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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes Dev told her...He Told her Clear cut..sidhi baat No bakwas..and I anm Very happy with That..

ppl r Thinking he is heartless,Obsessed And Bla bla..didn't think about his daughter ..just thought about himself


So guys let me remind u something..He didn't Pull Her out from her classroom and tell 'DEKHO MAIN DEV DIXIT HOON>>UR DAD!!!!!!! NOW U HAVE TO BE WITH ME ONLY ME"-if My Ears R not Damaged Then he didn't say that Or My eyes r not blind then he didn't to any kind of force or cruel attitude With Her

He asked her Gently What She knows about her Father..She told him whatever She knows..She Even Told that her Mother said he is a Good man..His Name is dev dixit.. Even she told about that he was not good with his mom..so dev was confirmed That this littlle girl Knows almost everything about her dad..Just Except his face..But still he didn't tell her That i am ur dad..he again asked do u wanna Meet him?..she said i Thought agar woh mere mumaa ko khush nehi rakh paye toh mujhe kaise rakhenge..Then again dev said ho sakta hai woh apke satha Acche hote..tHEN TINY SAID bUT Main unse kaise miloon..That was enough To understand she wants To meet Her father..what's wrong there If he introduced himself to his daughter as Her father..


so what u expect he wud lie To her..and Then start Meet her Chip Chup Ke..Creat bond stronger..and then one day revea
l the truth..so that people can made an issue on that By saying oh la la!! Selfish dev Dixit..Liar dev dixit..He used sohana against sona..he Lied to her..He used Her ..He Bond with Her so That she can easily came closer To him..I know Yehi hota!!!!

He didn't even Fr once said I will take u away with me..U have to
stay with me..He Gave her choice..he Every Time said do what ur heart Wants u to Do..

when Sona told her 6 Yrs mature daughter soha almost everything about Her father ..everything about their relationship and gave her choice she can meet him if she wants That was considered as honesty,understanding,Maturity Bla Bla..Nd now when dev did the same he said the truth to her in The most calm and gentle way n again gave her choice that Became selfishness..This is so disappointing yaar..

what Made more sense if soha somedays come to know about his father from outside..cause his father is a known face..and now she even met him..so what u think if someday she saw her father on newspaper and get shocked that Golu's Big cha is her dad..that wud be great naaa

at least now she can say she knew it from her dad she is his daughter..His world chnaged i know..But It has to happened someday..why u need to put this girl in dark about his father again so long ..when sona can tell her half truth Then what is the problem of Dev telling her the rest..

He was away from her for 6 years..it's Not at all his fault or any parents fault if they want to be with their child after such a long separation..still he didn't say Come with me..he said u decide..

This is really ridiculous to see every Time questioning one persons act..I did not find at all anything wrong..I Felt he did the same what Sonakshi wud do if she was at his place..Cause she also believe To Tell truth To her child..Now i don't know if this only she applied to herself or not..let's see that..But Dev as father was not wrong today


P.S.I said what i wanted to say..It's completely my POV..

P.P.S.Everyone is welcome with all kind of colors..

P.P.P.S.who doesn't like my post don't waste ur time ..who Likes if found it worthy To share ur views Then most welcome..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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well said!!
Dev already knows the consequences of hiding things in the past. So I loved that he told the truth to soha in a very gentle upfront way.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If Dev would have lied to Soha and kept his identity under wraps, tab usko gaali padti.
If Dev would have gone to Sona and demanded to meet his child, then sona would have refused n tab bhi usko gaali padti.
Now when he told soha truth, tab bhi gaali pad rhi hai.

So underlined truth is gali toh padni hi thi. :|

Anyways, i just know that he was truthful with his daughter. He told her everything whatever was in his heart n he was fine when she didn't reciprocated his hug. He didn't brought her home as she was blank. But yes he needs to be slow with Soha, because its not easy for her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow survi di... Maine aisa kabhi socha hi nhi... Sach...
U made a nice point di... Bhishon bhalo... Shotti...

And dev said these things to soha and i m also amazed everyone thought he is insensitive and wht not... I admit soha is a child and she got shocked hearing this... Which is quite common... She also didnt reciprocate the hug dev gv... Coz she was also hving fbs of promising sona nt to meet her dad.. True all... Par dev is also a human and a new born father... He would want his daughter...

Thank u di... For clearing my vision... Tomar post ka ekdom darun... Kono tulona nei... Hats off
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

If Dev would have lied to Soha and kept his identity under wraps, tab usko gaali padti.

If Dev would have gone to Sona and demanded to meet his child, then sona would have refused n tab bhi usko gaali padti.
Now when he told soha truth, tab bhi gaali pad rhi hai.

So underlined truth is gali toh padni hi thi. :|

Anyways, i just know that he was truthful with his daughter. He told her everything whatever was in his heart n he was fine when she didn't reciprocated his hug. He didn't brought her home as she was blank. But yes he needs to be slow with Soha, because its not easy for her.



Dev bashing yaha ki pratha hai charu di...

And dev shld be a bit slow... Afterall she is a kid...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I loved your post survi❤️👏
I don't understand why people are against dev all the time .. Yes he did mistakes.. lots of them!
But today i think he did the right thing ... i would hate it if he hid the truth from soha and try to win her over without letting her know about his identity.
Soha would really hate him and feel betrayed if she figures out the truth from somewhere else. She would consider her dad as a liar!
Iam happy that dev himself told her the truth 😃

*just my opinion*
Peace
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mona4u

well said!!

Dev already knows the consequences of hiding things in the past. So I loved that he told the truth to soha in a very gentle upfront way.



thanks

ya i found nothing wron the way he told her...she wud have react worse if she came to know it from somewhere else
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Posted: 8 years ago
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there is only one rule in this forum: Dev ko gaali padi
Everybody so beautifully ignored that he said its your choice. If you don't want to talk to me, its ok.

If he hadn't said the truth, everybody would be like yeh liar hain.

Seriously yaar, biased hona band karo.

Dev astrologer hain kya jo predict karega that she will run. Iss se zyada gentle tareeka kya bolne ka.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

If Dev would have lied to Soha and kept his identity under wraps, tab usko gaali padti.

If Dev would have gone to Sona and demanded to meet his child, then sona would have refused n tab bhi usko gaali padti.
Now when he told soha truth, tab bhi gaali pad rhi hai.

So underlined truth is gali toh padni hi thi. :|

Anyways, i just know that he was truthful with his daughter. He told her everything whatever was in his heart n he was fine when she didn't reciprocated his hug. He didn't brought her home as she was blank. But yes he needs to be slow with Soha, because its not easy for her.



moral of the story dev has to be wrong😆

yes he needs to..and after watching his reaction when ish was asking about bringing her home i found he is enough understanding about his daughter..he won't do anything what can bother her or upset her
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Much needed post ..glad you said everything I wanted to say ..

Like many said here irrespective of how he would have handled the situation he would be blamed ...if he had hid the truth then omg like mom like son who manipulated little girl and is using her to take revenge from his ex wife .

I am glad he was honest with Soha ..if he had hidden them Tommorow the little girl would question her father why he did not reveal the truth to her if he knew he was his father ..

I would say good decision by Dev Dixit ..

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