stop romanticizing obsession

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have not been following the show but from what i have understood through skimming the Written Updates today which I read after seeing senseless fandom ship-wars; I just want to point at few things from Twinkle's perspective that has happened since she has saved Yuvraj Luthra from the fire he himself put at the date Kunj organized for Twinkle.

  • She has LITERALLY begged Yuvi in front of Kunj to STOP interfering in her life.
  • She denied his help constantly and repeatedly until he FORCED his way into helping her.
  • She has CONSTANTLY ASKED him to leave her to on her own.
  • She has pointed to him that she has her family and she DOES NOT NEED Yuvi's help at any point of her life.
  • She has told him repeatedly TO STAY AWAY FROM HER.
  • She has told him that SHE WILL NEVER FORGET THE HARM HE HAS POSED TO HER & HER FAMILY EARLIER.
  • She is mourning Kunj's death and there separation in the privacy of the room she shared with him.
  • She is trying to keep a grip on her life by throwing herself in work BUT Yuvi considers it in the most twisted sense his moral duty to insert himself into helping her WHEN SHE HERSELF HAS DENIED HIS HELP COUNTLESS TIMES.

A person trying to redeem himself doesn't FORCEFULLY insert themselves into helping other people. IT IS NOT YUVRAJ's DUTY TO MAKE SURE TWINKLE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE. In order to redeem himself in Twinkle's eyes, HE NEEDS TO LISTEN TO HER AND WALK AWAY FROM HER LIFE.

YUVRAJ LUTHRA is still obsessed with Twinkle. His world centers around Twinkle. Wether your mother is abusive, or loves you with all your heart, she is the first person any human interacts with and bonds with. Yuvraj didn't spare his own mother at many occasions and has only used her to his best abilities. His world, his purpose in life centers around one individual. Yuvraj Luthra is not capable of loving because he never loved anyone. He has only wanted to acquire, and to attain everything in his life.

He wants to show Twinkle that there is a man in her life who loves her so much that he will go to extreme lengths to show her that he loves her when in reality he doesn't love her at all but is obsessed with the IDEA of having her by his side. Before, he went to the wrong side of extreme and now he is going towards the right side of extreme and trying to show Twinkle that he can be better then Kunj and he knows her all too well.

Twinkle Taneja doesn't have any space in her life for Yuvraj Luthra at this point. She doesn't care for him, she doesn't need his help and she doesn't WANT to be near him. Twinkle Taneja would either have Kunj back in her life or choose to stay alone. She doesn't want to start her life over. She WANTS TO LIVE HER LIFE WITH KUNJ'S MEMORIES.

All in all, stop romanticizing Yuvraj's obsession for Twinkle as his love. If you give the counter argument of Twinkle marrying Kunj despite thinking he tried to molest her, remember that Twinkle was NOT forced to marry Kunj. Her mother was ready to break all ties with the Sarnas but Twinkle stepped in and said she will marry Kunj. Yuvraj till date has FORCED himself on Twinkle and even now continues to do so.

The difference between Kunj Sarna and Yuvraj Luthra is that one took permission of the girl before coming into her life and the other manipulated and forced his way in and refuses to leave.




P.S. Watch the TRP of the show drop like the rank of this forum has dropped. My heart would be so much at peace seeing the TRPs drop further and further. We were #3 and now we are at #10. How the turn tables. 😆


edited to add;

Can someone have Sakshi share this link on the FC Twitter and Facebook?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Areeba wow powerful post🤗
Ur differentiation of Kunj and UV is awesome..
But some people won't accept the truth how much v explain them..they ll be imagining things and will be in their own world..
Am.sooo happy u again made a post..
Twinkle is never gonna accept UV..for her he never exists..
For twinkle, kunj is her man always...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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there are three things i cannot digest at this point
1) romanticizing abuse and obsession - yuvi is a creepy lover and trying to make his love seem 'cute' is going towards an all new low
2) yuvi all of the sudden turning good - like wth? this doesn't make sense at all! people don't change like this.
3) the family accepting yuvi - erm...do i need to even explain myself on this one
all in all TRPs are def gonna drop, they have ruined the show. Now even kunj coming back (the character not actor) won't help esp if they are gonna show kunj as negative
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Shakti...

there are three things i cannot digest at this point

1) romanticizing abuse and obsession - yuvi is a creepy lover and trying to make his love seem 'cute' is going towards an all new low
2) yuvi all of the sudden turning good - like wth? this doesn't make sense at all! people don't change like this.
3) the family accepting yuvi - erm...do i need to even explain myself on this one
all in all TRPs are def gonna drop, they have ruined the show. Now even kunj coming back (the character not actor) won't help esp if they are gonna show kunj as negative



Romanticism is the most disturbing thing. Earlier I wasn't much against Yuvi's psychotic episodes because there was Kunj present in the show to balance out the quotient but now it's just terrible. Adding on that TEI has terrible execution so literally what they are trying to show, the audience is inferring the opposite of it.

Yuvi isn't good. Yuvi is doing the opposite of what he did earlier. He is forcing his way into Twinkle's life again and again!

Family accepting Yuvi is like beyond me. I think they are trying to show that no one really cares about Yuvi anymore but the execution is SO SO SO TERRIBLE.

With the TRPs, you're correct. The show will not pick up easily now unless they infuse it with supernatural content. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: amlavs

Areeba wow powerful post🤗

Ur differentiation of Kunj and UV is awesome..
But some people won't accept the truth how much v explain them..they ll be imagining things and will be in their own world..
Am.sooo happy u again made a post..
Twinkle is never gonna accept UV..for her he never exists..
For twinkle, kunj is her man always...



I wanted to get into the fandom war tbh Lavs. i'm to bored these days. 😆😆

and yeah, the show is about Twinkle rejecting Yuvi. Check out this promo in which she chooses her mother in the end:

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQEspWMw2vs[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by areeba_blossom - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SakshiiSays

Yes I am here 😆


I decided to help you out by trying to be a voice of reason that everyone is going to ignore. 😆 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: areeba_blossom



I wanted to get into the fandom war tbh Lavs. i'm to bored these days. 😆😆

and yeah, the show is about Twinkle rejecting Yuvi. Check out this promo in which she chooses her mother in the end:

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQEspWMw2vs[/YOUTUBE]

Fandom war...wow..😉😉
No..
Even if u state the fact they ll critize u and finally they ll curse u..
Tats Wat happend to me..😆😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: areeba_blossom


I decided to help you out by trying to be a voice of reason that everyone is going to ignore. 😆 😆


ha ha 😆
We don't need to raise our Voice at all,bcoz if the story is confusing,we can clear the facts,but what can we do,when some see it which was never in show...'Twinkle acting all along ' OMG i can't stop laughing abt this line 😆😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ areeba
So good to see u after sooo long...areeba...
Missed you...
& Yes twinkle playing along...like srsly...
@ sakshi...
Hats off to u SAKSHI...it needs great patience to deal with these stuff...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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One more thing uv always interfered in twinjs life. Now that kunj is not there he is all the more interfering in her life. For him twinkle is his priority right now. Uvs idea of romance is always twisted. He stalked her and now imagining twinkle in song wajah tum ho.

I m sure of one thing when kunj re enters twinkles life yuvraj will again be negative trust me thats his character. In what sense does he think he shud help her idk? Twinkle does not show that she is unhappy that does not mean she wants to move on in life. But yeah trps will fall down further. If it goes on like this i m sure within a month or two no one and i mean no one can stop this show from shutting down.
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