needs affirmation from him... she needs to hear all of this from his mouth. You know, I am always reminded of the pool fight whenever she tries to get Virat to blurt out his true feelings. All the moments leading up to the fight, she felt the reality of their relationship, but in that one moment, it was all shattered. She felt as though she had imagined it all. SaiRat have progressed a lot since then, but to me, the crux of Sai's behavior remains the same. A part of her just wants to make sure that she isn't imagining all of this, and the only way for this to happen is for Virat to tell her.

@bold Even in that fight ....she asks him "how can you step away from your vaada to Pakhi"? Jalebi Bai. 🤪

IPS topper misses all her tears, her disappointment and thinks she is asking a 'behuda savaal' assuming she is actually complaining that he broke his vaada with Pakhi?. Jalebi Bhai. (Is that really what he assumed?)

Sai was better during the ladakh fight - more direct. Too much exposure to Virat has interfered with her brain. 🤣

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

You know I understand the verbal confirmation part - until then she will still continue to be reticent. The only part that is weird is Sai using the deal, zimmedari word now. Virat did tell her in the hospital that he wants a real marriage - unless she was under sedatives she would have heard that. She might not have registered or processed the information at that time but she would have recalled it later on.

Sai was visibly nervous and happy at the same time about the trip. My reading is that by using these words zimmedari, deal etc she is testing if Virat will reiterate what he said at the hospital - to know if he really meant it. Basically she is waiting for him to make the first move.

I don't know why I'm reminded of the Pakhi chilly grinding incident - don't know if it is relevant. Sai argues with Virat that while he was quick to apply ice to Pakhi's hands, he waited to go to the drugstore to apply ice pack on her (Sai). But as Virat himself pointed out, he did infact offer to apply ice immediately, but in her anger Sai refused. At this Sai reacts irritated. 🤣I'm telling you Sai bai has lot of expectations from her pati. May be she has a very romanticised version of love - afterall she is a teenager.

Virat is another confusion. It looked like he is going through with his "sirf pati dharm nibhaunga" vow he made to Sunny in the hospital. When he expressed to Sai that he wanted a real marriage, Sai responded with saying that everything will not happen according to his whims, and that her wish is important too. So Virat is probably giving her space....wishing she will realize his love.

So jalebi pati patni will blissfully spend their entire life in this status quo - rather than do some straight talking.

Edit: As for informing Pakhi about the trip. I'm divided. Sai is probably wary of another drama like in the Ladakh trip. But Virat should have been more forthright in telling her clearly that Pakhi is not important. Especially since Sai knows of Virakhi past and that Sai feels bad when Virat talks to Pakhi.

Bold - Ghajini Chavan back in action🤣🤣

I totally agree the part about Sai’s mindset and I am even ok with both spinning jalebis, until they have candid and constructive communication on Virat’s past, the vaada and the deal marriage. Virat must explain this to her in clean and specific words, until then they will keep running in circles. Still I feel, the dialogue writers could have used better choice of words😒

There is no doubt that both are in love with each other and are inseparable, no matter what.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

@bold Even in that fight ....she asks him "how can you step away from your vaada to Pakhi"? Jalebi Bai. 🤪

IPS topper misses all her tears, her disappointment and thinks she is asking a 'behuda savaal' assuming she is actually complaining that he broke his vaada with Pakhi?. Jalebi Bhai. (Is that really what he assumed?)

Sai was better during the ladakh fight - more direct. Too much exposure to Virat has interfered with her brain. 🤣

sangathi ka Asar. Pati par poora lattoo hone se yahin hoga 😍🤗😅

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Super nethraa. It appears clear now to me 🤗

I did think sai bai is extracting a confession from him by using the deal word!!

And virat agreeing to her deal word for a moment appeared as though he is ok with whatever she thinks till she is there with him. Agree with giving space part.👍🏼

He is too detached with pakhi to even consider the previous kaand. Hawa mein ud rahan hain banda 😕.

Thanks for clarifying!

Definitely, her wanting Virat to confess and pushing him is part of it...

But the problem is that the insecurities remain, and they will be exacerbated by Samrat's return 😭 This is why we are still hearing the word zimidari in her monologues too...not just in her words to Virat...

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

@bold Even in that fight ....she asks him "how can you step away from your vaada to Pakhi"? Jalebi Bai. 🤪

IPS topper misses all her tears, her disappointment and thinks she is asking a 'behuda savaal' assuming she is actually complaining that he broke his vaada with Pakhi?. Jalebi Bhai. (Is that really what he assumed?)

Sai was better during the ladakh fight - more direct. Too much exposure to Virat has interfered with her brain. 🤣

@bolded: No, I think that fight really marked a turning point for Virat's understanding of how Sai feels about him. Maybe not in that moment, but once things have settled, he realized why Sai was so hurt. That is why he tried to force her to open up to him in the bedroom scene after he stopped her from leaving CN... and the smile on the idiot's face when Sai said that it bothers her when she talks to Pakhi... *eye roll*

These two are literally impossible...

Originally posted by: tptwi

Definitely, her wanting Virat to confess and pushing him is part of it...

But the problem is that the insecurities remain, and they will be exacerbated by Samrat's return 😭 This is why we are still hearing the word zimidari in her monologues too...not just in her words to Virat...

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Originally posted by: tptwi

@bolded: No, I think that fight really marked a turning point for Virat's understanding of how Sai feels about him. Maybe not in that moment, but once things have settled, he realized why Sai was so hurt. That is why he tried to force her to open up to him in the bedroom scene after he stopped her from leaving CN... and the smile on the idiot's face when Sai said that it bothers her when she talks to Pakhi... *eye roll*

These two are literally impossible...

I think he prods her feelings (regarding him talking to Pakhi) only after Sunny gives his gyan. Otherwise he was pretty clueless. Virat's reactions in both the post-Ladakh and post-poolside drama confuses me. I don't understand what he made of Sai's questions?