If It Hurts, It Isn't Love.-Disclaimers

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farz_parachute

@farz_parachute

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Now on post.

True man.

It shouldn't hurt if it's love.

But it does coz it is.

Simple really when you think about it.

Premise 1: A loves B.

Premise 2: It doesn't hurt coz it's love.

Conclusion: B doesn't love A.

It hurts coz it's love and love wasn't suppose to hurt.

But really.

Where is the love?

*yes the Blue Eyed Peas featuring JT song*

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farz_parachute

@farz_parachute

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath

Farryyy love!! Farruu. Farzayyhhh. #4. Just realised even your maniac code sounds with an "F" Or is it ..Like with an "eff"..???!! 😆

Hugs baybeh!! Hugs and kisses! Lots and lots and lots of!!! ;)

Oh yes! Maguire is LOVE!! Cruise is LOVE! Hayyee..INDEED.

We totally distract from the discussion right?! Everywhere we go! 😆 Well thats us! Oh no no..thats Sexayh Beast. Indeed. Truly TRULY.
Yeah yeah I get it okay! Its YOURS. As in YOUR patents and all the shit. I know okay, I am the lawyer here 😆
So. I don't want any rights. Because I love him. No terms and conditions. I have all the love for him! And he deserves all of that! He is love! ❤️

Yeah I get Its The Sexy Stubble too. Ah that stubble of his on that perfectly sculpted jaw...Ugh.

@bold: OWNED! So totally OWNED! ;)

Miss ya too my Honey Bunny ;)

Awww.

You also know Fark os a thing right..?

So forget eff.

;)

Hahaha

Hi five my maniac!

And really.

Whatever on the patent.

The enigma that is this sexayh beast is all that matters. And he. Is all of ours. Yes.

All and more.

Him

Hurts or not. Pain or not.

He. Is love.

Yours. Mine.

Ours.

Always.

And yup. Distracted we get.

Only one to be blamed. This time we team prosecution!

Sexayh beast guilty of...

;)

*I meant Love, geniuses*

Hahaha

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: micshy
Urgghhh i cant even quote n hv to reply ...
Yes i agree with that ... Whatever mandy said... N that pure love doesnot hurt ... Nor does it make ppl's life miserable... N they r at this stage where they r making their journey towards that pure love form...
So now the qs is should it be called love ??
Now that depends on each n every individual how he/she perceives love... Everybody has different perceptiond of love... Whats live fr me wont be probably love fr many n vuce versa... Love is more of like a personal beleif... N every body deciphers it in his/her own way...

About ur last line ...it was beautiful... That true love means letting it go... Personally i truly beleive that love doesnot mean u hv to get married to the other person inorder to accomplish ur love.. I hv a really strange definition of love n ihv had really nice n lengthy arguments... A love can be accomplished even without getting the person... I beleuve in a selfless kind of love ...like the one Shahid had for kareena in jab we met... Thats my kind of love... U love someone.. U r concerned only about his/her happiness ... Not that u should be eith him/her...
Like he was so content with his life even without her cz he knew she was happy somewhere with her love... I absolutely adored thiz kind of feeling

"Na Hai Yeh Pana...Na Khona Hi Hai, Tera Na Hona, Jaane...Kuyn Hona Hi Hai..Tum Se Hi Din Hota Hai...Surmayi Shaam Aati Hai...Tum Se Hi...Har Ghadi Saans Aati Hai...Zindagi Kehlati Hai...Tum Se Hi..."

Just like the lyrics above say, that is your definition of love isn't it? That song is my favorite from Jab We Met! One of the BW movies I have watched and really enjoyed in the past few years. Imtiaz Ali...love him! :)

Love is not conquering or winning the person, but just loving them right? THAT is the kind of love that Saraswatichandra had for Kumud. In the original story, they never get married, but they fulfill their love for each other by always being there for each other. Each married someone else, but their love remained. Not in an "Adultery" sense, but in a "Pure" sense. Just like Devdas and Paro remained in love till the end, even when they were never able to be together. Like Chandramuki loved Devdas, even though HE loved someone else. He was the first man who made her feel like she was WORTH something. That made an impression on her that never left, and she sacrificed her life to his name! That is a pure form of love too! "Ek Thawaiaf, Jogaan ban gayi!"

