Back to square one? Or not? - Page 3

Originally posted by: nami2811

You are getting me wrong. I'm not saying hating is justified. I'm saying her saying "I hate you" is justified in this situation. And she didn't expect Mishti to give a minute by minute update - she expected her to get her true love and not make Nannu or the family scapegoats. She wanted AM to get together. She did try many times but even Misthi was rude to her remember when she tried getting Abir to talk to her. And I don't remember Mishti saying it upfront that she is marrying Nannu as a compromise. Am I watching a different show? 😲

And Kuhu has grown and matured throughout the show. One line of hers and people call her childish and selfish 😆

Anyways I respect your opinions and I stated mine. Peace!

LOL you are splitting hairs here....there is no clear justification for Kuhu to hate Mishti even in THIS situation as you are claiming. Simply backing out of a wedding where EVERYONE could see how miserable Mishti was at every step doesn’t justify then hating on Mishti for that very thing.

Yes, we clearly are watching a very different show, so might as well leave it that 😆. I don’t find it acceptable to “hate” someone for such small things but if Kuhu fans do, ok then 🤷‍♀️😆

Kuhu’s maturity is very subjective and situational in this show, so hard to take seriously. And when her actions are childish and selfish, they will rightly be called out so. Simple. I’m not sure why people want to deny when she does behave childishly. There is no consistent growth for her. It’s obvious.

Some are taking kuhu side and some are taking mishti side... but i cant take kuhu side because she blamed mihti for everything... if nishanth would have opposed marriage then kuhu will never say anthing to nishath but mishti said so she is angry... what can justify kuhu here...??

Kuhu love kunal and she just kept mum when family members asked for her opinion... when mishti rejected kunal...kuhu started blaming mishti how can he reject him..? if everything goes as per kuhu wish she is happy with mishti warna she will blame her...

kuhu never questioned abir about leaving mishti... just kept it seperate... but she will blame mishti if she hurt nannu and other family members... is kuhu that mature, grown and improved character why cant she ask what is mishti's fault to abir...

im not saying kuhu never tried for mishbir but kuhu never said to mishti that what happened to parul when abir wants to meet her... if nishtant hadnt done that druken drama then kuhu ko koyi problem hi nahi mishti rishta thode ya nishant thode... i know kuhu can never accept mishti as sister but she cant blame her all the time whatever happens with her...

im not saying mishti is mahaan... she agreed jut for BP and she alraedy said many times with different persons that she will marry him but for sake of family only... everyone knew it but ignored... when blame game starts then it will be mishti who is easily to blame...

Originally posted by: nami2811

Kuhu resesnts Mishti and I agree she blamed her for all her sorrows in the beginning. Trust me I was annoyed at her behavior too. But saying there was no growth in her character is something I completely disagree. We've seen how she collapsed after her fairytale came crashing down.

• Post leap she was shown starting her own event planning company (though most of the events are her own family ones 😆).
• She was seen maturely handling her divorce situation with Kunal. She tried to be a good DIL (Imagine being nice to dragon saas). She didn't go crying and blaming Mishti for her sorrows then. She blamed her fate for getting stuck in a loveless marriage.
• She was the one who tried to make Abir talk to Mishti during the wedding preparations. She wanted to save her brother Nishant from getting stuck like her in a loveless marriage.

She repeatedly asked Mishti if she was ready for the marriage. She asked her many times to rethink about her decision. It was Mishti who did not think about her relationship with Abir until the wedding day. Isn't it her fault? What if Abir wasn't in danger? Would she have married Nannu? It is totally right for Kuhu to say I hate you Mishti coz in spite of her trying to get her to talk to Abir, in spit of her repeatedly asking to rethink her decision of marrying Nannu, it was Mishti who assured her that she will marry Nannu. It was the assurance that Mishti gave that made Kuhu and her family think that Mishti is ready for the wedding. BP even asked her to choose between Abir and Nannu during Mehendi and yet she chose Nannu. Imagine how would one feel after getting so many assurances and then one day everything falls apart and flips in a second? Kuhu said I hate you Mishti coz Nannu was hurt, her family was hurt, BP and BM had a disagreement. If Mishti would have given time to take a decision all this wouldn't have happened.

I love the way you have put this together. I just wish Kuhu had someone to talk to her feelings. It's reasonable to feel the hurt but it wouldnt amount to Kuhu taking extreme steps for such situations if she could vent it out to someone. She is keeping too much to herself and everything is piling up which is getting unhealthy and will possibly drive her to a breaking point.