Originally posted by: Nav_Barun
Why are you calling it obsession I mean before yuvraj used to be obsessed with twinkle so the ways he was using to get her were bad but now he is helping her because somewhere he knows that he messed up a lot of things so this is his way of repenting but seriously you guys are haat dhooke after yuvi I mean relax its a show and some people are enjoying yuvle as a couple and stop bringing all the list of all the bad things he did again and again we get it ok and its not like twinkle is taking care of herself she always get in trouble so you really think yuvi who has feelings for twinkle wont do anything about it I mean seriously I dont even know what to say anymore on this forum I try not to reply because all I will get is a list of bad things yuvi did so yeah I will end it here
Definition of obsession: an idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes on a person's mind
Definition of redemption: the action of regaining or gaining possession of something in exchange for payment, or clearing a debt
Twinkle has VERY CLEARLY told Yuvraj that SHE DOES NOT NEED HELP FROM HIM. Twinkle Taneja has said in very CLEAR WORDS that she CAN NOT FORGET HIS PAST ATTEMPTS TO MESS HER LIFE. She has told him repeatedly to STOP HELPING HER.
Twinkle has told him that if he wants to redeem himself, PLEASE GO FAR AWAY and instead of listening to that, he continues to FORCEFULLY HELP Twinkle.
You can continue to ship Yuvi with Twinkle but in all moral senses, it is wrong. When Twinkle herself is not allowing Yuvi to become a part of her life then he should respectfully walk away but he is not. Instead "HELPING TWINKLE" and "SAVING TWINKLE" is becoming center of his focus which as from the basic definition you can understand means he is still obsessed with Twinkle.
You have all the right to enjoy the show. I have not attacked anybody who likes Yuvi. Yuvraj's character is very well written but his character is a negative character. He is an anti-hero and the lead of the story. The thing with showing characters like Yuvi without the sensitivity normalizes "pain" from love and from men towards the girl they are after. Yuvraj is stalking Twinkle and in real life someone behaves like that in real life, we will think that that's okay to do since this is the type of content we are okay with watching on screen. Yuvi's behavior is toxic and unhealthy. My point of the post is not to tell you what should happen and what should not.
I couldn't care less at this point. My point is that please stop ROMANTICIZING obsession as love because love and obsession are two different things.
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