Ghum and patriarchy - Page 5

Originally posted by: msin

Yes if they had truly made the bond platonic

They have already shown Usha maushi calling Kamal sir .. bhau and the platonic bond between madhuri n pulkit

If they had shown virat calling shruti bhabhi in private and she calling him bhau ..or treating him like younger brother .. it would have given some credibility to virat ..

By blindly copying KD.. they ruined the story

In KD .. Rono was quite actively sleeping with emon .. he did not keep her in arms length .. his fight was how he she can believe I can stray from you .

Here Virat sounded delusional when talking about trust in front of Shruti in the day divorce papers were signed because it was never actually developed...when sai started trusting him enough at the end of MiMo, he went for the mission and got Shruti.

Originally posted by: nikita05

That's what, Virat is shown to be 'Mahaan' but comes out as player who enjoys attention of women who lust after him because his wife doesn't give him importance. A person who comes covered in front of wife, has no qualms in changing shirt in front of bhabhi...a person who is shown to maintain boundaries with wife and respecting her wishes by making pillow wall, won't think for a second before holding hands and entering into personal space of deewani bhabhi...so 🤷

Very unique characterization of ML where villains look better than him.

At first I used to think they just add those scenes due to offscreen dynamics of real life couple but this last track cleared my doubt they just write & want to show him this way only😕

He can do whatever he wants & behave but Sai can't even talk with any other guy, shouldn't be near any man by 10ft distance as men will always be men

Originally posted by: mysticriver

At first I used to think they just add those scenes due to offscreen dynamics of real life couple but this last track cleared my doubt they just write & want to show him this way only😕

He can do whatever he wants & behave but Sai can't even talk with any other guy, shouldn't be near any man by 10ft distance as men will always be men

In many instances, sai is not even there in the scene, it doesn't serve any purpose (jealousy, realisation, anything), other than to infuriate audience and add more cringe...

That's the double standard of patriarchy...he can call each of his zimmedaari his wife, live with her, but Sai can't have male friend because she is married.

Originally posted by: msin

Yes if they had truly made the bond platonic

They have already shown Usha maushi calling Kamal sir .. bhau and the platonic bond between madhuri n pulkit

If they had shown virat calling shruti bhabhi in private and she calling him bhau ..or treating him like younger brother .. it would have given some credibility to virat ..

By blindly copying KD.. they ruined the story

In KD .. Rono was quite actively sleeping with emon .. he did not keep her in arms length .. his fight was how he she can believe I can stray from you .

Copying plus adding cringe scenes hand holding, touchy scenes, physical contact was so unnecessary & zero intimacy of lead pair that infuriated the audience.

They really raised question on him when he went from calling her bhabhi infront of Sada to calling her Shruti right after he shot him. Then calling her tum.. dost ke marne se actual rishta khatam ho jati kiya & she no longer remains bhabhi? Was he actually treating her in bhabhi spot while touching her? They never made him seem like he's met or treating her as a stranger. Would he himself be okay with Sada having physical contact with his own wife if roles were reversed. They went really wrong in this track, did things to thrive on negativity to get publicity thought more ratings they'd get but they were slapped right across their faces.

Originally posted by: nikita05

In many instances, sai is not even there in the scene, it doesn't serve any purpose (jealousy, realisation, anything), other than to infuriate audience and add more cringe...

That's the double standard of patriarchy...he can call each of his zimmedaari his wife, live with her, but Sai can't have male friend because she is married.

Yup. I mean if it's added to so Sai sees or gets a jolt that's another thing but there have been so many scenes which are added randomly when Sai isn't even in picture. But same won't be shown for Sai as the FL will always have to be chaste 😵

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Copying plus adding cringe scenes hand holding, touchy scenes, physical contact was so unnecessary & zero intimacy of lead pair that infuriated the audience.

They really raised question on him when he went from calling her bhabhi infront of Sada to calling her Shruti right after he shot him. Then calling her tum.. dost ke marne se actual rishta khatam ho jati kiya & she no longer remains bhabhi? Was he actually treating her in bhabhi spot while touching her? They never made him seem like he's met or treating her as a stranger. Would he himself be okay with Sada having physical contact with his own wife if roles were reversed. They went really wrong in this track, did things to thrive on negativity to get publicity thought more ratings they'd get but they were slapped right across their faces.

There was no restraint in Virat-Shruti scenes while no intimacy in Virat-sai scenes, opposite to what should be shown.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Yup. I mean if it's added to so Sai sees or gets a jolt that's another thing but there have been so many scenes which are added randomly when Sai isn't even in picture. But same won't be shown for Sai as the FL will always have to be chaste 😵

Female having these type of scenes, make them vamp, FL don't do this in ITV.

Originally posted by: nikita05

There was no restraint in Virat-Shruti scenes while no intimacy in Virat-sai scenes, opposite to what should be shown.

They've taken everything a notch down things from KD when it comes to touchy scenes with ML & other women but when it comes to lead pair they show completely opposite from KD. What they show of ML with his bhabhis, Virat and Sai should be having Rusha type scenes. Like there's zero balance. There should be a difference in MLs conduct with his love & other women? This show is the only one which doesn't happen and we all know why thanks to the epitome of professional ML of the century who feels hesitant to even place his full palm on FLs face or hold her hands with tight grip whether bare armed or not.

I legit cannot stand this pathetic unprofessional ass so-called ML. Why the fk he's in entertainment field then. Get lost. Imagine dragons if his wife were playing Sai the kind of scenes we'd have gotten by now 😡

Originally posted by: nikita05

Female having these type of scenes, make them vamp, FL don't do this in ITV.

It's always dost ki biwi, bade bhai ki biwi ya Samrat/mere Jeeva ki biwi but not vahini 😡

That's why OG KZK Prerna >>>>>>>

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Originally posted by: mysticriver

They've taken everything a notch down things from KD when it comes to touchy scenes with ML & other women but when it comes to lead pair they show completely opposite from KD. What they show of ML with his bhabhis, Virat and Sai should be having Rusha type scenes. Like there's zero balance. There should be a difference in MLs conduct with his love & other women? This show is the only one which doesn't happen and we all know why thanks to the epitome of professional ML of the century who feels hesitant to even place his full palm on FLs face or hold her hands with tight grip whether bare armed or not.

I legit cannot stand this pathetic unprofessional ass so-called ML. Why the fk he's in entertainment field then. Get lost. Imagine of his wife were playing Sai the kind of scenes we'd have gotten by now 😡

They still won't have any chemistry and would be all cringe🤣