If It Hurts, It Isn't Love.-Disclaimers - Page 8

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath

Mischy. Just read your awesome reply. You pretty much differentiated the love of the kinds.

A real love, could may be far far off what we see in fiction. Maybe that's why we like the love we see in fiction, coz that's like you won't get to see in real life, quite rare, very rare actually!

I think this kinda intense love we only get to see/read in fiction.

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath

Mischy. Just read your awesome reply. You pretty much differentiated the love of the kinds.

A real love, could may be far far off what we see in fiction. Maybe that's why we like the love we see in fiction, coz that's like you won't get to see in real life, quite rare, very rare actually!

I think this kinda intense love we only get to see/read in fiction.

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

This should go in the disclaimer actually😆 i tried hard to think of an analogy to make it clear to the LOVE that wouldn't hurt. IMO, if you think of love as a journey it's the DESTINATION, anywhere in between is only a stop that gets you closer or further to your DESTINATION. Oh yeah, i know the journey becomes the destination bit,but you haven't arrived if you haven't reached the finishing point and you are only a traveller not the one who has arrived.

You might call infatuation,lust,admiration,respect,acceptance and everything else shades of love, but it is NOT.

Trying harder here, if i want to bake a cake and gather all the ingredients that go into the recipe, i can't look at the butter and flour and say it's the cake. They have potential to be the cake😆 but not they are not the cake yet. So,let's not call the cracked egg and whipped cream cake,cake is what you get after baking and it smells good and is delicious.

That's an half-baked attempt to explain. 🤣

You guys have fun, i'll peep in.

Have a great day!

Originally posted by: JShukla

Simran, thats why I'd say Love and cake are so different.

In my opinion all of life's experiences are journeys and they end with life Love is also one of the experiences.

We'll continue to walk till HE tells us to stop.

How according to you is the end product of Aahil Sanam's love? When they get married? have kids? Should Aahil have gone to look for Sanam- would that be love then? Should Aahil have recognised another woman in Seher? would that be love?

on cakes there are cakes and then there are my cakes(they do not smell good and delicious) so would we not call them cake😕. They have same ingredients I swear. And do I learn.. no I never stop baking and trying . I am no Sanam with perfect techniques(cooking techniques only -strictly)

I'd say Aahil's love is like a tasteless useless cake(just the kind I bake) that no one likes to eat.. but love to hai usse...

Sanam's cake has all the good ingredients (like some others make)... usse bhi love hai..

Mujhe bhi love hai... har use cake se which I have not baked😳

Heck dont talk about cake pls..I am trying to loose weight her😡

Originally posted by: JShukla

Simran, I know you have signed off.

I had pretty much stayed to see KVB back on screen. and the maximum I expected from him is he trying to ignore Sanam while he remains around her and the ensuing tashan. Really this is the max that I expected. I had not signed up for he making her a servant, a maid to a courtesan , insulting her openly in front of family and servants.

this is very regressive and it revolted me. I also see that people feel he is very much in love... And I am quoting my last post from one of Mandy's simlar post. ... not sure Simran if you read it, but I appreciate your intelligence of quitting when it made sense. I am also over my crush on Aahil. He does not deserve it.

I did read it.,hey thanks for the compliment on my wise choice.😃 I'm happy this show ended for me with Aahil's confession and i didn't hang around to watch the destruction of his character and hate him more.

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The abusers are of varying degrees.

Certainly Samrat from Doli Armaano.. is more abusive. But that does not make Aahil non-abusive. He is just a shade less abusive.

Samart is the worst case, Abhi and Aahil are on the same class, IMO. Zee is the most regressive of all Hindi GECs.

Why else will he want to humiliate his wife in front of family and friends. I hate that Lateef to this date does not respect Sanam like a begum. All because Aahil never made anyone respect her. And now again she will be disrespected. The whole of Bhopal will know Aahil is married to 2 Sanams and one of the Sanams is the servant and is made to dance in a 'bhari mehfill'.

there is no pain or regret in his eyes. Just curosity if what he did was heartbreaking enough. I think we all must know that a man who insults you is certainly not doing it out of love. Aahil's plans are all calculated and measured. Not done in a fit of anger.

What is classic Aahil? Classic Abuser? Mostly they want their victims to stay in front of them to suffer endlessly, beg for mercy while they enjoy the view. At present he looks like that.

I did not see any regret in his eyes. Or is it coz KV has forgotten how to act?

For now, only Rehan-Seher and Rahat-Haya have a healthy relationship. Rehan -Seher will have to come to terms with each other's treachery and they alone will sort it out like 2 loved ones should. Ditto with Rahat-Haya. See how they sorted out their own problems themselves. Now thats a hero.

Rahat-Haya are all sorted, are they? Glad, some body is happy in this show. Hopefully,viewers will be spared of the Cv's brother-in-law fixation inspired scenes.

No Woman must think that a man loves her when he is behaving like Aahil is behaving with Sanam. Period. It is not love. If Sanam has some sense she must quickly run for her life. Save herself while she can revenge and Ahil be damned. Remorseless sister be damned.

This is what the post was about you know.

Can you really hurt someone you loved once?If you are hurting,have you loved really?

I've no clue about what's going on in QH and from your post it seems Aahil is trying to hurt Sanam,where it hurts her the most,her pride,self-respect.May be in his mind he is revenging &probably making her do what Sehar did earlier,dance inappropriately infront of family &friends.

Lot of women put up with abusive behaviour from men mistaking it for some twisted expression of their care & love🤢 not just in romantic relationship,even between mother and abusive adult children.

I've been rooting for a nice guy for Sanam since Aahil lost his brain during the swap, it'll be good for Sanam to have a positive experience of love from a decent guy,who has some brains and can think independently.