Khushi was at fault today - Page 6

Originally posted by: tej03

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can i jump in here..

me too was feeling the same...

it is annoying to see her interfering in everybody affairs. when she herself cant take advises then why she kkeps giving one to others as if she has seen the half of life what elders have not seen...

when she said arnav, she will accompany him, i was like... one should not be too imposing...

mami was right...

looking at the bond they share, it wud be impressive n meaningful if arnav-anjali sort out the things by themselves without others intrusion.

Her husband just hit back from being kidnapped so don't u think she would be scared of him going alone again. Also when it comes to his Di arnav can never think straight that's why she wanted to go with him. Though I agree with her fault in not obeying nani but This point of urs is invalid

Are you serious?

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

From the past few days I'm not liking her behaviour. She really needs to learn to respect people's privacy. Before you start to throw chappals at me, hear me out.

There are three main scenes which have irritated me a lot.

1) Khushi eavesdropping on Arnav-Anjali conversation.

Arnav had clearly asked to be alone with his sister. He told everyone in the room to leave. That includes her. She left, but she sat outside, listening in on their conversation. Seriously? Can a person have some privacy in this house or not? And the matter did not even concern her. It was between brother and sister. I know she felt guilty about Anjali, but that was not a time she should have been listening in on the conversation. So I found that part to be a little... meh...

2) Arnav was sitting alone on the steps at night.

There was a reason why he was not with her in the bedroom. He wanted to be alone. Had he been alone, perhaps he would have let his emotions out a little more... With her by his side, he had to pretend to be strong... for her sake. He couldn't even cry. The scene when she went to "comfort" Arnav really put me off actually. Sometimes you just need time alone... sometimes even away from the people you love the most. I wish Khushi had understood this.

3) Giving the food to Anjali today.

Manorama was 100% correct today, I felt. Out of everyone in the house, I am POSITIVE that the LAST person Anjali wants to see right now is Khushi. Nani ji even told her the night before to stay away from Anjali as much as possible! So when there were so many people in the house, what was the need for Khushi to walk in and hand her the plate. And what was she thinking? When she wouldn't even agree to eat from her brother's hand, she would take food from her hands? While watching the scene today, I really felt as if she's putting all the weight on her own shoulders to make everything right in RM when this is not right. It is not her responsibility to see whether or not everyone in the family is happy or not. She told the truth to the family. Now whoever wants to believe her can do so, and whoever do not want to believe don't have to. And there are many people in the house to take care of Anjali. So this scene ticked me off completely.

Overall, I don't like the fact that Khushi is interfering so much in other people's privacy...

And please, don't bother calling me a basher for this post. I I will not hesitate to point out flaws in characters. That doesn't mean I love that character any less.

Comments are welcome.

Sanju

you actually are right

I agree what Khushi did today was immature... her heart was in the right place. Yes I do agree that she should have gone to manorama maami to ask her to make sure Anjali eats. Nani advised her to stay away from Anjali coz she realised Anjali does not want to be in Khushi's presence when she saw Anjali pretend to sleep when she saw Khushi come towards her and then break down again when Khushi left and hence she asked Khushi to stay away. But then again thats soo in Khushi's character. Remember the very first episode when Khushi goes to talk to Payal's prospective groom about the dowry issue. Khushi is impulsive when it comes to the people she loves... and sometimes it back fires on her like this time. But the fact remains that she cares and loves Anjali like a sister.
About going to comfort Arnav I think it was fair ... as someone who loves him it is normal for her to go find him and comfort him. But notice she always waits for some sign from him that he wants her around. Yesterday she held his arm and waited for a response only when he put his hand over hers did she lean on his shoulder. Likewise day before when she went to give him tea with shaking hands.. she didn't do or say a thing to Arnav till he held her hand to stop her from leaving.
About the eves dropping yeah maybe it was wrong on her part but its not such a big error.

I agree... esp with points 1 and 3. 2 not so much.

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

From the past few days I'm not liking her behaviour. She really needs to learn to respect people's privacy. Before you start to throw chappals at me, hear me out.

There are three main scenes which have irritated me a lot.

1) Khushi eavesdropping on Arnav-Anjali conversation.

Arnav had clearly asked to be alone with his sister. He told everyone in the room to leave. That includes her. She left, but she sat outside, listening in on their conversation. Seriously? Can a person have some privacy in this house or not? And the matter did not even concern her. It was between brother and sister. I know she felt guilty about Anjali, but that was not a time she should have been listening in on the conversation. So I found that part to be a little... meh...

2) Arnav was sitting alone on the steps at night.

There was a reason why he was not with her in the bedroom. He wanted to be alone. Had he been alone, perhaps he would have let his emotions out a little more... With her by his side, he had to pretend to be strong... for her sake. He couldn't even cry. The scene when she went to "comfort" Arnav really put me off actually. Sometimes you just need time alone... sometimes even away from the people you love the most. I wish Khushi had understood this.

3) Giving the food to Anjali today.

Manorama was 100% correct today, I felt. Out of everyone in the house, I am POSITIVE that the LAST person Anjali wants to see right now is Khushi. Nani ji even told her the night before to stay away from Anjali as much as possible! So when there were so many people in the house, what was the need for Khushi to walk in and hand her the plate. And what was she thinking? When she wouldn't even agree to eat from her brother's hand, she would take food from her hands? While watching the scene today, I really felt as if she's putting all the weight on her own shoulders to make everything right in RM when this is not right. It is not her responsibility to see whether or not everyone in the family is happy or not. She told the truth to the family. Now whoever wants to believe her can do so, and whoever do not want to believe don't have to. And there are many people in the house to take care of Anjali. So this scene ticked me off completely.

Overall, I don't like the fact that Khushi is interfering so much in other people's privacy...

And please, don't bother calling me a basher for this post. I I will not hesitate to point out flaws in characters. That doesn't mean I love that character any less.

Comments are welcome.

Sanju

I agree with you in the last part though I feel her intentions were not WRONG.

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Yep Khushi is at fault for all the calamity that befalls the Raizada Khandaan... I agree wholeheartedly, they deserve more, I am glad Khushi is leaving RM... at least outside RM she will be appreciated more..

I too was frustrated with her. Especially the speech