Khushi was at fault today - Page 7

Originally posted by: Deb_Barun_Arnav

I agree with you. I was also not quite appreciating Khushi's behaviour - and today she crossed it. She should have at least obeyed Nani's orders. I think she needs to control her emotions and stop thinking that she has to take all the responsibility of RM.

Loved your post and I agreed with your point 1 and 3...it was a private moment between a brother and a sister she should have respect that plus I hate eavesdropping bcz it doesn't solve anything and rather creates more trouble.
Secondly Khushi should develop some sense of self respect and self worth in herself...when nani said to her not to come in front of anjilli then she should have said that I'll go to my parents house for a while...she herself is more of a victim than anjilli will ever be...first Shyam cheated her and her family and then arnav and his family mistreated her...anjilli has her whole family going nuts after her but she didn't have anybody when arnav married her for 6 months...the thing that boils my blood is that nobody cares about her feelings and she still runs after everybody...she should try to control her urge of interfering in everybody else's life and let them deal with it the way they want to...if anjilli wants to mourn for that jackass of a husband of hers then it's not Khushi's fault...Khushi should take a break from RM and go to Gupta house and spend some much needed time with them...I got so mad at nani yesterday when she was boohooing for anjilli,had she for one minute what Khushi went through living with that lecher in the same house...she should tell them what she had gone through at hands of Shyam and arnav with no fault of her own.

And to the TM and all those who agree with her on the third point not one of you find it odd that Nani is not justified when she asked khushi to stay away? So the matriach is correct when she asked the daughter-in-law of the house who btw risked her own life to bring her grandson back to stay away for no fault of hers.

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

From the past few days I'm not liking her behaviour. She really needs to learn to respect people's privacy. Before you start to throw chappals at me, hear me out.

There are three main scenes which have irritated me a lot.

1) Khushi eavesdropping on Arnav-Anjali conversation.

Arnav had clearly asked to be alone with his sister. He told everyone in the room to leave. That includes her. She left, but she sat outside, listening in on their conversation. Seriously? Can a person have some privacy in this house or not? And the matter did not even concern her. It was between brother and sister. I know she felt guilty about Anjali, but that was not a time she should have been listening in on the conversation. So I found that part to be a little... meh...

2) Arnav was sitting alone on the steps at night.

There was a reason why he was not with her in the bedroom. He wanted to be alone. Had he been alone, perhaps he would have let his emotions out a little more... With her by his side, he had to pretend to be strong... for her sake. He couldn't even cry. The scene when she went to "comfort" Arnav really put me off actually. Sometimes you just need time alone... sometimes even away from the people you love the most. I wish Khushi had understood this.

3) Giving the food to Anjali today.

Manorama was 100% correct today, I felt. Out of everyone in the house, I am POSITIVE that the LAST person Anjali wants to see right now is Khushi. Nani ji even told her the night before to stay away from Anjali as much as possible! So when there were so many people in the house, what was the need for Khushi to walk in and hand her the plate. And what was she thinking? When she wouldn't even agree to eat from her brother's hand, she would take food from her hands? While watching the scene today, I really felt as if she's putting all the weight on her own shoulders to make everything right in RM when this is not right. It is not her responsibility to see whether or not everyone in the family is happy or not. She told the truth to the family. Now whoever wants to believe her can do so, and whoever do not want to believe don't have to. And there are many people in the house to take care of Anjali. So this scene ticked me off completely.

Overall, I don't like the fact that Khushi is interfering so much in other people's privacy...

And please, don't bother calling me a basher for this post. I I will not hesitate to point out flaws in characters. That doesn't mean I love that character any less.

Comments are welcome.

Sanju

To some extent, i agree with you and at others i don't. See since beginning, Khushi's role has been one of that of a mender, its bred into her. She just wants to right the wrong, thats her true nature. Either if its with her family, her sister, Arnav, Anjali, or just anyone she loves. Its not really her fault, she was brought up that way. She ceases to fix the cracks, even if in the end, she will be faulted for it,because thats how she is. And about the 2nd point, i strongly disagree, its those moments, when your partner understands your need and comforts without you really having to say anything.

Once again, Yes she is gullible and thinks truly from the heart, she can't see her loved ones in pain, even though she is digging her own grave. However, this time around, Arnav will there to help her out of it. At least i hope, so :)

i agree with 3rd and 1st point... 2nd one is needed

But that's how Khushi has always been.