Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer
Yes Mini stood for her and replied back but could not digest when Babita herself stood for herself and gave the very same lovely clean chit
Mini never actually had a father to begin with.. Babita had those memories, those dreams that she had to get rid of.. Mini on the other hand only new the word father, not what it stood for which is why it was easier for her to forego that relationship.. even then, it was time and again Mini who lost control, who got affected by taunts due to whatever Ashok did once Babita put him behind her..
I am not saying Mini is not a crucial part of Babita's journey.. she definitely is.. she has played a valuable role in what her mother is today but in her victimhood and savior complex, she seems to have forgotten that Babita has the right to feel whatever she wants, even if it's wrong
Babita had no problem with Micky and Mini's friendship till he came over and she saw just how close they were.. and the soulmate analogy did not help either.. why to keep friendship with Micky is precisely because from where she sees, the friendship seems to be going in dangerous territory which would end up in disaster for all three
Parents go through financial troubles.. that's quite common.. having to give up on your dream for that period is not a sacrifice.. It's a requirement