Age-just a number ??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

kalpi is 20 plus not 22 plus...sammy said kalpi is 20 or 21

frankly speaking living with raghav like man who is so bossy in everything and so inflexible at times is really gonna be difficult for kalpi who is very much like him .

but then if u really love ur partner then these things dont matter a lot ...their is always a way

Okay...raghav can be bossy ruthless to any extent...but one thing he made it right away sure that kalpi's teary face would make him switch to sanity that too in spur of moment..yep even I feel ragna are way too levelled at their own complexities...I too hope that love of ragna paves way for their union at all times...thank you for the reply :)

btw nice topic re read the edited one

dont know what u mean by last question or is it even a question !!

how can professional success ever become ingredient of love forget about being key...love and professional success r two different things ...love has nothing to do with how successful my partner is !!!


agree maturity does not come with age always sometimes situations make u mature enough at quit young age.The difference can be seen between paaki and kalpi itself.

similarly raghav is more experienced in professional life but not in social life where he is zero , even though he is ten years older then kalpi .

i agree one thing raghav said living alone for so many years does bring lot of straage habits in u , they r bad or not depends on perspective ,plus as the more year pass it becomes difficult to give them up .

Age of 30 plus means , u have lived half ur life and u have a well develped personality and taste.while age of twenty or early twenties u r still experimenting with ur choices and ways of life.Thats the difference between raghav and kalpi

Thats why in olden days girls were married early at 16 or 18 coz parents and society dont want a personality to develop in a girl or she wont be able to adjust in new family

Originally posted by: Katnaforever

I dont think age is such an issue in this case..

Raghav has an eagerness now to get her to say that she loves him..but i dont think he'll rush into a marriage thing so soon..

And yeah he wants to get that feeling which sammy lectured him on..that you need to call this a home..not just an apartment..so kalpi brings that with her.. That homely feeling..and somewhere i think she likes it too..her mother has never let her cook much, but i think she doesnt mind..

And i hope raghav will help her in achieving her goals professionally..

Kalpi...as an individual is pretty good n so damn talented...she just needs a meduim or platform to showcase her talent...n raghav lended her that meduim...ofcouse oeople do have their own hobbies apart from doin what they are best at...I hardly see marriage on their cards...as there are much more issues in priority as of now...thanx for the reply -:)

Professional success isn't really a key to love. Love attracts one another on more personal bases than professional. If it only attracts you to professional bases, then it isn't a love but rather your greed. Yes, if you are talented, you have a good successful life, then it works like a cherry on top. You need to be professionally attractive if you are specifically talking about love happening in more professional way. And again it ends up being your personal choice.

Age doesn't have to do anything in the matter of love. In fact, personally I like how Ragna are this aged apart. Like I said before, the man gets more lovable, protective, caring towards a girl if she tends to be this young. You get to experience different personalities and yet it develops into a more stronger bond than normal. I personally liked Ragna's age difference. Its unique, it's bold, it's powerful!

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

btw nice topic re read the edited one

dont know what u mean by last question or is it even a question !!

how can professional success ever become ingredient of love forget about being key...love and professional success r two different things ...love has nothing to do with how successful my partner is !!!


agree maturity does not come with age always sometimes situations make u mature enough at quit young age.The difference can be seen between paaki and kalpi itself.

similarly raghav is more experienced in professional life but not in social life where he is zero , even though he is ten years older then kalpi .

i agree one thing raghav said living alone for so many years does bring lot of straage habits in u , they r bad or not depends on perspective ,plus as the more year pass it becomes difficult to give them up .

Age of 30 plus means , u have lived half ur life and u have a well develped personality and taste.while age of twenty or early twenties u r still experimenting with ur choices and ways of life.Thats the difference between raghav and kalpi

Thats why in olden days girls were married early at 16 or 18 coz parents and society dont want a personality to develop in a girl or she wont be able to adjust in new family

I felt that way...that myt be my thinking level...before the presentation episode raghav was so under estimating towards kalpi nd even blaming her for her helplessness...that too in a rude manner...once she have shown her professional capabalities hez all sorry n started counting on her...even kalpi did the same thing...she assumed him to be the person who is getting all the money transfered from dad to son generation...but as soon as he mentioned about his hardwork...shez in aww of him...but still I feel love n sucess are so entwined n connected..in case of ragna...In reality it might be as you said...be it a arranged marriage success will be the key ingredient n then furtherly it might bloom into love or compromise.
Olden days were better I guess...now a days you are raised up to be so confident n with all freedom...yet again there comes a time n situation where in u are demanded to give in either willingly or unwillingly.
Thanx for the appreciation..it truly means a lot :)

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Shana... Somewhere, I agree marriage does bring in adjustments.. but then obviously expectations matter a lot..!! And I see hell loads of differences..! and Love is not enough to spend the whole life.. there are hell loads of other factor that affects adjustment issues..!!

