Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #19 - Page 61

Originally posted by: frnd_ship

Nahi now she knows ab har credit equally baantna padega usko rishu k sath warna maha saas uska Saas Lena muhaal krdegi

Yeh b sahi hai😆

Dhara ki udasi ka karan( copied from Miss SR post)

- Shiva went from wanting to eat only his bhabi's food to getting served by his wife. Now that there's no batwara he's under no obligations to eat her food but he does! He doesn't ask for his bhabi's one! He eats the one specifically made by Raavi

Aur dusra devar khana chor kar hi chla gya kahan toh woh biwi ko akela chor k khana khane Aa gya tha apni family k sath😛😎

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Yes...I am free tonight...will start doing from today's episode😆

Today was start of PS season 2🤣

Hotstar’s description be like:

Pandya Store Season 2
Welcome abroad the new and improved Pandya Store 🚂 . Where the kesar has left Dhara and entered Anita! Where Dev is now the one to romance and Rishita is the only to say “Bas Dev, our family is here!” Where Rishita lends clothes to Raavi and her poor husband is confused, leading to Dev and Raavi touches! Where Raavi decides to dress fashionably to seduce her husband and it fails because Shiva trembles whenever he sees her. Where Kaka is stuck as a forever laborer of Pandya Store as the Pandya family continue their vacation snooze fest.

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I don’t trust Ravi bhaiyya😏 what did he say hum toh sirf ShiVi scene shoot kar rahe hai! Kaha hai sirf ShiVi scene? And Akshay goes on a leave still he is seen in every scene!! How did this chamatkar happen??😳😳

Special aashirwaad from dhara devi toh apna favorite bachha

Originally posted by: Transference

This is so beautiful ❤️❤️

Well, I need to tell you that this has been my biggest pet peeve that they have generalised each couple’s reaction based on Gaura’s journey.

I rewatched the food serving scene and yikes, it again reminded me of the sexist comment from Hum Saath Saath hain...

“Jahan ghar ki ladies aur bacchiyan mil kar khana khilaye wohi ghar ghar hai”

Yikes! A compassionate Shiva would have scolded her for her kitchen adventures. I wouldn’t have minded a dialogue like: “ Aye Marne ki Dukaan’ Abhi thodi der pehle mar Rahi thi, ab Khane mein Zehar mila kar Mujhe bhi maregi Kya.

He could have asked her to sit and force feed her: Yeh Zehar na pehle Tu kha



Yikes!!! I hate this domesticated nonsense!

Raavi should have been sitting at the table with them or in her room sleeping with Shiva mentioning he’ll take some food for her later (Krish could have teased a bit and maybe even mentioned the kachori thing too). This could have led to Shiva’s solo scene later on where he thinks back about his concern for Raavi and how scary it was to almost lose her.

In either case, they could have shown Rishita serving and making up for her pehli rasoi (just for the sake of tradition or to show she deserves her own temple in the future). Her giving Dev some attention while Raavi & Shiva eat in silence/share a few awkward lines (if they take the first route). Gaumbi could have whispered to Dhara that he has something important to discuss with her and they could have gone from there.

Just woke up so my thoughts are a bit all of the place. Hope this makes sense 😆

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Yes...I am free tonight...will start doing from today's episode😆

Today was start of PS season 2🤣

Mereko laga hotstar ne season 2 category main daal diya aaj ka episode so i went to check wahan pe dhara ko mahasaas ko gale lagate dekh ek baar mereko laga jaise woh rone ki acting karte karte mahasaas ka gala daba degi

Difference in Blessings!

For the first time, they catch a glimpse of each other without awkwardness of Pati-Patni! From Raavi dissing Shiva on their wedding night about how they cannot be together to a passive existence of a relationship both didn’t imagine themselves to be in. -They have come a long way.
Suman has been great with her advices till date for Shiva and Raavi! Most of the critical changes in their relationship are so beautifully guided by Suman, contrary to the whining, chiding and forcing of Dhara. Suman carries her years well, and I guess she has a massive weakness for Shiva. He being her spitting image in temperament. Honestly, despite her hideous patriarchal approach, Suman sounds so much saner to me than Dhara.

1. Marriage Ashirwaad: Suman asks Shiva to keep Raavi like a delicate doll. Keep her happy. She thanks Shiva for keeping up to his father's pride. To Raavi, she is speechless, just says, I wish nothing but happiness. No guided forcing about Shiva and her new life blah blah

2. Mandir Darshan-Instead of reprimanding Raavi for staying behind, she asks her to keep up her pace the next time.

3. Kidnapping MU-She rants but not even once scolds Raavi directly for badmouthing Shiva. She explains the Love of Family and The respect They shall Always give her. The choice of leaving was given to her.

