Proof of Family - Page 8

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Two things are the remedy to everything in desi society.....1) Shaadi....and 2) Baccha

Shaadi and Baccha.. both are the be Biggest decisions in anyone's life.. ( in REAL Life ) while in ITV, Shaadi and / or Baccha is used as a solution or remedy in ML and FL lives..

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

One year.. Mini had to take care of Babita one year and she gets flooded with emotions.. my Babita was entangled in a flurry of emotions for 17 years and that does not count? Mini did not have to give up anything for Babita in those 17 years.. kia give up karti? They were living a pretty much normal albeit somewhat suffocated Liv till Ashok's cheating came to forefront

Mini chooses to put a bravery mask but she has been in depression and do you remember what the psychiatrist told Babita? That she needed to let Mini have this savior complex for her betterment and keep her convinced that Babita cannot survive without her..

Babita top wore a mask of smile and all is well in all those 17 years when she felt suffocated and tortured.. the tortured Mini trivialized bohut aram se in her victimhood.. Mini could not carry on this bravery facade for a year and Babita continued with her mask for 17 years.. so who is more repressed?

Saw how Mini always took stand for Babes in initial episode against Lovely and rano. Saw how she assured her that A will take them to London. Babes And Khurana family and Preet have repeated this many times in show , Also it was not a comparison on who is less sad or who is more sad . Both were repressed . The difference is B never understood M. But M always did

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Waise ek baat bolun? LOL HS spent almost 10 minutes today reminiscing about his love and attraction for Babita while she was giving him irritated/in denial looks......and koi connection nahin feel hua between their characters....zero chemistry.

Precap mein Mini is pissed and hurt with HS for yelling at her but there is chemistry even in the side look he gives her....they just give a sense of something being communicated between them even without words in so many scenes.

WORD... both your points above.

I don't feel this is the same Hanita and I stopped caring.

As for Minnie and HS, the irony was not lost on me.

As HS said, in the past Babita and he used to talk to each other through Minnie, but now he will talk to Minnie through Babita?

LOL.

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

Saw how Mini always took stand for Babes in initial episode against Lovely and rano. Saw how she assured her that A will take them to London. Babes And Khurana family and Preet have repeated this many times in show , Also it was not a comparison on who is less sad or who is more sad . Both were repressed . The difference is B never understood M. But M always did

Babita too has taken a stand for Mini a lot of times.. when Mini wanted to change her surname.. it was when Mini was brought into equation and was getting affected that Babita had the courage to go ahead with diborce.. So Babita too always have utmost importance to Mini

If Mini really understood Babita, she wouldn't have left her wedding to console her grandparents.. she wouldn't have called Babita seofishfor standing upto Khuranas or giving importance to her marriage.. she wouldn't have given a clean chit to lovely.. she would have understood why Babita was finding it hard to forgive Hanuman for his character remark

There have been many instances when Babita and Mini both have not understood each other

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL haan to each their own 😆

My expectations from HB were of substance....yours are different. It's fine.

As for the father declaration.....well, the writers have now clearly shown that for HS, the first priority was always Babita.....he loves Mini but only as an accompaniment to Babita.....itna toh aaj khud hi HS ke muh se bulva diya.

And for me, this is not the HS I connected with....yeh Babita ko hi mubarak ho😆

Yeah, they are showing HS as someone who was not able to understand his own feelings back then and is now singing a different tune.

I can't buy this... nonsense.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I loved seeing Imarti and the intensity of her and HS' love. But if it's at the cost of everyone else phir toh na ni dikhate. 😭

I'm sorry to say this but after seeing Imaan, I feel that Hanita don't hold a candle to them. It's the CVs' fault for failing to show them as different couples who are special in their own way. Instead I end up comparing both.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Also, can someone tell me why they still kept Mini between them while proposing? 🤔....Babita proposed to him with the image of a family portrait of all three of them.....HS proposed to her by asking MINI if her mom will marry him.

Now it turns out ki Mini toh bas side piece thi? LOL toh why so much tamasha of doing everything through her? Were HS and Babita both doing this to just put on a show of how much they both prioritized Mini but that wasn't really what they felt? 😕

*Edit: I went back and rewatched the proposal scene.....now HS staring at Babita while hugging Mini has taken on a whole other meaning in light of today's epi😕

@bold don't do this to yourself. The original emotions you felt were correct. Watching those episodes again now will only mess with your head because the writing has gone haywire.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, they had to prove Minnie's words about showing her false dreams and expectations somehow. 🤔

All their scenes have now become cheap. I refuse to believe that was all some sort of elaborate act, especially from HS' side. I can't even describe the kind of disgust that I am feeling right now. EVERYTHING has been cheapened to such an ugly manner, it's not even funny.

yes, cheapened ... ugh.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ughhhhh😵😵😔.....so friggin contrived, man.....why couldn't they just show it as a misunderstanding on Mini's part? Instead they want to prove not just Mini's but all OUR perceptions of the past wrong too? 😕

They want to ruin the show aage, fine......but why ruin our memories of the past 200 epis of a beautiful story? ....I can't deal with this awful feeling....I've had so much emotional attachment to all those scenes....ab kaise rewatch karungi?

I would treat them as two different "eras" on this show.

The first 200 episodes were wholesome and rang true. The wedding and beyond feels like an alternate TRP universe.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

One year.. Mini had to take care of Babita one year and she gets flooded with emotions.. my Babita was entangled in a flurry of emotions for 17 years and that does not count? Mini did not have to give up anything for Babita in those 17 years.. kia give up karti? They were living a pretty much normal albeit somewhat suffocated Liv till Ashok's cheating came to forefront

Mini chooses to put a bravery mask but she has been in depression and do you remember what the psychiatrist told Babita? That she needed to let Mini have this savior complex for her betterment and keep her convinced that Babita cannot survive without her..

Babita top wore a mask of smile and all is well in all those 17 years when she felt suffocated and tortured.. the tortured Mini trivialized bohut aram se in her victimhood.. Mini could not carry on this bravery facade for a year and Babita continued with her mask for 17 years.. so who is more repressed?

remember babita telling HS that lovely always taunted her and mini always stood up for her and fought with her. Mini has always seen babes as this weak innocent woman who needs care and support.

secondly wasnt it mini also who lost a father also but she only thought about babita during that time did not think of what she lost. Its not about just a year its about what you face in that year. Now babita has got a new life a husband in form of HS. Has mini got a new life too. Mini feels left out because she feels she is a third wheel in HS babita relation with HS being so absorbed with babita after marriage and not thinking of her. the CD incident was not spoken to her by babes or HS both. she feels her mother dosent understand her and is asking her to leave the imp support she has of her friends. Yes for her mickey is still a friend whom she needs in her life. Babes being her mother why hasnt she seen how he has supported and understood her all throughout. Ok babes being concerned about the blurring lines of friendship between mini & mickey is fine but how did she deal with it asking mini why she needs to keep friendship with mickey?

giving up ur dream college isnt easy. yes mini can apply for it again and join but then she needs to think over those lines