So in order to achieve the purest form of love, you don't need to be married to someone! I agree. But the love must be unconditional, and it must be till the end. Ankeri Saans Thak! But it also does not abscond you from the commitments you have made in your life. Just like the above mentioned love stories illustrated. Especially the women, they loved these men without ANY expectations. Even Saras, loved Kumud without expecting to possess her in the end. He just loved her! Simple! When she was married to Pramad, he did everything he could to make her life easier, not expecting anything in return.

Of course ideally, your OWN life partner is the person that receives this unconditional love from you. That is what we had hoped for Sanam and Aahil and I still live in hope that that will become their own reality one day!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Does Love hurt?

It does.

But everything that hurts is not true love.

True love gives you the strength to hurt and find joy in the other's happiness.

Love is not about YOU as a person...

It is about the other person...

I feel:

AAhil is hurting...will hurt worse when he knows the truth...especially if he has pushed SAnam out of his reach. Hopefully we will see how love helps him to survive. Then we will see True Love.

Sanam LOVES AAhil. She loves him beyond the hurt he gives her...She hurts FOR him.

Sunehri and REhaan: REhaan is slightly better off...since he learned to look beyond his ideals...Sunehri has a long way to go.

Very nice post.

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simran_singh_24

@simran_singh_24

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Guys, sorry about going to sleep and leaving the discussion mid-way last night.

See that you people have been having a great time.i'm happy,even tho' i missed some live talk and talk back.That's love.😉

Wow! the comments are insightful and i need to read,absorb and then respond.

Will get to this as the day goes by.

Have some official stuff to take care.

Have a great day or evening or night, depending on where you are!😃

Be warned, i'll be back!

Edited by simran_singh_24 - 10 years ago

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GitaIyer

@GitaIyer

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Quite a thinking post Simran.

Reminds me of a dialog from Umrao Jaan

"Pyaar woh hai meri Jaan jo Jeena Seekha De"

Sanam's love taught Ahil to live. That's love.

Ahil's love for Sanam, we are yet to witness. Maybe this track is for that.

Life is about pain and happiness.

Love is about sharing the pain and multiplying the happiness.

Aww, your post is make me philosophical😆

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Pragya

@Ms.Sherlocked

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: farz_parachute

Awww.

You also know Fark os a thing right..?

So forget eff.

;)

Hahaha

Hi five my maniac!

And really.

Whatever on the patent.

The enigma that is this sexayh beast is all that matters. And he. Is all of ours. Yes.

All and more.

Him

Hurts or not. Pain or not.

He. Is love.

Yours. Mine.

Ours.

Always.

And yup. Distracted we get.

Only one to be blamed. This time we team prosecution!

Sexayh beast guilty of...

;)

*I meant Love, geniuses*

Hahaha

I know I know Fark is a thing. Like for REAL! And thats why "I Fark you, Farz" ;)

Sexayh Beast is amazing and all kinds of zing..

He is guilty. Guilty of..love. True.

And. And. Heartbreaks.💔

So. Love DOES hurt. Isn't it? ;)

😆

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Pragya

@Ms.Sherlocked

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: farz_parachute
Now on post.

True man.

It shouldn't hurt if it's love.

But it does coz it is.

Simple really when you think about it.

Premise 1: A loves B.
Premise 2: It doesn't hurt coz it's love.

Conclusion: B doesn't love A.
It hurts coz it's love and love wasn't suppose to hurt.

But really.

Where is the love?

*yes the Blue Eyed Peas featuring JT song*

"Try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me

Run out the room and I'll follow you like a lost puppy

Baby, without you, I'm nothing, I'm so lost, hug me

Then tell me how ugly I am, but that you'll always love me

Then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
Destructive path that we're on, two psychopaths but we
Know that no matter how many knives we put in each others backs
That we'll have each others backs 'cause we're that lucky.."

Our love is crazy, we're nuts but I refused counselin'
This house is too huge, if you move out I'll burn all two thousand
Square feet of it to the ground, ain't shit you can do about it
With you I'm in my f**kin' mind, without you, I'm out it

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
But that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
But that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie..

💔❤️

Edited by Prags_Sociopath - 10 years ago

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simran_singh_24

@simran_singh_24

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath

I know I know Fark is a thing. Like for REAL! And thats why "I Fark you, Farz" ;)

Sexayh Beast is amazing and all kinds of zing..
He is guilty. Guilty of..love. True.

And. And. Heartbreaks.💔

So. Love DOES hurt. Isn't it? ;)

😆

You two sexy things,defending your sexybeast, wait ... till i take a break

Have fun!