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Posted: 8 years ago
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i could not believe my ears when I heard what Bijoy said today. He is behaving just like Ishwari now. Just as much as Ishwari has not understood Sona, Bijoy has never understood Dev.
I would like to know which grand father will want his daughter to get married to some one else when he knows that her daughter's father is still alive and she has not seen him. If Ishwari is cruel, then Bijoy is more cruel. No matter the situation, it is cruel to hide such a fact from a parent. He should have first spoken about Soha being introduced to her father before thinking of marriage for Sona. At least give the father a fair chance for his daughter.

Dev never made an effort to have Ishwari understand Sona and likewise, Sona never made an effort to have Bijoy understand Dev. If there were days when I wanted Ishwari to be whacked, today, I felt like whacking Bijoy.

From today, for me, Bijoy = Ishwari and will get the same treatment.

Finally, I do not know if it is only me, but I am unable to digest seeing someone else with Sona. She looks so out of place in some one else's arms. BTW, if the makers want us to believe that Dev will get jealous of Jatin, just because he actually loves Sona, then they better bring in a new lady, one Ms Perfect, so that even Sona's love for Dev will be evident. Why make it one sided jealousy?

This whole thing isn't not going well with me, entertainment or no Entertainment!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev cant get a Ms. Perfect as he is having multiple of them.
I dont think Jatin is here to make Dev realise anything. Dev knows he still loves Sona and can not forget her memories.

Jatin will make Sona realise she loves only Dev. If she can be happy with anyone , it is a changed Dev...means Dev who is expecetd to change not a new someone...father to her daughter.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Dev cant get a Ms. Perfect as he is having multiple of them.

I dont think Jatin is here to make Dev realise anything. Dev knows he still loves Sona and can not forget her memories.

Jatin will make Sona realise she loves only Dev. If she can be happy with anyone , it is a changed Dev...means Dev who is expecetd to change not a new someone...father to her daughter.



If a someone can be brought in to facilitate Sona to know her feelings about Dev, I think there can be a someone who can make him feel the same. They really do not have to show him like a wanderer, carefree, flamboyant, irresponsible etc.

I think the makers have lost it again!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am glad there are ppl who think Bijoy no worse that Ishwai ...If Ishwari is insecure , then Bijoy is over protective and thinks ONLY a Bengali man can keep his daughter happy...

From the day one I have told that If its Ishwari at Dixit house then its Bijoy at Bose house...I can understand a fathers plight seeing his daughter living a lonely life...he will have a fear what will happen to her after him...but Bijoy selfishly forgot abt his grand daughter ...her father is alive and they have hidden the fact from him...If Bijoy gets Sona married to Jatin and then Dev gets to know ...he can approach the court...then that poor lil girl will be in the middle of custody battle...

I feel Sona might be treating Jatin as a friend but doubt for Jatin its the same...

And the investment discussion that happened ...I now doubt if it was done by Jatin or Dev...!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post and i totally agree with you. During the whole marriage time, Bioy was equal to Ishwari in many ways. He is also very much responsible for the Dev - Sonakshi breakup.
Jatin has been brought to make Sonakshi realize her mistakes. Their love story started with Dev and Sonakshi becoming friends, but this friendship was one sided. Dev considered Sonakshi his best friend, but Sona did not think so. She was very happy to share his secrets and give him advice, but never revealed herself in all this.

Even during the marriage phase Dev was open about his feelings and everything to her, but she failed in letting him in. She failed to make him "her best friend". Today she commented how Jatin thought her idea was good, supported her and even invested in her company. But wasn't Dev think the same. Sonakshi failed here to include Dev and talk to him about it, openly. If only she had discussed about all this openly, the slap of Bijoy would never have happened. Everything would have been out in the open and none of the things would have happened, that happened.

Dev is going to question it later to Sona and she won't have an answer. Not just for this question, but everything. Her not making Dev as her friend was her mistake and Dev is going to question that. Dev realizes his mistakes and is ready to accept them, but is Sonakshi even realizing how wrong she was and how the separation was also because of her? Right now, I don't think so.

Only when she realizes her mistakes too, then the story can progress...Just my thoughts. Not intended to hurt anyone...😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Love your thoughts!

Today was a replay of th time when they met at doctors office pointing fingers at each other. Wonder what other memorable moments are going to be replayed.

