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If It Hurts, It Isn't Love- this is inspired by a book by the same title.
Seems like every one in love in this show and those who love this show are in pain.Serious pain,that makes people scream and bleed and hurt and wound the other and ofc make posts.
Is Aahil in love?As much as his pain is supposed to convey?NO. IMO. He lacks the trust that comes with love,atleast the kinda love I expected from him or was led to believe he was in.
Is Sanam in love?Hmm i don't know.She trusts her god more than her man.Good for her.
Is Sunheri in love? Hmm don't know. She is not in pain is she?I know she is a pain in ...for some of us.She is hopeful of her love now.
Is Rehan in love?Yes. He chose to trust his heart and decided to go after his love.He might fall out of love again, once,he comes to know what his darling has been upto since their unceremonious breakup.
Am I in love with this show now? NO. Will I fall in love again with this show?May be.Definitely after the leap for few months.
Are you in love with this show now?
Who do you think is really in love in this show?
Disclaimer
After the lovely discussion I think, it 's better to clarify the kinda love I had in mind when i made this post. It's the kind that liberates the lover not enslaves to another.It's at the level of the soul and not at the physical and mental level.It's the love that heals not hurts.It doesn't bring pain or pleasure but bliss.
I'm trying hard to think of an analogy to clarify the LOVE that wouldn't hurt. If you think of love as a journey it's the DESTINATION, anywhere in between is only a stop that gets you closer or further to your DESTINATION. Oh yeah, i know the journey becoming the destination bit,but you haven't arrived if you haven't reached the finishing point and you are only a traveller along the way not the one who has arrived.
You might call infatuation,lust,admiration,respect,acceptance and everything else a different kind of love, but they are NOT.
Trying harder here, let's say I want to bake a cake and gather all the ingredients that go into the recipe, I can't look at the butter and flour and say it's the cake. They have the potential to be the cakeđ but not they are not the cake yet. So,let's not call the cracked eggs and whipped cream, Cake.
Cake is what you get after baking and it smells good and it's delicious.
That's an half-baked attempt to explain. đ¤Ł
More disclaimer-
I'm not a SME, subject matter expert.
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