Khushi was at fault today - Page 8

I am completely agree with u on the first and third point... But in second point I think she was giving moral support to Arnav because she is well aware of his conditions and she knew he will solely take the burden without even sharing it to anyone... So that is Ok with me...

I am sorry, but I don't agree with any of your points.
Khishi was so worried about Arnav/Anjali. She blamed herself for what happened
It's not like that anjali never heard their talking now that's private between Husband/Wife.
2nd: Really? she was there to help. None in that family can help Arnav more than Khushi can right now. Arnav didn't ask her to leave him alone, give him sometime.
3rd: Why in the World grandmother stopped her from going to Anjali? it's not Khushi's fault that her husband is a cheat. Khushi is not infection/disease that Anjali can catch😭 gm should have knocked sense into her own grand child rather than stopping Khushi. This makes me so angry. What era are you living in?

Originally posted by: Oyster

But that's how Khushi has always been.

1. Khushi was warned by Garima to stay away from her because she saw her as the reason behind Payal's tragedy in the first episode of the show. But Khushi never listened to her.

2. She has always been given the ultimatum by Buaji, but Khushi never listened.

3. Payal once asked to be alone, but Khushi never listened.

It would be very out of character for Khushi to leave her dear ones in pain and suffering regardless of the verbal instructions.

But I understand your criticism and the reason perhaps is that you don't share Khushi's background. Khushi does not come from an individualistic society. Her cultural and familial background has taught her to "always be there." So what appears as 'violation of privacy' to you is a 'genuine concern' for Khushi.

The problem is not in your criticism (after all, Khushi is a fictional character, and I'm sure Sanaya shares your mentality), but I suggest that you avoid evaluating other cultural behaviors different from yours using your own cultural patterns as the fixed points of reference.

When the colonial powers came to the East, they thought we are "uncivilized" because we eat with our hands, for instance. But I could argue rationally that eating with hands is a lot more hygenic than using fork, you see. So again, it's about perspectives. I'm sure Khushi believes that ASR's overemphasis on respecting privacy is so inhumane.

I 100% agree with this. It would be out of character for her to Behave like that. That's how she is and I understand her character alot, Because I live her character daily.

Originally posted by: SaraaK

I am sorry, but I don't agree with any of your points.
Khishi was so worried about Arnav/Anjali. She blamed herself for what happened
It's not like that anjali never heard their talking now that's private between Husband/Wife.
2nd: Really? she was there to help. None in that family can help Arnav more than Khushi can right now. Arnav didn't ask her to leave him alone, give him sometime.
3rd: Why in the World grandmother stopped her from going to Anjali? it's not Khushi's fault that her husband is a cheat. Khushi is not infection/disease that Anjali can catch😭 gm should have knocked sense into her own grand child rather than stopping Khushi. This makes me so angry. What era are you living in?

I think the first two points are a little harsh especially point no 2. Arnav did not ask to be alone, he was just sitting there...and it's not like some stranger came and sat next to him, his WIFE did. And she came to support him and comfort him...hardly a sin.

Originally posted by: rini_kat

Actually I personally think Khushi should not go before Anjali because Anjali is sentimental type of person and Nani knows that... Remember some time ago Anjali got angry with Arnav as he didn't want Khusi to work in their house even though Anjali hired her,Anjali left the house then Nani said Arnav to take Khusi otherwise she will not come. Actually Anjali has some kind of ego...

Over this whole Shyamfiasco I think Anjali is hurt because Arnav gave importance to Khusi not to her husband .remember the Fbs... So obviously if Khushi comes before her she will get irritated...

On the last day also when Khushi came to speak with her she just pretended to be sleeping and these r all wtnessed by Nani and she realized it immediately .so she forbed Khusi to go near Anjali...

I was quoting your post end up pressing like sorry.
wow! so both siblings with ego problem, weird because one of them always blaming Arnav.
That's weird if she's comparing herself with Khushi, as she is doing exactly the same thing with Arnav. Ignoring Arnav because of her husband.
I know what Grandmother saw, and I don't agree with her option at all. when she was told by Arnav that what exactly happened. She should have told everything to Anjali make her understand rather than asking Khushi not to see her. I was angry with Arnav as well. He was there listening to her suggestion? wake up! you have wronged Khushi once to save your sister you are doing it again by not saying anything against that stupid suggestion. I can't understand this at all. If someone is wrong then elders and people around that person needs to tell them or else it'll be bad for that person. She will think that she can manipulate everyone with her crying and her temper. Remember that's exactly what Arnav's aunt was doing when she heard about Payal? that's when Arnav took a charge.
I call that emotional blackmail. That's exactly what Anjali will do because they are all letting her. I think it's not healthy for anyone.

i agree with 1st and 3rd...felt the same when i saw the episode itself for the 1st one!

Originally posted by: ---Pari---

I do NOT agree with yo at any point.

I can understand what Anjali is going through right now but I do not have any sympathy for her after yesterday's episode where she ask Arnav to leave her alone. The brother who ruined some innocent girl's life by marrying her only six months which is not even legal marriage, mere a contract to play a role of his wife, for her and she ignored him.

In all these mess, Khushi was the one who suffered the most still she forgot her pain and was thinking about Anjali her child. I hate Anjali for being selfish and not even think about her unborn child and Nani even after knowing the truth and what Khushi has gone through had a nerve to ask Khushi to stay away from Anjali just because she remind Anjali about snake, then what about Khushi? won't she remember snake and what he has done to her and her family by seeing her and whole Raizada family? Whole Raizada family is selfish...I hate them..

Originally posted by: adorableyosh

I do NOT agree with yo at any point.

I can understand what Anjali is going through right now but I do not have any sympathy for her after yesterday's episode where she ask Arnav to leave her alone. The brother who ruined some innocent girl's life by marrying her only six months which is not even legal marriage, mere a contract to play a role of his wife, she ignored her.

In all these mess, Khushi was the one who suffered the most still she forgot her pain and was thinking about Anjali her child. I hate Anjali for being selfish and not even think about her unborn child and Nani even after knowing the truth and what Khushi has gone through had a nerve to ask Khushi to stay away from Anjali just because she remind Anjali about snake, then what about Khushi? won't she remember snake and what he has done to her and her family by seeing her and whole Raizada family? Whole Raizada family is selfish...I hate them..