Yes sona is finally considering sohas reveal to dev. Also we are finally getting what is going on in her mind.

Well Asha & bijoy are being typical parents. They want their kid to settle down. I don't understand the connection between the reveal of sohas father & sonas marriage. Are you thinking as parents they might get back together as husband & wife?

Bijoy has always been loud & crass. Yes he did not understand dev but as a father he was always afraid for his daughters happiness which is normal. He did make a few mistakes esp with dev & ish but they were not as bad.

Ish is one of a kind selfish to the extreme. I don't think you can compare the 2.

Btw sona has to realize her feelings for dev. I think jatin is going to be the facilitator for her to examine herself.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yup Sona is ideal for Dev only..they both are in denial stage...just like the post separation track, atleast Dev is aware that Sona still loves him which is evidenced from his dialogue with Ish..Sona like before pretends that she is over but the truth is still she cares/loves Dev...Regarding Ish = Bijoy it was evident post marriage track and culminated at the slapgate issue...his actions are nullified by Asha's involvement where as for Ish there's none to drill sense into her head as everyone at Dixit mansion are terrorized by her...both have significantly attributed in sabotaging Devakshi relationship...only difference is Ish is Barbaric and Bijoy is civilized (thanks to his wife for that)
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Today I felt that Bijoy is a milder version of Ishwari.He doesn't have that clingy,toxic over possesiveness which Ishwari has.But he is definitely behaving in a rash manner.
I understand that he is concerned for his daughter.But why does he think that his daughter will be happy only after marrying someone?? Why can't she be happy on her own and with her daughter?? And in future if she wants to reconcile with Dev or marry someone else then she can decide that for herself.She is a matured and responsible person.

First of all he has to consider Soha.The little girl hasn't even seen her own father despite the fact that her father is alive and well.And how will it be possible for her to accept someone else as her father when she doesn't even know her own father??It will create a lot of complications for her.
After that there is Sona.Bijoy thinks that he knows what's best for her.But why doesn't he think that Sona might have a different opinion?? Maybe Sona doesn't wish to marry anyone right now.Why can't he respect her decision??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi

Nice post and i totally agree with you. During the whole marriage time, Bioy was equal to Ishwari in many ways. He is also very much responsible for the Dev - Sonakshi breakup.

Jatin has been brought to make Sonakshi realize her mistakes. Their love story started with Dev and Sonakshi becoming friends, but this friendship was one sided. Dev considered Sonakshi his best friend, but Sona did not think so. She was very happy to share his secrets and give him advice, but never revealed herself in all this.

Even during the marriage phase Dev was open about his feelings and everything to her, but she failed in letting him in. She failed to make him "her best friend". Today she commented how Jatin thought her idea was good, supported her and even invested in her company. But wasn't Dev think the same. Sonakshi failed here to include Dev and talk to him about it, openly. If only she had discussed about all this openly, the slap of Bijoy would never have happened. Everything would have been out in the open and none of the things would have happened, that happened.

Dev is going to question it later to Sona and she won't have an answer. Not just for this question, but everything. Her not making Dev as her friend was her mistake and Dev is going to question that. Dev realizes his mistakes and is ready to accept them, but is Sonakshi even realizing how wrong she was and how the separation was also because of her? Right now, I don't think so.

Only when she realizes her mistakes too, then the story can progress...Just my thoughts. Not intended to hurt anyone...😊


Excellent thoughts Shaavi!

When I look back at the episodes, you are actually right. Friendship was one sided, but essentially because Dev trusted the wrong people and his sense of timing was always wrong. On her part, Sona never made an attempt to talk to Dev about when he was with a calm and cool mind.. Yes, she should have told Dev about the business plan but she chose not to. In fact, Dev would have supported her fully, as much as he supported Saurabh.

Therefore her conversation with Jatin on this front appeared hollow to me too.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61


If a someone can be brought in to facilitate Sona to know her feelings about Dev, I think there can be a someone who can make him feel the same. They really do not have to show him like a wanderer, carefree, flamboyant, irresponsible etc.

I think the makers have lost it again!

I think Soha will make him feel the same. I am not sure if any girl will be able to do anything for Dev...thanks to his casanova status...girls are more interested in his looks than actually him. Remember, he never had or needed any friends earlier...I doubt he made any in the last 7 yrs. So, Soha will be that friend and facilitator for him.

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