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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: survika1111



he made sure what soha has actually felt about meeting his father..then he told her ..if somewhere he get the vibes that she doesn't ..then i think he wudn't tell her and then may he talk to sona..He found thois girl knows already and have a desire to meet His pa may be little but has..so he decided to tell himself Right Then as in his way..and he is a father after all..his emotions also matter.He knew that from 6 yrs this girl know about him but didn't recognize.So he introduced himself..

yes and what a reaction he got the child ran away almost got hit by a car . And the part he doesn't care about she is at her home and is not talking to anybody or is eating anything. That's mental trauma. And for his emotions as a father. When it comes to that I will always prioritise the kids well being.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kavidhruv

yes and what a reaction he got the child ran away almost got hit by a car . And the part he doesn't care about she is at her home and is not talking to anybody or is eating anything. That's mental trauma. And for his emotions as a father. When it comes to that I will always prioritise the kids well being.


Oh yaa really.. U mean he was known that a car wud be there and hit her.. Before he told her the truth he got the happy reactions while she was talking about her father.. He thought she must be happy.. What made her run was not his revealtiom that was her promise made to her mother.. She always wanted to meet her dad. But never express it bcz of her promise. In no. Episode she said to other except bose family that she doesn't want to meet him. Now Obviously dev doesn't know that promise has so much impact on her.. Neither soha told him about that promise.. He got sure when he asked how i can meet my dad..that she wants to me.. That was unfortunate that the car came..and her trauma not eating food is not bcz she met him.. Bcz she is still in dillema. What to do cz she promised her mom.. As a mother itbwas sonakshi(s duty to understand her daughter that she is just making her happy cz it was very clear how soha wanted to meet her dad. So now again it's her duty to understand the turmoil inside her daughter.. Cause whatever the situation is it wud be Same ir more worse if she came to know from. Other sources.. She wid deny to meet but inside shevwud suffered like now she is suffering.. Ur right it is always about child' well being first.. So her mumma shd understands that her well being is to be with both.. Her promise is much more lower than compared ti his dad's love. Thanks
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I caught up with the episode just now and you bet..I had tears in my eyes all through..I really saw a changed Dev as he rightly told. But I was shocked with forum's reaction. I mean..now what he should do according to us...cry his heart out to himself, meet soha chori chori without revealing, then seeing all the excitement in the house, golu would tell her the next day or a few days later. Or somehow she would know her friend is her dad, from outside. Okay, now tell me in all this not only would Dev get one more round of bashing from us but also would lose his daughter for lying. She wouldn't have trusted him.
I liked Dev today the way he revealed himself but yes how much the lil heart can take..she is at loggerheads. The promise given to her mom, her dad's love, too much burden at such a small age even Dev got his responsibilities when he was 8.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samzz

I caught up with the episode just now and you bet..I had tears in my eyes all through..I really saw a changed Dev as he rightly told. But I was shocked with forum's reaction. I mean..now what he should do according to us...cry his heart out to himself, meet soha chori chori without revealing, then seeing all the excitement in the house, golu would tell her the next day or a few days later. Or somehow she would know her friend is her dad, from outside. Okay, now tell me in all this not only would Dev get one more round of bashing from us but also would lose his daughter for lying. She wouldn't have trusted him.

I liked Dev today the way he revealed himself but yes how much the lil heart can take..she is at loggerheads. The promise given to her mom, her dad's love, too much burden at such a small age even Dev got his responsibilities when he was 8.



Exctly my point..there was Nothing wrong in dev's Approach..She should Be the happiest One after meeting her Father..All her reactions came Out Not Because Dev's Trevalation it's because of her promise to her mom..She was In dillema Now what to Do...

