Ghum and patriarchy - Page 6

Originally posted by: mysticriver

They've taken everything a notch down things from KD when it comes to touchy scenes with ML & other women but when it comes to lead pair they show completely opposite from KD. What they show of ML with his bhabhis, Virat and Sai should be having Rusha type scenes. Like there's zero balance. There should be a difference in MLs conduct with his love & other women? This show is the only one which doesn't happen and we all know why thanks to the epitome of professional ML of the century who feels hesitant to even place his full palm on FLs face or hold her hands with tight grip whether bare armed or not.

I legit cannot stand this pathetic unprofessional ass so-called ML. Why the fk he's in entertainment field then. Get lost. Imagine of his wife were playing Sai the kind of scenes we'd have gotten by now 😡

see I don’t want to see intimacy .. but at least there should be proper Sai rat interactions.. even if they flirt with each other .. it’s good .. see the interaction in gharchiroli had zero intimacy but the acting was good between them .,

Somehow that passion is missing

Originally posted by: msin

see I don’t want to see intimacy .. but at least there should be proper Sai rat interactions.. even if they flirt with each other .. it’s good .. see the interaction in gharchiroli had zero intimacy but the acting was good between them .,

Somehow that passion is missing

So so agree.. There were no catching falling on each other but their eyes and body language were enough to convince.. They were not in love but their actions said something else..

I was getting that vibe in mimo track during driving lesson, when sai worn that sexy yellow dress to lighten up his mood.. I wish they had shown sai getting ready and making arrangements for great tea dates..

I don't want intimate scenes either.. But normal hugs and body language are enough to convince me..

The shruti track lacked that level of angst and passion which made it unbearable to watch

Originally posted by: Shaome

So so agree.. There were no catching falling on each other but their eyes and body language were enough to convince.. They were not in love but their actions said something else..

I was getting that vibe in mimo track during driving lesson, when sai worn that sexy yellow dress to lighten up his mood.. I wish they had shown sai getting ready and making arrangements for great tea dates..

I don't want intimate scenes either.. But normal hugs and body language are enough to convince me..

The shruti track lacked that level of angst and passion which made it unbearable to watch

Well there was a deterioration in acting and dedication seen after ML's wedding...before that, it was bearable.

Originally posted by: msin

See over here .. it gave the vibe that virat wants to be with shruti .. and is happy with her .. it was very ambiguous in KD .. Rono was more angry with emon for not trusting him ., and they had a few angry fights on their own .. Over here Sai virat interactions are reduced to dreams

That was the worst ...if they were in such a tough phase, we should have got more scenes of Sairat where they express themselves at each other in anger. Like the scene where he goes to the hostel, they need not have made him hold her tightly but it could've been done as a more intimate touch because they are husband & wife. In fact apparently in KD there were couple more scenes of Sairat which they cut out.

They messed Sairat bigtime. And they don't have the creative capability to give anything now either.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

That was the worst ...if they were in such a tough phase, we should have got more scenes of Sairat where they express themselves at each other in anger. Like the scene where he goes to the hostel, they need not have made him hold her tightly but it could've been done as a more intimate touch because they are husband & wife. In fact apparently in KD there were couple more scenes of Sairat which they cut out.

They messed Sairat bigtime. And they don't have the creative capability to give anything now either.

Waited for that scene way too much, reading about people take on KD, but it was so thanda and inconsequential, with the attempt to maintain an arm distance visible. More passion was seen in his fight with Shruti afterwards.

They are in a tight spot, they killed SaiRat but can't get a new ML as well, in the process killing sai slowly.

I still believe if sada didn't return, Virat would have moved on with Shruti since he had no issues with her claiming her love, he still lived there in their home.

Originally posted by: msin

see I don’t want to see intimacy .. but at least there should be proper Sai rat interactions.. even if they flirt with each other .. it’s good .. see the interaction in gharchiroli had zero intimacy but the acting was good between them .,

Somehow that passion is missing

In GC they did have those pull & push scenes not romantic but there was an aggression which is missing now.

Agar intimacy na ho lead pair mein toh log serials mein dekhenge kiya couple ka...

The makers took a completed story but failed to make it better at places. Even people who dont know about acting and characters will slap their forehead at the timeline of the show. And how do Virat pay for TV, hospital bill, house rent, etc when he had been on leave mostly since 1st anniversary?

I have never seen KD, only know bits and pieces that I have read in this forum. The makers have mostly followed tracks in KD till MiMo, then Shruti track is brought ahead. I had my fingers crossed they will make something good out of it but I am losing hope. They made Shruti a naxalite to justify Virat hiding her identity but at the cost of his IPS image. Then added eyebrow raising scenes that questions his character too.

