He is clipping her wings.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I feel so bad for Zara

I've given up on him changing his ways relatively soon so I wish CVs would sooner rather than later, show Zara taking off the blindfold of hero-worship from her eyes, and she starts fighting for her rights as a woman ASAP. The show went through their engagement, marriage and honeymoon and jet speed, and now they have slowed down at 'FL vs vamp'/'vamp trying to snatch away ML' phase 😡

I am starting to feel embarrassed for Zara now to see how much effort she is putting into the relationship only to have her calls un-returned and be treated as a non-entity by her husband.

It feels like the CVs have done a 180 with Kabeer's character. It's not like he's just busy with his work, he's showing barely ANY interest in his new wife. He might as well be married to Rukhsar for all he cares lmao. And what was up with that dialogue about Rukhsar getting a better husband than him. I know it was a joke, but it felt so odd to me 😕

I just logged in to see there was a segment yesterday about how Zara tries to manao him after the whole investor thing. WHY?! JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE ZARA! Is he a little kid that you need to go after all the time? If you know he is in the wrong, let him be! Why must you be the one going after him always? 🥱


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree with everything you said.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: NarbhiForever..

Agree with everything you said.


Thanks! I've been told I am being unfair to the CVs, but if we can praise them when the show is good, we have every right to discuss the shortcomings too. And they are getting on my nerves now 🤔 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta


Thanks! I've been told I am being unfair to the CVs, but if we can praise them when the show is good, we have every right to discuss the shortcomings too. And they are getting on my nerves now 🤔 😆

Guess we are on same boat😆😆
Everything is fair in love and war:) When we are giving them half an hour to watch their show and then time spend here plus twitter/insta/facbook then I think we don't deserve Rukhsar & Zeenat and pure negativity in serial. Little bit is fine but more than that no never
The way Rukhsar said Either Irfan has to resign or die, just hope both her & Salma will be safe. Cannot see them dying:((
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Posted: 7 years ago
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to be very frank, i am also not liking Kabir's behavior! Him ignoring newly wed wife is very annoying! As you rightly mentioned zara is putting in a lot of effort to make it just more than a marriage and our Kabir miya is busy in husband duties!

But but but, i still feel we are judging too early! Kabir would be this kinda man who would not easily bend for zara was something we where aware off. There has been many instances of face off with zara and his conversations with Imran made it very clear that he would not change for anyone. So his character and behavior is justified for now!

The whole show is about about how zara will change kabir;s thought process along with her getting changes in women rights! The only reason they rushed to the wedding and honeymoon romance was to get ZaBir into that mode of attachment and then moments of pain and hurt coz only when they feel they get affected.

Now zara feels and she will get affected by all these acts of Kabir. She will then stand and when she fights back,is when kabir will start getting affected and he will realize what he feels for her!

I see that this show will get into a a intense and strong love story with a strong headed woman and a loving and supporting husband who would stand by her!


p.s currently i hate the feeling what kabir does to zara too, i am just being patient
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: NarbhiForever..

Guess we are on same boat😆😆
Everything is fair in love and war:) When we are giving them half an hour to watch their show and then time spend here plus twitter/insta/facbook then I think we don't deserve Rukhsar & Zeenat and pure negativity in serial. Little bit is fine but more than that no never
The way Rukhsar said Either Irfan has to resign or die, just hope both her & Salma will be safe. Cannot see them dying:((


Exactly! If this show was promised as one about clash of opinions, I do not want to see 20 minutes worth of Rukhsar on my screen 🤢


I hate how the villain in Zee shows always just resorts to murder. I am baffled as to how easily Rukhsar and Zeenat are talking about murder of a man?! There are other ways to be villainous. She has turned into a full-blown, disgusting, psychopathic woman who wants to steal another woman's husbands. I don't have the patience to watch this shit and nor do I have the patience to watch her face in between the 30 seconds worth of ZaBeer we get in an episode 🥱
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: neetha

to be very frank, i am also not liking Kabir's behavior! Him ignoring newly wed wife is very annoying! As you rightly mentioned zara is putting in a lot of effort to make it just more than a marriage and our Kabir miya is busy in husband duties!


But but but, i still feel we are judging too early! Kabir would be this kinda man who would not easily bend for zara was something we where aware off. There has been many instances of face off with zara and his conversations with Imran made it very clear that he would not change for anyone. So his character and behavior is justified for now!

The whole show is about about how zara will change kabir;s thought process along with her getting changes in women rights! The only reason they rushed to the wedding and honeymoon romance was to get ZaBir into that mode of attachment and then moments of pain and hurt coz only when they feel they get affected.

Now zara feels and she will get affected by all these acts of Kabir. She will then stand and when she fights back,is when kabir will start getting affected and he will realize what he feels for her!

