I have not been following the show but from what i have understood through skimming the Written Updates today which I read after seeing senseless fandom ship-wars; I just want to point at few things from Twinkle's perspective that has happened since she has saved Yuvraj Luthra from the fire he himself put at the date Kunj organized for Twinkle.
- She has LITERALLY begged Yuvi in front of Kunj to STOP interfering in her life.
- She denied his help constantly and repeatedly until he FORCED his way into helping her.
- She has CONSTANTLY ASKED him to leave her to on her own.
- She has pointed to him that she has her family and she DOES NOT NEED Yuvi's help at any point of her life.
- She has told him repeatedly TO STAY AWAY FROM HER.
- She has told him that SHE WILL NEVER FORGET THE HARM HE HAS POSED TO HER & HER FAMILY EARLIER.
- She is mourning Kunj's death and there separation in the privacy of the room she shared with him.
- She is trying to keep a grip on her life by throwing herself in work BUT Yuvi considers it in the most twisted sense his moral duty to insert himself into helping her WHEN SHE HERSELF HAS DENIED HIS HELP COUNTLESS TIMES.
A person trying to redeem himself doesn't FORCEFULLY insert themselves into helping other people. IT IS NOT YUVRAJ's DUTY TO MAKE SURE TWINKLE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE. In order to redeem himself in Twinkle's eyes, HE NEEDS TO LISTEN TO HER AND WALK AWAY FROM HER LIFE.
YUVRAJ LUTHRA is still obsessed with Twinkle. His world centers around Twinkle. Wether your mother is abusive, or loves you with all your heart, she is the first person any human interacts with and bonds with. Yuvraj didn't spare his own mother at many occasions and has only used her to his best abilities. His world, his purpose in life centers around one individual. Yuvraj Luthra is not capable of loving because he never loved anyone. He has only wanted to acquire, and to attain everything in his life.
He wants to show Twinkle that there is a man in her life who loves her so much that he will go to extreme lengths to show her that he loves her when in reality he doesn't love her at all but is obsessed with the IDEA of having her by his side. Before, he went to the wrong side of extreme and now he is going towards the right side of extreme and trying to show Twinkle that he can be better then Kunj and he knows her all too well.
Twinkle Taneja doesn't have any space in her life for Yuvraj Luthra at this point. She doesn't care for him, she doesn't need his help and she doesn't WANT to be near him. Twinkle Taneja would either have Kunj back in her life or choose to stay alone. She doesn't want to start her life over. She WANTS TO LIVE HER LIFE WITH KUNJ'S MEMORIES.
All in all, stop romanticizing Yuvraj's obsession for Twinkle as his love. If you give the counter argument of Twinkle marrying Kunj despite thinking he tried to molest her, remember that Twinkle was NOT forced to marry Kunj. Her mother was ready to break all ties with the Sarnas but Twinkle stepped in and said she will marry Kunj. Yuvraj till date has FORCED himself on Twinkle and even now continues to do so.
The difference between Kunj Sarna and Yuvraj Luthra is that one took permission of the girl before coming into her life and the other manipulated and forced his way in and refuses to leave.
P.S. Watch the TRP of the show drop like the rank of this forum has dropped. My heart would be so much at peace seeing the TRPs drop further and further. We were #3 and now we are at #10. How the turn tables. 😆
edited to add;
Can someone have Sakshi share this link on the FC Twitter and Facebook?
Edited by areeba_blossom - 9 years ago