Originally posted by: Transference
Difference in Blessings!

For the first time, they catch a glimpse of each other without awkwardness of Pati-Patni! From Raavi dissing Shiva on their wedding night about how they cannot be together to a passive existence of a relationship both didn’t imagine themselves to be in. -They have come a long way.
Suman has been great with her advices till date for Shiva and Raavi! Most of the critical changes in their relationship are so beautifully guided by Suman, contrary to the whining, chiding and forcing of Dhara. Suman carries her years well, and I guess she has a massive weakness for Shiva. He being her spitting image in temperament. Honestly, despite her hideous patriarchal approach, Suman sounds so much saner to me than Dhara.
1. Marriage Ashirwaad: Suman asks Shiva to keep Raavi like a delicate doll. Keep her happy. She thanks Shiva for keeping up to his father's pride. To Raavi, she is speechless, just says, I wish nothing but happiness. No guided forcing about Shiva and her new life blah blah
2. Mandir Darshan-Instead of reprimanding Raavi for staying behind, she asks her to keep up her pace the next time.
3. Kidnapping MU-She rants but not even once scolds Raavi directly for badmouthing Shiva. She explains the Love of Family and The respect They shall Always give her. The choice of leaving was given to her.
4. Chain scene-She gives a life lesson about how the husband-wife fall and hold each other.
5. Post-Khandahar Kand Ashiwad-Both of you become husband and wife.
6. Dining Table-Kam-jyada food example to nurture Husband wife relationship.
Now, if you compare all this with Dhara and her whining, crying and drama, it was all about forcing
Main Tujhe Lise Nahi Dekh Sakti... And Tu kapde Kyun Nahi Dhoti... Etc.
That's why my hatred for Dhara. She has a saviour complex, and she thinks whatever she is doing is for her welfare. I wish Dhara's actions were not justified.
Compare this to this: Suman still seems MIGHTY pissed.