Me Too Completely Fine With What dev Said and Jow He said..Forum Is Just too Blind Yoo understand the Other sides
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey. Your post is bang on. I absolutely agree to whatever you said. Some people here just have problem with everything. If Dev didn't reveal his identity to Soha and kept on secretly meeting her and bond with her, then these same people would call him selfish. They would say that he lied to Soha and is taking advantage of this situation to bond with her. But now when he made it crystal clear to Soha that he is her dad then too these people have a problem.
And tbvh, any father in reality would have done that. Come on dude, like you get to know that you have a daughter who is 6 years old and will you stay quiet and hide the truth from her. And Dev spoke to her so gently. He didn't even raise his voice once too. If Dev was cruel and bad like some people here are projecting him to be then he would have gone directly to SONA and screamed and fought with her. But he didn't do that. He first thought it's important to talk to Soha and make her understand the truth.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sorry dont agree. Dev has no experience being a dad. Even his relationship with Golu doenst make him an experienced dad. Like many said that a dad was born when he found out about Soha. Before revealing himself to the child he should have first confronted Sona. Sona has more better understanding of Soha. She would have known how to approach Soha with this news. He could have forced the issue if she didnt want to help him. The kid barely knows Dev and to be confronted this way.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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brilliant post dear...u nailed it.

i never expected this reaction from forum...😕

dev was not revealed the truth just like that, "hi suhana ! i'm ur father". 😆he took soo many time and have enough talk with his little angel. from the first meet itself, soha told how much she misses his dad in her life in her school speech and by her drawings.

and how much she loves golus bighcha and named him as superhero. so, they have very strong base relationship.

like u and jo said, she was not scared of his superhero. she just confused and stuck with the promise she made to sona.

and the way treated devs image in front soha by bijoy is the sole reason for all this nonsense.

leaving a decision to the 6 yr old kid is brilliant and mature. and revealing the truth is atrocious and immature. what a double standard.

revealing himself as dad to his little angel with so much fear and hesitation. the pain he is going through is unbearable. he is also a human being not a robot.

i think, better cvs should kill devs character. then forum will peace and happy.

this is my POV. i'm team devakshi. 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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there is no right wrong time 4 revelation..

d great bijoy said this onw how come pro sona forgot this🤪

d way dev handled brilliant,,its a very complex situation n who can handle it perfect but d complex man himself..he is more matured than ish ..he is as enthu as ish 4 suhana but d way he controlled his emotions marvelous..👏

suhana ..this girl stole d show with her price less aghast expressions...brilliant...shaheer aliya duo made magic yestdy.❤️...dev perfectly handled it with ease

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cinderella100

Sorry dont agree. Dev has no experience being a dad. Even his relationship with Golu doenst make him an experienced dad. Like many said that a dad was born when he found out about Soha. Before revealing himself to the child he should have first confronted Sona. Sona has more better understanding of Soha. She would have known how to approach Soha with this news. He could have forced the issue if she didnt want to help him. The kid barely knows Dev and to be confronted this way.


yeah sona have more understanding of her..where she Failed to understand her daughter'S wish to meet her paa..and Sorry to say but if he forced Sona About the issue That kid would Have been suffered more.If ur talking about experience then sona Is The Most experience one about soha...where she failed to Find out The dilemma can't expect That experience wud Have a big role.

problem Is sohana's reaction and that was Not solely Becuse of dEv's truth..It was because the promise..So No matter how She came To know she would have face the same turmoil cause her promise won't Take her a step towards her father
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Disha_Pree

Hey. Your post is bang on. I absolutely agree to whatever you said. Some people here just have problem with everything. If Dev didn't reveal his identity to Soha and kept on secretly meeting her and bond with her, then these same people would call him selfish. They would say that he lied to Soha and is taking advantage of this situation to bond with her. But now when he made it crystal clear to Soha that he is her dad then too these people have a problem.

And tbvh, any father in reality would have done that. Come on dude, like you get to know that you have a daughter who is 6 years old and will you stay quiet and hide the truth from her. And Dev spoke to her so gently. He didn't even raise his voice once too. If Dev was cruel and bad like some people here are projecting him to be then he would have gone directly to SONA and screamed and fought with her. But he didn't do that. He first thought it's important to talk to Soha and make her understand the truth.


exactly..Thank youu..if he wud have gone to sona and Start fighting with her That wud be another issue..If he hide It that would bE One more..In short dev has to be wrong..His way was Perfect..He Made her understand in the most lovable way..

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