I see that this show will get into a a intense and strong love story with a strong headed woman and a loving and supporting husband who would stand by her!


p.s currently i hate the feeling what kabir does to zara too, i am just being patient


I hate to say it, but it feels like one of those chick flicks where the girl falls for the guy and the guy just gets over her after he sleeps with her 🤢 This is literally what it feels like happened, if as according to some people, they did consummate their relationship. If my husband acted like this after we consummated our relationship, I'd leave pronto 🤔 No explanations needed. He doesn't deserve me, my time or my attention. As a woman, I feel for Zara. I hope she opens her eyes soon.


And what husband duties? He's not even being a good husband to her at this stage lmao, it's a new relationship, they're at a vulnerable stage. Instead he is spending more time thinking about what poison Rukhsar is saying, than thinking of/talking to/spending time with his wife.

Sorry, I don't think his behavior is justified. I am not asking to see him in love with her or anything. But he's acting like she literally doesn't exist sometimes, like she could just be any woman (his wife), and it literally wouldn't make a difference. That's what I have a problem with. Guess we'll just have to agree to disagree here :)

I am glad you have more patience than me. I will just have to continue reading WUs until this show is fully on track without 95% Rukhsar-fest 🤬
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta


I hate to say it, but it feels like one of those chick flicks where the girl falls for the guy and the guy just gets over her after he sleeps with her 🤢 This is literally what it feels like happened, if as according to some people, they did consummate their relationship. If my husband acted like this after we consummated our relationship, I'd leave pronto 🤔 No explanations needed. He doesn't deserve me, my time or my attention. As a woman, I feel for Zara. I hope she opens her eyes soon.


And what husband duties? He's not even being a good husband to her at this stage lmao, it's a new relationship, they're at a vulnerable stage. Instead he is spending more time thinking about what poison Rukhsar is saying, than thinking of/talking to/spending time with his wife.

Sorry, I don't think his behavior is justified. I am not asking to see him in love with her or anything. But he's acting like she literally doesn't exist sometimes, like she could just be any woman (his wife), and it literally wouldn't make a difference. That's what I have a problem with. Guess we'll just have to agree to disagree here :)

I am glad you have more patience than me. I will just have to continue reading WUs until this show is fully on track without 95% Rukhsar-fest 🤬


Ahh my patience with people comes from real life experience😆
i know i know all the feeling that not just you but many feel for zara including me! Both kabir and zara are my favs. Infact in reel, i love zara more😳

This marriage has been just another thing for kabir. If his abbu told him to marry ruksaar instead of zara , he would have done that too! 😆

yea with regards to him not giving enough attention to zara is something i would agree upon. I would have literally ignored my husband to death and he would beg for my attention rather😆

I am just hoping cv's dont make him another male chauvinist lead coz that is something i dont want Kabir to become! So i am just hoping and wishing myself luck to see something better out of kabir from cv's.

Ruksar is the most dumbest vamp ever! I mean even if abbu does something for her woth regards to kabir, how the hell on this earth she thinks that kabir would marry her after leaving his wife..lol😆 the most annoying character. As i watch the show online, i just skip her bits! Just cant stand that god damn stupid character😡
Edited by neetha - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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We all know zara and her headstrong strongwilled attitude, she will stand up on her own 2 legs and demand her rights. After the investor thing I really hope she doesn' talk to him until he apologizes or tries to cheer her up.
If she starts running after him this show is gonna turn in the same direction as all the other shows. For once I wanna feel inspired by a female lead who stood up for herself.

And kabeer needs to stop listening to ruks. He shouldn't let outsiders force him to judge zara. She' his biwi and after marriage I don't think any member of the family should get involved in their personal matters and the husband-wife shouldn't give them the freedom to either.

All in all, zara will be damaged for a while but this will only allow her wings to evolve and she will fly! Mark my words. She will fly with kabeer giving her a supportive push
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I cant stand ruks. I legit skip all her scenes and then realise ive missed out zabeer scenes cus of her.
When are we gonna find out what kabeer feels for zara.
They started such a beautiful story and now they've just reduced kabeer to a few confused eyelocks.

Like that saying something like the higher u fly the harder you fall. Zara is in her dreamlike right now, and today I think she's started to take steps towards reality.

I think kabeer was taking baby steps towards her like sitting on the dinner table but now ruks have filled his ears. It' hurt his inner male ego, he's disappointed in himself as he thinks he's worthless.

And to stop ruks words about zara coming true he is making sure she stays at home so no one can say she is the reason for his post. He needs time to heal the disappointment he has in himself.

I don't know if I should defend him or not. I'm really upset with how he just fails to acknowledge her every time... But I'm not gonna give up on him yet.

He will become the man of her dreams. Eventually😕

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