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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: preethik

Love your thoughts!

Today was a replay of th time when they met at doctors office pointing fingers at each other. Wonder what other memorable moments are going to be replayed.

Yes sona is finally considering sohas reveal to dev. Also we are finally getting what is going on in her mind.

Well Asha & bijoy are being typical parents. They want their kid to settle down. I don't understand the connection between the reveal of sohas father & sonas marriage. Are you thinking as parents they might get back together as husband & wife?

Bijoy has always been loud & crass. Yes he did not understand dev but as a father he was always afraid for his daughters happiness which is normal. He did make a few mistakes esp with dev & ish but they were not as bad.

Ish is one of a kind selfish to the extreme. I don't think you can compare the 2.

Btw sona has to realize her feelings for dev. I think jatin is going to be the facilitator for her to examine herself.


No, for me, it is about priorities. Soha was shown, multiple times, inquiring about her father... he chose to ignore it. But here comes along Jatin, and the first thing he thinks of is marriage for his daughter! I really don't care if they show a Sona and Jatin relatuinship, but not talking to Soha about her father is terrible.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with each of your words.
Earlier I have mentioned in many posts that when ishwari was even bijoy was wrong.. besides that I even dint like bijoy when he said he wanted jatin to be married to Sona as he is a Bengali... Really ??? I remember when dev just praised Sona saying he wouldn't have gotten a girl in his religion like Sona ... What a difference...

And I'm bored of this third angles... Why will always a third will be brought to make one realise their feelings.. it just prove that these two doesn't have a heart to accept n a brain to think.. they always need a push from the outsider.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hello sir...
I do agree with u... Tday i also coudlnt tolerate bijoy... He also nvr understood dev... Nt accepted him as his sil.. As he is nt a Bengali... And jar bangali ladka sona k liye sahi hai..

And asha maa... She also surprised me.. She knows sona loves dev... Par phir bhi shaadi... Kyu...

Dev wll nt get jealous this time... Bt wll be terriblly hurt... I m sure...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14
I have always agreed to d fact sat bijoy is just a milder version of ishwari and it has a lot to do wiyh d presence of asha and his mother ...otherwise bijoy can b worse dan ishwari ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I beg to respectfully disagree and agree with Tia who has pointed it out correctly in her long response here -


If Ishwari is over possessive, to the extent of freaking controller of Dev's life, Bijoy is being over protective. That does not drop him to Ishwari's level. He does not want his daughter (the apple of his eye) to be hurt YET ANOTHER time by Dixits. And especially now that he's seeing Dev and Sona crossing roads every day, he just wants to rule out that possibility of Dev hurting his daughter again.


Should a father not protect his own daughter after seeing her repeatedly insulted and her feelings being played with? Bottom line is he's seen the consequences of Sona's love for Dev and her decision to be with him. And he's not willing to risk the little happiness and success that his daughter has gained with her efforts by pushing her back with Dev Dick Shit!


Is he right being that overprotective and taking decisions on Sona's behalf? NO.

BUT Bijoy NEVER= Ishwari!!
Edited by .Neela. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drcs

Yup Sona is ideal for Dev only..they both are in denial stage...just like the post separation track, atleast Dev is aware that Sona still loves him which is evidenced from his dialogue with Ish..Sona like before pretends that she is over but the truth is still she cares/loves Dev...Regarding Ish = Bijoy it was evident post marriage track and culminated at the slapgate issue...his actions are nullified by Asha's involvement where as for Ish there's none to drill sense into her head as everyone at Dixit mansion are terrorized by her...both have significantly attributed in sabotaging Devakshi relationship...only difference is Ish is Barbaric and Bijoy is civilized (thanks to his wife for that)


You are right... Bijoy has an Asha but Ishwari has only her everly indebted brother who has little or no influence on her. To me, however, both lack class.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowiee

I agree with each of your words.

Earlier I have mentioned in many posts that when ishwari was even bijoy was wrong.. besides that I even dint like bijoy when he said he wanted jatin to be married to Sona as he is a Bengali... Really ??? I remember when dev just praised Sona saying he wouldn't have gotten a girl in his religion like Sona ... What a difference...

And I'm bored of this third angles... Why will always a third will be brought to make one realise their feelings.. it just prove that these two doesn't have a heart to accept n a brain to think.. they always need a push from the outsider.



Absolutely, cannot agree more. I have said this before and will say it now, these new entries tracks suck big time!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I totally agree with you

I always said that Bijoy too is same as Ishwari not as dramatic but same
he is a father and loves his daughter but fails to realize his grand daughter too needs a father
Bijoy has all the right to be angry at Dev as a son in law but he cannot make such a vital decision that Dev cannot meet Soha
the day in Kolkata when Soha wanted to know her fathers name Bijoy went all crazy he does not want that name mentioned in his house that's wrong
his granddaughter yearns for her father
yesterday she kissed the drawing as if she was kissing her father's photo can Sona not see what she is doing to her daughter

Dev should be given the option if he wanted to know his daughter or not
I can understand in the past situations must have been difficult but now at this moment Soha needs her father the very same way Sona needs her father
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I completely sympathise with Bijoy because he had to face a lot of insults from the Dixits and because he was slapped too.In that matter,I fully support him.He has a right to be angry at the Dixits and be apprehensive about them.


But I don't support his eagerness and hurry to get Sona married.At the end of the day,it's Sona's life and Sona's decision about whom she wants to marry or if she wants to marry in the first place.I don't support Bijoy forcing his decisions and wishes on Sona.Okay,I agree that Jatin is a great guy.But does Sona want him?? That's what matters.

I remember a previous TV show which I used to watch.There the FL's mom was talking to the FL's dad about her marriage.Then the father told,'I can cook for my daughter's entire baaraat.But only if she wants the baraat to come.'
Similarly Bijoy should respect Sonakshi's decision.

But still everything said and done Bijoy can never,ever be like Ishwari.
Edited by ---Andromeda--- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
I have to agree with you. I quite didnot like the whole boss family attitude after leap. Agreed they faced insults ,humiliation , lies everything from their daughter in laws but they r conveniently forgetting their part in the whole fiasco. I was amazed at Sourav yesterday conveniently blaming Dev and forgetting his lies which culminated in his sisters marraige dissolution. Where is introspection from boss family arenot they better than Dixit here they r behaving at par with them.
Plus they have made it boss family against Dixit family where is consideration of their daughter marraige. Bijoy pride n ego is the driver for Sona facade as she dosenot want to let down her father again. But where is that caring father who cautiously agreed for a Dev Sona alliance. Bijoy now is at par with Ishwari who just sees the bravefront Sona has put on and cannot read his daughter heart.

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