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Posted: 4 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Well Sai never supported him.. though she knew the plan definitely..Multiple times she told him to inform Patralekha about her coming along with them, but he said he will take care.. She did not support him in his plan..She agreed to be with him... That was wrong decision and he was rightly blamed for it..Even his friend stopped him from going forward with it...

Hey Asmi

Exactly. The decision was Virat’s and he was wrong there. Sai was aware but it was not her place to clarify. She wasn’t the decision maker there. Infact she anticipated Pakhi’s reaction better than Virat. She was sure the decision wouldn’t go down well with the family and she would be receiving taunts for the same. He said he will take care, but failed to. He didn’t weigh the outcome. He should have been more thoughtful. Its was an impulsive, stupid decision. I believe he was rightly blamed for it. Sunny also warned him, the reaction was expected. He should have thought this through

But my biggest issue with the track was Virat deciding for both woman and assuming they would be okay with his decision. He can’t force his decision on them the last min. Pakhi too deserved to know. Her consent matters as well. Hiding the matter did no good and further led to kaku & evil gang insulting Sai. Well his intentions might be right but friendship is not something that can be forced. Pakhi and Sai are adults and with widely diff traits. There’s no way they would have been friends. He shouldn’t have tried to impose what he felt to be the ‘right decision’. Their consent matters. Also Pakhi is really Sai’s abuser (masala grinding), they can’t be friends. Rightly so later at a point of time Sai did ask him why are you forcing me to be friends with Pakhi?

This is an issue I have found with Virat. His intentions are at the right place but then he takes impulsive decision which ends up being more harmful. Eg: Vada to Pakhi thinking that’s the best option for Samrat. Well doesn’t matter however good Virat’s intentions are has he has no authority to decide for others. He should have communicated.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I read in timeline something in original sunny insulated emon coz she was trying to reunite him with his parents aisa hi kuch hua tha , so maybe harini will insult sai.


God save virat .


Yes it was in original.


Seriously God save Virat 😬🙏🏻

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Posted: 4 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I read in timeline something in original sunny insulated emon coz she was trying to reunite him with his parents aisa hi kuch hua tha , so maybe harini will insult sai.


God save virat .

I the Tamil version, Saranya is very impulsive and goes against Vikram and tries to reunite Sunny with his parents which backfire because of Pakhi’s plan. She is blamed but in this case, it's Virat’s idea and Sai executed it. I will say this if this plan backfires, both are to be blamed and if it's successful both needs to be praised for it. I believe , if I am part of the plan in any way then I need to take responsibility for it and own it. I would call out Virat if he doesn't own that it was his plan.


Especially among married couples, they must support each other when they take a decision together. I know a couple where one of the spouses will blame his/her partner if the decision he/she taken goes wrong. My point is if you think it was a bad decision then stop him/her but blaming later doesn't make sense.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roseee12

Hey Asmi

Exactly. The decision was Virat’s and he was wrong there. Sai was aware but it was not her place to clarify. She wasn’t the decision maker there. Infact she anticipated Pakhi’s reaction better than Virat. She was sure the decision wouldn’t go down well with the family and she would be receiving taunts for the same. He said he will take care, but failed to. He didn’t weigh the outcome. He should have been more thoughtful. Its was an impulsive, stupid decision. I believe he was rightly blamed for it. Sunny also warned him, the reaction was expected. He should have thought this through

But my biggest issue with the track was Virat deciding for both woman and assuming they would be okay with his decision. He can’t force his decision on them the last min. Pakhi too deserved to know. Her consent matters as well. Hiding the matter did no good and further led to kaku & evil gang insulting Sai. Well his intentions might be right but friendship is not something that can be forced. Pakhi and Sai are adults and with widely diff traits. There’s no way they would have been friends. He shouldn’t have tried to impose what he felt to be the ‘right decision’. Their consent matters. Also Pakhi is really Sai’s abuser (masala grinding), they can’t be friends. Rightly so later at a point of time Sai did ask him why are you forcing me to be friends with Pakhi?

