Khushi was at fault today

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@-Sanjana-

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Posted: 13 years ago

From the past few days I'm not liking her behaviour. She really needs to learn to respect people's privacy. Before you start to throw chappals at me, hear me out.

There are three main scenes which have irritated me a lot.

1) Khushi eavesdropping on Arnav-Anjali conversation.

Arnav had clearly asked to be alone with his sister. He told everyone in the room to leave. That includes her. She left, but she sat outside, listening in on their conversation. Seriously? Can a person have some privacy in this house or not? And the matter did not even concern her. It was between brother and sister. I know she felt guilty about Anjali, but that was not a time she should have been listening in on the conversation. So I found that part to be a little... meh...

2) Arnav was sitting alone on the steps at night.

There was a reason why he was not with her in the bedroom. He wanted to be alone. Had he been alone, perhaps he would have let his emotions out a little more... With her by his side, he had to pretend to be strong... for her sake. He couldn't even cry. The scene when she went to "comfort" Arnav really put me off actually. Sometimes you just need time alone... sometimes even away from the people you love the most. I wish Khushi had understood this.

3) Giving the food to Anjali today.

Manorama was 100% correct today, I felt. Out of everyone in the house, I am POSITIVE that the LAST person Anjali wants to see right now is Khushi. Nani ji even told her the night before to stay away from Anjali as much as possible! So when there were so many people in the house, what was the need for Khushi to walk in and hand her the plate. And what was she thinking? When she wouldn't even agree to eat from her brother's hand, she would take food from her hands? While watching the scene today, I really felt as if she's putting all the weight on her own shoulders to make everything right in RM when this is not right. It is not her responsibility to see whether or not everyone in the family is happy or not. She told the truth to the family. Now whoever wants to believe her can do so, and whoever do not want to believe don't have to. And there are many people in the house to take care of Anjali. So this scene ticked me off completely.

Overall, I don't like the fact that Khushi is interfering so much in other people's privacy...

And please, don't bother calling me a basher for this post. I I will not hesitate to point out flaws in characters. That doesn't mean I love that character any less.

Comments are welcome.

Sanju

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Posted: 13 years ago

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samin6

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Do agree with the third point. She should not have gone to Anjali and anyway I also think Mami was right. She can be forgiven about her dialogue about the Gupta sisters because she was concerned about Anjali. In any case Anjali is playing the victim.

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Posted: 13 years ago

privacy? that two people you are talking about are her husband and another on is none less than a sister to her! supporting and caring doesnt mean interfering! she loves them way too much and she wants to do something for them.. it was fault?
i think you are right.. she was always at fault.. she should have thought about herself before anyone then she would have been right.

in such crucial time if someone wants to talk to you.. give you shoulder to cry.. support you.. care for you.. despite getting humiliated by you but still understanding you.. is not being faulty.. its her lovable nature.. which is her biggest fault.. being good at heart.. i feel sorry for her

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: samin096
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Manorama was 100% correct today, I felt. Out of everyone in the house, I am POSITIVE that the LAST person Anjali wants to see right now is Khushi. Nani ji even told her the night before to stay away from Anjali as much as possible! So when there were so many people in the house, what was the need for Khushi to walk in and hand her the plate. And what was she thinking? When she wouldn't even agree to eat from her brother's hand, she would take food from her hands? While watching the scene today, I really felt as if she's putting all the weight on her own shoulders to make everything right in RM when this is not right. It is not her responsibility to see whether or not everyone in the family is happy or not. She told the truth to the family. Now whoever wants to believe her can do so, and whoever do not want to believe don't have to. And there are many people in the house to take care of Anjali. So this scene ticked me off completely.

Do agree with the third point. She should not have gone to Anjali and anyway I also think Mami was right. She can be forgiven about her dialogue about the Gupta sisters because she was concerned about Anjali. In any case Anjali is playing the victim.

thank u for agreeing!😳

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vishali

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Posted: 13 years ago

ya agree wid ur 3rd point...

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Chaituv

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Pari---
From the past few days I'm not liking her behaviour. She really needs to learn to respect people's privacy. Before you start to throw chappals at me, hear me

2) Arnav was sitting alone on the steps at night.

There was a reason why he was not with her in the bedroom. He wanted to be alone. Had he been alone, perhaps he would have let his emotions out a little more... With her by his side, he had to pretend to be strong... for her sake. He couldn't even cry. The scene when she went to "comfort" Arnav really put me off actually. Sometimes you just need time alone... sometimes even away from the people you love the most. I wish Khushi had understood this.

R u serious with this point of urs? Did he say that he wanted to be alone? If a person u love is sad n sitting alone in the dark u don't go n talk to them n give them moral support? In that scene when she holded his hand she has a doubt wether he wants her to be there with him or not so she looked at him n when he holded her hand n said yes with his eyes only then she was fine. After all she is his wife.

I wanted to add one more thing , we should not forget that it is the same day wher she was about to loose her life n even scared of loosing Arnav while saving him...so any wife will be wanting to stay with her husband . Because she loves him more than anything...n frankly she needs more support for all she went through in the last few days of kidnap n all...it doesn't mean she don't want anyone beside her just because she is not crying all the time. It's just that she is being good n strong..poor gal!

Edited by Goldilocks1 - 13 years ago

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Paarijat

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Posted: 13 years ago

I guess she just tries to fix everything for the better...plus I think it is part of her upbringing...she grew up in a neighbourhood where people always comfort each other...she wouldn't understand the elite society's need for privacy.

I think she needs to let go occasionally...if someone doesn't eat..they will have to learn to respect their body and do the needful...you cannot force them to eat.

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@-Sanjana-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -Delicious_BS-
privacy? that two people you are talking about are her husband and another on is none less than a sister to her! supporting and caring doesnt mean interfering! she loves them way too much and she wants to do something for them.. it was fault?
i think you are right.. she was always at fault.. she should have thought about herself before anyone then she would have been right.

in such crucial time if someone wants to talk to you.. give you shoulder to cry.. support you.. care for you.. despite getting humiliated by you but still understanding you.. is not being faulty.. its her lovable nature.. which is her biggest fault.. being good at heart.. i feel sorry for her

husband and wife yes. But sometimes you just need to have time alone. And what's so wrong about that?!😲

And if she wants Anjali to get over her pains, she has to stay away from her, at least for a few days while the initial pain ceases. She has to give her time. Anjali is NOT emotionally ready to deal with the situation.

And I never said that she was always at fault. Please read my post carefully before saying such things. I just said that these were the 3 scenes that put ME off! My opinion!

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Anita Malik

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I disagree with the second point, but agree with the rest :D LOL. I feel that Arnav isn't a guy to express his emotions easily and he wouldn't have cried even if Khushi wasn't there...Sometimes you just need some support in life..and ASR got that through Khushi- but that's beside the point lol. I felt that KHUSHI was entirely wrong today. I understand she was feeling bad and went to Anji for a good intention, but she really should have given Anjali time- esp since Nani had told her to stay away. And Mami was right...MAMI was at home. Khushi needs to always stop taking things into her hands.

PS: I love Khushi, but she was wrong today. Now she's gonna have to face the wrath.

Edited by anitamalik - 13 years ago