4. Chain scene-She gives a life lesson about how the husband-wife fall and hold each other.

5. Post-Khandahar Kand Ashiwad-Both of you become husband and wife.

6. Dining Table-Kam-jyada food example to nurture Husband wife relationship.

Now, if you compare all this with Dhara and her whining, crying and drama, it was all about forcing

Main Tujhe Lise Nahi Dekh Sakti... And Tu kapde Kyun Nahi Dhoti... Etc.

That's why my hatred for Dhara. She has a saviour complex, and she thinks whatever she is doing is for her welfare. I wish Dhara's actions were not justified.

Compare this to this: Suman still seems MIGHTY pissed.

Originally posted by: nafees5

Haan khoob kausa usko maine.. She ruined those beautiful moon shots🤣

Hahaha this is a case of karma then 😂

i’m not so strong as you guys I did watch it 🤣
it was indeed a beautiful shot! When they filmed from above, the place looked magical. It gaves me some reassurance that they still can create beautiful shots.

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

https://www.instagram.com/p/CP-UrA5h_wy/?utm_medium=copy_link

She looks sooo pretty! And that dress is beautiful! ❤️Now I’m 100% sure that Rishita lent her some of her clothes 😂 They’re similar in type 😂😂

She looks so pretty here... it reminds me kind of the blue and white dress she wore during the haldi scene! Will this oil scene happen here too 🤔 Will she see Anita pouring the oil, and then Shiva sauntering over in her periphery while stretching and decide the oil will be the best way to diffuse the tension between them as danger seems to always work 🤣

Originally posted by: Transference

Difference in Blessings!

For the first time, they catch a glimpse of each other without awkwardness of Pati-Patni! From Raavi dissing Shiva on their wedding night about how they cannot be together to a passive existence of a relationship both didn’t imagine themselves to be in. -They have come a long way.
Suman has been great with her advices till date for Shiva and Raavi! Most of the critical changes in their relationship are so beautifully guided by Suman, contrary to the whining, chiding and forcing of Dhara. Suman carries her years well, and I guess she has a massive weakness for Shiva. He being her spitting image in temperament. Honestly, despite her hideous patriarchal approach, Suman sounds so much saner to me than Dhara.

1. Marriage Ashirwaad: Suman asks Shiva to keep Raavi like a delicate doll. Keep her happy. She thanks Shiva for keeping up to his father's pride. To Raavi, she is speechless, just says, I wish nothing but happiness. No guided forcing about Shiva and her new life blah blah

2. Mandir Darshan-Instead of reprimanding Raavi for staying behind, she asks her to keep up her pace the next time.

3. Kidnapping MU-She rants but not even once scolds Raavi directly for badmouthing Shiva. She explains the Love of Family and The respect They shall Always give her. The choice of leaving was given to her.

4. Chain scene-She gives a life lesson about how the husband-wife fall and hold each other.

5. Post-Khandahar Kand Ashiwad-Both of you become husband and wife.

6. Dining Table-Kam-jyada food example to nurture Husband wife relationship.

Now, if you compare all this with Dhara and her whining, crying and drama, it was all about getting.

Main Tujhe Lise Nahi Dekh Sakti... And Tu kapde Kyun Nahi Dhoti... Etc.

That's why my hatred for Dhara. She has a saviour complex, and she thinks whatever she is doing is for her welfare. I wish Dhara's actions were not justified.

Compare this to this: Suman still seems MIGHTY pissed.

Excellent observation as usual! Suman provided much better advice and guidance when it comes to ShiVi. I love that she doesn’t tell them what to do. Rather she teaches them a lesson and allows them to interpret it. That’s how it should be. You can’t use one template for every couple. Even with DevTa, she approaches it differently. Each ashirvaad scene was unique per the situation and based on the couple.

Suman does have a huge weakness for Shiva. She understands his burden of carrying so much while not being able to shed a tear. She doesn’t let everyone into her innermost thoughts either. Suman knows how overwhelming that can be which is why she’s grateful that Raavi is there and is silently asking her to be compassionate and loving towards Shiva.

With Dhara, I think Suman appreciates all she has done but can’t deal with her OTT nautanki. I did notice her expressions during GauRa ashirvaad. Let’s see if this comes back into the story and how.