This is an issue I have found with Virat. His intentions are at the right place but then he takes impulsive decision which ends up being more harmful. Eg: Vada to Pakhi thinking that’s the best option for Samrat. Well doesn’t matter however good Virat’s intentions are has he has no authority to decide for others. He should have communicated.

Manhandling..She does manhandle her even during the Ladakh issue.. She pushed her hand away... I agree with your points , he was wrong there in wanting them to be friends.. Thats for them to decide.. He could not even say no to Pakhi for the cloth packing thing and he was expecting he can convince her for Sai's company. There was no plan, it was like all meet at the hall with their baggage's and just start for the ariport since they would be getting late for their flight. ..However he did not expect that Pakhi would be so averse to the whole plan and cancel the trip.. I guess even Sai did not expect that.. She expected the anger but not the reaction she got...Too shocked on being questioned by the family for accompanying her husband on a trip..

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Posted: 4 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Manhandling..She does manhandle her even during the Ladakh issue.. She pushed her hand away... I agree with your points , he was wrong there in wanting them to be friends.. Thats for them to decide.. He could not even say no to Pakhi for the cloth packing thing and he was expecting he can convince her for Sai's company. There was no plan, it was like all meet at the hall with their baggage's and just start for the ariport since they would be getting late for their flight. ..However he did not expect that Pakhi would be so averse to the whole plan and cancel the trip.. I guess even Sai did not expect that.. She expected the anger but not the reaction she got...Too shocked on being questioned by the family for accompanying her husband on a trip..

Exactly. There’s no question of friendship & Virat shot have realised this from Pakhi’s behaviour. Oh, the cloth part, that was disturbing.

Yes they seemed to be taken aback by the reaction. But Sai shouldn’t have been humiliated by the family. She was at no fault for accompanying her husband. Well the lack of communication backfired for Virat. He should have spoken up. He can’t decide for Pakhi and Sai

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hmm.. I didn't find anything wrong in the scene personally. It felt like he was guilty of his sister and kid being apart for long. I like how free he is now, he has found a partner whom he can expressed his most wild ideas and make it happen. They behave like partners in crime these days and I like how they feel on the same team.

I also like this ripping the band aid approach both sai and virat are having. I'm sure it will end up with harini being reunited with her mother and I'm not worried because of it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AninditaB

Note : I'm Sairat fan. I see them equally. If I call out Sai, I'll call out Virat. If I call out Virat, I'll call out Sai. And yes I don't want Sai vs Virat here. I'm neither Anti-Sai or Anti-Virat.


In today's episode Virat acted impulsively. I mean he actually don't have any idea about Harini's back story still he's going to unite Harini and Kaku. He should have asked Sai ya Pulkit about Harini at first, which didn't go well with me. It's the same case here, uniting a victim with an abuser. He's so also unsure of what will happen when they'll meet, still he's going forward with his plan. Something looked off. He took the responsibility of taking his family to the venue that was good but without any backup plan of how to make things alright. I hope Harini doesn't get affected by Kaku's behaviour and everything goes well and I hope makers actually make Virat confront his family when he knew the truth, other than his "past is past" nature.


And also I hope Virat be a man enough to take the responsibility (though he never blame shifts) of anything happens to Harini ya Sai due to Kaku.


P.S. Please healthy discussion.

I feel, he's guilty for not helping Devi Tai and not supporting Sai earlier. It was really made clear the previous some episodes I think. It has always been Sai doing stuff for his family, so now he wants to do something for them. He may be inspired(?) by Sai? Don't know if it's right way to put it. The way she always takes action for the betterment of the people she loves, seeing how happy the people were when Sai helped them(how happy Shivani Bua was, hiw happy Devi Tai right now is because of Sai's actions etc) . And many people have already pointed out that yes Sai is known for her impulsive behavior as for her its part of her nature, but Virat has also been impulsive a few times in the past, it's not in his nature, but he tends to do it sometimes in a rush of emotions. So it may be a little out of character for him, but somewhere if we look at the whole picture it may make sense.

