If It Hurts, It Isn't Love.-Disclaimers

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 11 years ago

If It Hurts, It Isn't Love- this is inspired by a book by the same title.

Seems like every one in love in this show and those who love this show are in pain.Serious pain,that makes people scream and bleed and hurt and wound the other and ofc make posts.

Is Aahil in love?As much as his pain is supposed to convey?NO. IMO. He lacks the trust that comes with love,atleast the kinda love I expected from him or was led to believe he was in.

Is Sanam in love?Hmm i don't know.She trusts her god more than her man.Good for her.

Is Sunheri in love? Hmm don't know. She is not in pain is she?I know she is a pain in ...for some of us.She is hopeful of her love now.

Is Rehan in love?Yes. He chose to trust his heart and decided to go after his love.He might fall out of love again, once,he comes to know what his darling has been upto since their unceremonious breakup.

Am I in love with this show now? NO. Will I fall in love again with this show?May be.Definitely after the leap for few months.

Are you in love with this show now?

Who do you think is really in love in this show?

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After the lovely discussion I think, it 's better to clarify the kinda love I had in mind when i made this post. It's the kind that liberates the lover not enslaves to another.It's at the level of the soul and not at the physical and mental level.It's the love that heals not hurts.It doesn't bring pain or pleasure but bliss.

I'm trying hard to think of an analogy to clarify the LOVE that wouldn't hurt. If you think of love as a journey it's the DESTINATION, anywhere in between is only a stop that gets you closer or further to your DESTINATION. Oh yeah, i know the journey becoming the destination bit,but you haven't arrived if you haven't reached the finishing point and you are only a traveller along the way not the one who has arrived.

You might call infatuation,lust,admiration,respect,acceptance and everything else a different kind of love, but they are NOT.

Trying harder here, let's say I want to bake a cake and gather all the ingredients that go into the recipe, I can't look at the butter and flour and say it's the cake. They have the potential to be the cake😆 but not they are not the cake yet. So,let's not call the cracked eggs and whipped cream, Cake.

Cake is what you get after baking and it smells good and it's delicious.

That's an half-baked attempt to explain. 🤣

More disclaimer-

I'm not a SME, subject matter expert.

Edited by simran_singh_24 - 11 years ago

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JShukla

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Posted: 11 years ago

wot a post.. poora raitha faila diya love ka...

😆

I am sure Lateef loves Aahil.

Rehan loves sunehri too. He is smart, handsome, intelligent, sensible, understanding and most important...single ready to mingle.

Aahil ka love kahin nahi hain. sanam loves and trusts her god.

Am i in love with my new dress, shoes and purse..yeah. I know and understand that love. I hope Sanam gets some vibrant lovely clothes. and makeup. her rags and Haya's riches creep me out. Why does one sister roll in wealth and other cant find a change of dress in months.

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: JShukla
wot a post.. poora raitha faila diya love ka...
😆

I am sure Lateef loves Aahil.

Rehan loves sunehri too. He is smart, handsome, intelligent, sensible, understanding and most important...single ready to mingle.

Aahil ka love kahin nahi hain. sanam loves and trusts her god.

Am i in love with my new dress, shoes and purse..yeah. I know and understand that love. I hope Sanam gets some vibrant lovely clothes. and makeup. her rags and Haya's riches creep me out. Why does one sister roll in wealth and other cant find a change of dress in months.

Thanks JS.

Lateef's love! !That's so deep and so pure!.I don't want to sully that by bringing it in such a dirty place with others.

I hope out of this darkness of SaHil-Ver 1 's separation, AaLeef get few moments to cherish.

That'll be truly experimental.Forget third wheel, bring a third tanker in between.No offence to the actor's appearance.

Forgot about HaRaFa. If they are easy to forget then am not in love with any of them.😆

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Pragya

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Posted: 11 years ago

If it hurts, it isn't love.

But..If it doesn't hurt, its definitely isn't love.

😆

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath
If it hurts, it isn't love.
But..If it doesn't hurt, its definitely isn't love.
😆

I don't believe in the fallacy that love is painful and you have to walk thr' hot coals to achieve that.

If it's hurting it's the ego that's wounded.

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Pragya

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

I don't believe in the fallacy that love is painful and you have to walk thr' hot coals to achieve that.
If it's hurting it's the ego that's wounded.

Come on! There's an age old saying "No pain, no gain" Thats suited in almost all cases, maybe love too? 😆

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath

Come on! There's an age old saying "No pain, no gain" Thats suited in almost all cases, maybe love too? 😆

Don't believe in that either.😆

It's all stone age thinking.

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flora212

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Posted: 11 years ago

All I can say its love story😳 there are four kind of love stories fairy tale, passionate love story, dark love story and tragic love stories.

Love in the each category differs from each other but the element is same its love story. Sahil love story also falls in one of the department. In real sense no person can be completely trustable or believer of trust except the almighty. I think same thing goes with love 😆 basically according to me in any kind of love at some point or other you will be hurt , it might be small or big.

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Pragya

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Posted: 11 years ago

^^ I don't know about love. But I do believe in that saying! Atleast for life.

If you don't yearn for it, you don't earn it. Simple as that.

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: flora212
All I can say its love story😳 there are four kind of love stories fairy tale, passionate love story, dark love story and tragic love stories.
Love in the each category differs from each other but the element is same its love story. Sahil love story also falls in one of the department. In real sense no person can be completely trustable or believer of trust except the almighty. I think same thing goes with love 😆 basically according to me in any kind of love at some point or other you will be hurt , it might be small or big.

IMO, the love that comes from the level soul will never hurt. It's the love at ego and physical levels that hurts.

Aahil's ego is wounded. That's the lvel his love is at now. Same with other pairs.

I would say Sanam feels deeper,beyond ego.She never blamed him for not rescuing her or playing house with her twin.

Edited by simran_singh_24 - 11 years ago