I still connected with him when he didnt indulge much about his personal life and was talking about Sai proudly to Shruti. First alarm was when he held Shruti's hand at the hospital ward to console her when she was not even in pain. Then after Sai saw him signing as Sahas father he stayed in the room and said to Shruti that Sai has left him, he didnt tell the reason being registering Shruti as Mrs Chavan at hotel, I knew he is gonna put all the blame on Sai and family henceforth. Surely when Shruti tries to reason with him he tells her off. I looked past when Shruti took food to his room when he is sick and 'nagging' at him for not answering her calls because he told her off. But what was that shirt changing scene for? Lets say he forgot to close the door, then shouldnt he ask Shruti to leave before wearing his shirt correctly? Why does he need to prove to any other woman that he can wear his own shirt? Sorry to say, but that scene can look like husband-wife 'nok jhok' to new viewers.

They made Aai, Baba, Samrat, Mohit and Devi so harsh to Virat that I felt they went overboard. And now all the blame is pushed on Sai. First they ruined their bond with Virat and now with Sai. I still remember when Devi-Pulkit truth came out in front of family on previous Shivratri, Sai clearly said to Virat to not have blind faith on anyone after they broke fast. I dont know how they gonna wrap up this track, but if they made Sai go back to Virat without realizing what Virat did wrong then it will be Sai against the whole Chavan family. Sadly, Sairat scenes no longer bring a smile to me now.

In short, the makers are just writing scene for the sake of drama forgetting their own characterizations.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

In GC they did have those pull & push scenes not romantic but there was an aggression which is missing now.

Agar intimacy na ho lead pair mein toh log serials mein dekhenge kiya couple ka...

They have done it before. The Aniket fight. They didnt touch each other but the way they kept circling each other while arguing was enough to establish intimacy. Noone is asking for only romance because it could get repetitive for TRP, noone is asking for manhandling to show frustration.

Originally posted by: nikita05

Waited for that scene way too much, reading about people take on KD, but it was so thanda and inconsequential, with the attempt to maintain a hand distance visible. More passion was seen in his fight with Shruti afterwards.

They are in a tight spot, they killed SaiRat but can't get a new ML as well, in the process killing sai slowly.

I still believe if sada didn't return, Virat would have moved on with Shruti since he had no issues with her claiming her love, he still lived there in their home.

Exactly. That execution of that fight was so blah. Idk if they haven't done this deliberately throughout the track both ML & makers then they got it all wrong about the track from KD.

Tbh in every SaiRat fight where ML holds her both arms it's visible he somehow maintains a visible distance & resistance. It feels forced. You don't see the genuineness or looks so artificial even in the hotel fight after anniversary or their room one after he locked her in-room. He always maintains a big space b/w him & FL even in that terrible pin on wall scene during harini birthday but he has no hesitation doing scenes with Shafaq par Ayesha ke saath toh normals scene bhi nehi hota is ghatiya actor se. I HATE HIM SO MUCH. I'm quite sure people wouldn't have hated so much. The actor made ppl hate him more than he'd not have actually gotten despite the touchy scenes with 3rd angles if he did his scenes well with Ayesha 😡

Ikr. He was like I'll clear Sada's doubt & MU. Like how? When Shruti herself confessed her love for him & won't go back to him. What he'd clear?

Originally posted by: hiddenpurple

The makers took a completed story but failed to make it better at places. Even people who dont know about acting and characters will slap their forehead at the timeline of the show. And how do Virat pay for TV, hospital bill, house rent, etc when he had been on leave mostly since 1st anniversary?

I have never seen KD, only know bits and pieces that I have read in this forum. The makers have mostly followed tracks in KD till MiMo, then Shruti track is brought ahead. I had my fingers crossed they will make something good out of it but I am losing hope. They made Shruti a naxalite to justify Virat hiding her identity but at the cost of his IPS image. Then added eyebrow raising scenes that questions his character too.

I still connected with him when he didnt indulge much about his personal life and was talking about Sai proudly to Shruti. First alarm was when he held Shruti's hand at the hospital ward to console her when she was not even in pain. Then after Sai saw him signing as Sahas father he stayed in the room and said to Shruti that Sai has left him, he didnt tell the reason being registering Shruti as Mrs Chavan at hotel, I knew he is gonna put all the blame on Sai and family henceforth. Surely when Shruti tries to reason with him he tells her off. I looked past when Shruti took food to his room when he is sick and 'nagging' at him for not answering her calls because he told her off. But what was that shirt changing scene for? Lets say he forgot to close the door, then shouldnt he ask Shruti to leave before wearing his shirt correctly? Why does he need to prove to any other woman that he can wear his own shirt? Sorry to say, but that scene can look like husband-wife 'nok jhok' to new viewers.

They made Aai, Baba, Samrat, Mohit and Devi so harsh to Virat that I felt they went overboard. And now all the blame is pushed on Sai. First they ruined their bond with Virat and now with Sai. I still remember when Devi-Pulkit truth came out in front of family on previous Shivratri, Sai clearly said to Virat to not have blind faith on anyone after they broke fast. I dont know how they gonna wrap up this track, but if they made Sai go back to Virat without realizing what Virat did wrong then it will be Sai against the whole Chavan family. Sadly, Sairat scenes no longer bring a smile to me now.

In short, the makers are just writing scene for the sake of drama forgetting their own characterizations.

Well put..

Slowly gradually pushing away all the viewers.. Ridiculous of top order