As far as the question why uniting a victim with abuser, idk. Virat doesn't know the truth yet, but Sai does. I however feel that even if the truth is revealed, just like Sai did with Kaku-Devi Tai (ignoring the truth, being mahaan) he'll be the same with Harini-Kaku. It's a fault from the CV's part, as that's what usually happens in ITV and gathers TRP 🤔 #humsaathsaathhai

I sincerly hope Virat does lash out at CNgang after knowing the truth but my hopes are low. And I do believe that he'll actually take zimmedari if the plan backlashes, itni umeed to kar hi sakti hu usse. Sai will also be responsible for it, so she also should take responsibility. Wouldn't it have been more sensible from her part that she'd tell Virat the truth? Because that could have led him to not take such an stupid action, maybe?

I haven't watched last 2 episodes yet, so I may be wrong but am up to date with the everything that's happening.

I however do like SaiRat growing because of this track. They're developing more trust and understanding between them.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I agree here. It was so unlike Virat. I was disappointed with his sudden change him and the USP of his character is his patience . I felt he was doing this to impress Sai rather than think like a brother /uncle. I feel ML in love lose their individuality and I can see that happening. I had said this earlier too, Virat was like a mentor to Sai who helped her tone down and taught her the importance of diplomacy but that Virat got lost after the Pulkit drama because he was guilty and now he is madly in love. I feel Virat the mentor is lost and only Virat the lover is visible these days.


We know the back story but Virat doesn't seem to then why he is forcing Harini or Pulkit on CN. Isn't it enough that Devi is leading a happy life then why is Sairat hell-bent on uniting Devkit with CN. It should happen organically and forcing it or emotional blackmailing will not do any good to anyone.

Sad truth that ML is the 'bali ka bakra' in every show. They alter/butcher his character to suit the plot. Virat is also being taken in the same direction.😢

TBH, even I wanted the progression to be - Sai & Virat both imbibing each other's qualities and learning to work together as a team. But I guess the writers went with another idea that for the criminal Chavan family, Sai's confrontational, rip-the-bandage method works better - they work as a team where Sai takes on the main task & Virat supports her. That is also fine.

But they make Virat dumb, which infuriates me. 😤 Like him not asking about Harini's backstory. Whatever Virat's flaws, he is not dumb, he is intelligent.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

One Sai was enough with such impulsive desicions now Virat is becoming Sai 2.0. 😳 I think Kaku will act like she wants to accept Harini too so that Virat and Sai says let the past behind and start afresh. 😳 It's not like she will accept because she wants it's because she is forced to otherwise Virat will lash out at her. 🤢 How sick it is that the woman who has sent the kid away to an orphanage will be around her like nothing happened. 🤢

It is sick to the core. Atleast Virat doesn't know about the orphanage stuff. But Sai does. Sai is shown to be very mature and perceptive. What did she agree? And more importantly, why didn't she tell Virat? With this information, Virat might have rethought his plan.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Virat takes the blame of things that go wrong..That's the character trait that is here to stay.. Even during the apology to Sai he did not say that he was made to act that way by his family and during the confrontation with his family mentioned how they manipulated him and how he was also wrong in the process..

Coming back to characterization of Virat, I am disappointed with the way they are handling it..They are just turning him into someone who is in love with Sai..He does not understand Patralekha's reactions, does not question Pulkit finding Harini and knwoing his family going ahead with the whole birthday celebration of a kid who already holds a lot of animosity towards her mother.. I am hoping he assumed, Kaku and gang handed over the kid to Pulkit and that's why did not ask Pulkit about her.. Sai is wrong in not informing him about Harini.. She needs to tell him first or may be she wants Kaku to let it out..We will have to see..

What I cannot digest is Virat being made dumb - to take the story forward. He is increasingly being shown to be a man with no agency whatsoever. The love and care that is shown in Sai's characterisation (barring a few instances) is a stark contrast to the zero investment they put in Virat's characterisation. I'm surprised CVs are not called out for this blunder on SM. It is definitely not interesting to see a lead character being built up with such laziness.

And I have a feeling that this plan is going to go badly. Because in ITV, ML always goes wrong and whatever FL does is Midas touch.😁

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago

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