@Sumz_d: I've always tried to take the high road and not engage in a battle of words with you but i guess it's time to get some facts right.
I apologise beforehand if anything i say sounds rude to you, that isn't my intention.
There is a thin line between love and obsession and Yuvi's love has crossed over to the other side. I know that he and Twinkle were in a relationship at one point of time but when that relationship ended, he chose to obsess over her rather than letting go. In a sense, he did make some pretty diabolical plans to make someone else's wife his and that my friend fits the bill as obsessive behavior.
Just for the record, Kunj never interfered in Twinkle's relationship with Yuvi. He was just a voice of reason to her which ultimately made her question her whole equation with Yuvi. He only stepped in when the need arised, and most of the times it was to protect Twinkle from her boyfriend who had some serious anger issues. Its amazing how conveniently facts are twisted.
So wait? Just because his plans to molest someone went wrong, he isn't to be termed as a rapist? He is to be treated differently just because he never made a full proof plan? It's not playing with the dupatta, it's the spiking-a-drink-and-attempting-to-rape thing that is working against Yuvi. He has attempted to rape Twinkle, twice or thrice and if this doesn't raise a few red flags about his character then i don't know what to say to you.
Even the thought of playing with a woman's virtue is despicable and disgusting.
Last time i checked, it was Twinkle herself who asked Yuvraj to stop interfering in her life and turned down his multiple advances to help her. So that cancels out the friends for life thing right?
Also Kunj's intentions while helping Twinkle were pure and he was genuine in his approach. You can't compare these two men on the same grounds. One of them tried to inflict her with endless pain while the other one always stood in harm's way to protect her.
Just so you don't mess it up, the former is Yuvi and the latter is Kunj.
Coming to your buddy's arguments.
I guess i've already answered to the first query. Don't think i need to repeat myself.
Okay so Yuvi turned obsessive because Kunj snatched Twinkle from him? Let's take a trip down memory lane here. It was Twinkle who chose Kunj over Yuvi, Kunj had offered to back off from the alliance but Twinkle chose not to and went ahead with the wedding.
Twinkle's decision to choose her mother over Yuvi wasn't something spontaneous. She always thought that someday her mother would come around, but the moment she saw Leela with that bottle of poison, she realised that her mother would choose death over her alliance with Yuvi. Its at that moment that she decided that her mom means more to her. She pondered over the events again and again and finally decided to calls things off with Yuvi.
Kunj can never hurt Twinkle no matter how much he is hurt by her. He loves her and nothing can change that. I say reserve your comments until the future track is made clear.
Yuvraj doesn't know Twinkle better than Kunj. Heck, he can't even understand when to back off and apparently her 'no' means 'yes' to him. Yuvraj Luthra can never understand Twinkle.
Coming to the trust issues, Kunj has always had his faith in her. He stood by her in testing times when everyone else chose not to. Let's just go back to the Purvi-Manohar deal for instance, he believed her to be innocent even when everyone else held her responsible for leaking the video. Kunj's problems have always been about Twinkle not sharing stuff with him and letting him in on her plans. Trust issues have never been his concern.
Lol, blaming Kunj for impressing Leela before Yuvi is like blaming every guy on this planet who is better than Yuvi in some sorts or the other. Yuvi had a lot of time to make an impression and it's not Kunj's fault that Yuvi failed to do so.
Gurl, Yuvi would have left her the following day of their marriage and she would have been left to fend for herself while her hubby dearest roamed the streets of Amritsar with a new girl by his side. Yuvraj never intended to spent his life with Twinkle. That was never on the table for him.
Kunj is a human, and its normal to be jealous BUT Kunj wasnt jealous but protective. He was skeptical about the overnight change in Yuvi's behavior and had his reservations about the same. He isn't wrong to not instill his faith in a guy who was trying to burn his wife alive and kill him a fortnight ago. He just wanted Twinkle's out of harms way and so asked Twinkle to keep her distance from Yuvi. I see nothing wrong in that.
For the sake of it, every person gets jealous at kne point of time in their lives, no matter how big hearted and nice they are.
Also we know this is just a soap opera and taking it in that sense but the message being sent out is just wrong and not right. Your argument about not supporting a rapist in reality is quite contradictory considering how you're here advocating for a fictional character who has attempted to do exactly the same.
Again, if Yuvi had let gone and respected Twinkle's choice of being with Kunj, then he would have saved himself the trouble of planning out a few rape attempts and murders. Twinkle would not suddenly find him appealing and leave Kunj to be with Yuvi. That's just bogus.
Anita would have been the same conniving self but at least Yuvi would have spared himself the drama and would have had a honest chance at being happy in life. He could have moved on.
Twinkle may have forgiven but she has clearly not forgotten Yuvi's wrongdoings. Maybe she is confident that he is a changed man now but she still hasn't let gone of the horrible things he has done in the past. We needn't think of why she isn't scared of him, that's something she has to do. Also forgiving someone doesn't mean that you've opened your heart out to them. Also, it's not what they are showing in the soap, it's about what's right and what's wrong.
Twinkle wasn't looking to hook up with Kunj. Fate just kept pushing them back together into such situations as a sign that they are meant to be. She didn't look for romantic stuff to happen with Kunj. They just happened.
We have always maintained that we have no issues with Yuvraj but issues with how they are showing a potential rapist and murderer get the girl. YuvLe is wrong on so many levels and it doesn't send out a good message.
We are not forcing you to like TwiNj, nor are we looking to like YuvLe.
Let's just find a middle ground and move ahead peacefully without indulging in these constant fandom wars. We don't like YuvLe, that doesn't mean we object to you liking them.
Edited by MaliciousAngel - 9 years ago
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