Originally posted by: hedwig_potter
Beautiful post👏
This show has absolutely no toxicity and I think it might be one of those rare shows where the plot has potential and not just running on nonsense high quotient drama.
Pandya family members love each other dearly, and support each other always.
Like how Suman, Gaumbi and Dhara forgave Mama-Mami, showing that it is possible to forgive. But at the same time, Shiva did not. In the mehendi episode he said to Dhara that all 3 of them are mahaan for forgiving them but he cannot because whenever he sees them he remembers that all brothers lost their father. This shows that sometimes the wounds are too deep, so its hard to forgive. So there is a difference of opinion, yet they stick together.
Shiva was against the wedding yet supported his family also (different thing that that wedding did not take place). If it were any other show, Shiva would have been plotting with Rishita to stop the wedding. But this isn't any aira gaira show afterall.
These things make the show unique, much different than any other daily soap opera.
OMG YES. I remember that line Shiva said and you know what. I loved how it made him so human and real. Like yes they could, he couldn't and it was simple as that. I'm very similar in that sense I feel. I can forgive but I also tend to hold grudges like Shiva, not for measly things. But if someone messes with my family, then that's it. So I sympathize with him there and I love him for that.
Shiva quietly agreed to it all, just for his bhabhi and gaumbi, because for him in his head they know what's best for him and he understands that. Which is why I'm sure we will see Shiva accept this marriage before Raavi does, we already see his straying for him natural nature. Raavi is more impulsive so she might not see it yet, but hey who knows maybe she'll be the one to fall in love first.
Like we will see so many stages of these two ya know; respecting each other, being friends, accepting their relationship, caring for each other, and hopefully falling in love. I am so excited for the entire journey!