He is clipping her wings. - Page 4

Originally posted by: awida

Very important post. and I loved reading the discussions

I am impressed by cvs showing the mindset of Eastern men that too muslim ones perfectly. though I hate to see it through Kabeer's character. but we have to admit it. most of Eastern men think the same.. that a woman's responsibility is taking care of home. it is sad but true.

I am eagerly waiting for Zara to stand for herself. But how I wish cvs didn't make Ruksaar a part of this track. I hope the clashes between ZaBeer will be only about their own differences and approaches to life.

I still hope to see Ruksaar getting married , going abroad, and returning back a long time back. they can make her a divorcee who will be after Kabeer. let him get her as a punishment after he loses Zara. just to realise her worth .

Originally posted by: MsChanadlerBong

I don't like this Kabeer anymore. The honeymoon and pre honeymoon, Kabeer was more understanding, he accepted the fact that Zara had different views and he was okay with it. He was considerate however now, hes just a nakhre wala sohar!

Someone should really kick him back to Zara.

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

I feel so bad for Zara

I've given up on him changing his ways relatively soon so I wish CVs would sooner rather than later, show Zara taking off the blindfold of hero-worship from her eyes, and she starts fighting for her rights as a woman ASAP. The show went through their engagement, marriage and honeymoon and jet speed, and now they have slowed down at 'FL vs vamp'/'vamp trying to snatch away ML' phase 😡

I am starting to feel embarrassed for Zara now to see how much effort she is putting into the relationship only to have her calls un-returned and be treated as a non-entity by her husband.

It feels like the CVs have done a 180 with Kabeer's character. It's not like he's just busy with his work, he's showing barely ANY interest in his new wife. He might as well be married to Rukhsar for all he cares lmao. And what was up with that dialogue about Rukhsar getting a better husband than him. I know it was a joke, but it felt so odd to me 😕

I just logged in to see there was a segment yesterday about how Zara tries to manao him after the whole investor thing. WHY?! JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE ZARA! Is he a little kid that you need to go after all the time? If you know he is in the wrong, let him be! Why must you be the one going after him always? 🥱

Originally posted by: -FlyAway-

@Bold: It was awkward to see Zaara staring at Kabeer like that, I won't lie. 😆 But the roles have reversed. Most of the times we have male leads staring at the female leads a lot more. Lot of times it's not even reciprocated initially. But I do get what you are saying. Kabeer looked so unaffected. How come he didn't even realize she was staring at him? Dude you are so unsafe in this world if you have this kind of presence of mind to your surroundings.

Just Saying.

Anyway, it's okay to feel frustrated in this situation. I get it 😆

@Orange: Rukhsar getting a better husband than him was out of nowhere for me too. What did he mean by that? Why did he even say it though? I don't get it!

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

Urgh I know how annoying it is to be on IF on phone 🥱😆

I don't know what else to add, you have basically said EVERYTHING in my mind! 👏 He is not respecting her basic feelings. I hope like he asked her the other day if she was happy, he asks her again and she tells him that 'no I'm not happy because you're not letting me work/live up to my potential as an individual'. Let's see him do that, but I doubt it'll happen :|

I believe Zara is stronger too. Don't think Rukhsar will be out of the picture so quickly, I don't think we're that lucky

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

IMO, Kabir is clipping them, w.o being aware of his actions.

What he meant by " better husband than me", is that guy is a rich business woman, he doesn't ahve any money on his own.

I don't expect Kabir to be openly demonstrative of his feelings like Zara. He feels close to her that's evident when he shared his concern about money,being dependent on his father, even for his mehar, his dreams,his worries about them.

Totally agree with @neetha, i will wait and watch. But at the same time Ruksar fest needs to slow down.😆

Originally posted by: ghissapitta

I feel so bad for Zara

I've given up on him changing his ways relatively soon so I wish CVs would sooner rather than later, show Zara taking off the blindfold of hero-worship from her eyes, and she starts fighting for her rights as a woman ASAP. The show went through their engagement, marriage and honeymoon and jet speed, and now they have slowed down at 'FL vs vamp'/'vamp trying to snatch away ML' phase 😡

I am starting to feel embarrassed for Zara now to see how much effort she is putting into the relationship only to have her calls un-returned and be treated as a non-entity by her husband.

It feels like the CVs have done a 180 with Kabeer's character. It's not like he's just busy with his work, he's showing barely ANY interest in his new wife. He might as well be married to Rukhsar for all he cares lmao. And what was up with that dialogue about Rukhsar getting a better husband than him. I know it was a joke, but it felt so odd to me 😕

I just logged in to see there was a segment yesterday about how Zara tries to manao him after the whole investor thing. WHY?! JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE ZARA! Is he a little kid that you need to go after all the time? If you know he is in the wrong, let him be! Why must you be the one going after him always? 🥱

That is what real life is all about lady😕 Coming from a successful business family ,and married into one,I have to work hard and act harder to please my husband,and family ,and retain my freedom too.May be that support is lacking from maulvi's part.

Originally posted by: -Zaara-.

Looking at it from you POV it does make some sense. I guess Kabir is somewhat opening up to her emotionally. That is understandable. He is putting his feelings and thoughts across to her, and in some what way that is growth in their relationship. Looking at Zara's personality she is always chirpy full of positive energy, whilst Kabir is way more reserved and strict types. I guess it does make sense, however the issue that is bothering us, well me, is the lack of respect he gives to his wife. Whether it be going to work, or lack of attention or even taking two minutes after their honeymoon and just be there.

He keeps talking about his dream. But Zara has a dream too. Does he even care ?

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

IMO, Kabir is clipping them, w.o being aware of his actions.

What he meant by " better husband than me", is that guy is a rich business woman, he doesn't ahve any money on his own.

I don't expect Kabir to be openly demonstrative of his feelings like Zara. He feels close to her that's evident when he shared his concern about money,being dependent on his father, even for his mehar, his dreams,his worries about them.

Totally agree with @neetha, i will wait and watch. But at the same time Ruksar fest needs to slow down.😆