First of all I am wondering, how will RagNa.. together to agree, when should they get married??
According to you? how would they plan this question and decide upon it?

no marriage right now for ragna ,if raghav really loves kalpi.

agree raghav has fallen in love with kalpi due to his own loniness and laounging to have somebody to love him inspite of his strange ways.and he id find that girl in kalpi.she was able to reach his gloomy corners and brought out his vulnerable side which no girl has ever been able to do see

maya is his best friend and paaki a sheer drooler but none were able to reach real raghav its just kalpi .Raghav is smitten by kalpi and her ways .

But if he really loves kalpi Once he gets her yes surely he shuold offer her marriage .No not that he is just desperate for her but to prove that he really loves her and that she is no time pass for him.Then he should just give her option to say no and he will wait .That will be real raghav i would like to see , .The Raghav who was shown in promos to come far from seven sees to give feathers to her dreams . Who will give feathers to her dreams , make her learn how to fly and then sit back in his large chair and smile seeing her fly .Thats what raghav has to be for kalpi and thats how kalpi and kamla see raghav to be .

Kalpi will give everything to raghav ,just everything coz we can see how that girl is so ready please those people she loves .How much she craves to please and see her kamla maa happy and similarly she will do just anything to please and make her raghav sir happy . Kalpi is the real kalpna of vithal and kamla and now of Raghav

Very interesting post, you have raised different questions in the same post. First one is does age act as strength or weakness in the relationship; I'd say age has nothing to do with the success of the relationship. For any relationship to survive the couple involved have to adjust, compromise and accommodate the priorities of the partner which has nothing to do with the age. No individuals have similar tastes or choices even IF they are of the same age, so adjustment is key for the success of any relationship. Though success of the relationship is not affected by the age but priorities of the couple involved will get affected with the age, which directly shake the basic foundation of the marriage. The expectations and priorities are bound to change with age. Here in RagNa, Raghav is in early 30's with stable career while kalpi is still in the budding phase of career; He might want to settle down and start family while Kalpi is neither eager nor desperate for any sort of relationship in that case the changing priorities will take toll on their relationship

Is that females have early maturity than males or is it the way cv's designed for ragna drama..?? Not necessarily are females are mature but in general women are more accommodating and understanding which is more due to social conditioning, family upbringing and economic status not due to AGE. RagNa are equally mature, level headed, stubborn and stable as separate individuals and being elder he is more sorted out while she is messy, holds many preconceived notions and gets easily riled up. But in the relationship he is more vulnerable and desperate while she is realistic...this is more due to her responsibilities towards her family while he is all alone both physically & emotionally

Professional success though not the key ingredient will definitely play a bigger role in marriage though not in love; In case of RagNa, Kalpi is drawn more to Raghav's professional success (not to his riches) while Raghav is attracted to her caring nature though he is in awe with Kalpana's intelligence, her success hardly matter to him as much as it does to Kalpi. He might cheer her and support her !

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Professional success isn't really a key to love. Love attracts one another on more personal bases than professional. If it only attracts you to professional bases, then it isn't a love but rather your greed. Yes, if you are talented, you have a good successful life, then it works like a cherry on top. You need to be professionally attractive if you are specifically talking about love happening in more professional way. And again it ends up being your personal choice.

Age doesn't have to do anything in the matter of love. In fact, personally I like how Ragna are this aged apart. Like I said before, the man gets more lovable, protective, caring towards a girl if she tends to be this young. You get to experience different personalities and yet it develops into a more stronger bond than normal. I personally liked Ragna's age difference. Its unique, it's bold, it's powerful!

GREED...that's the word...I feel love to be a pretty lame extension of greed...so even you consider that age is just a num...but at times age cums with a baggage of habituality...which might become so tough to give up...oh yeah , now that u mentioned young girls are loved more...now I can connect n add on to reasons for ragna...I kind of dint like the idea of 10 year gap...I wish they showcase this factor n enlighten me how such age gaped relations prevail...thanx for the reply :)

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Professional success isn't really a key to love. Love attracts one another on more personal bases than professional. If it only attracts you to professional bases, then it isn't a love but rather your greed. Yes, if you are talented, you have a good successful life, then it works like a cherry on top. You need to be professionally attractive if you are specifically talking about love happening in more professional way. And again it ends up being your personal choice.

Age doesn't have to do anything in the matter of love. In fact, personally I like how Ragna are this aged apart. Like I said before, the man gets more lovable, protective, caring towards a girl if she tends to be this young. You get to experience different personalities and yet it develops into a more stronger bond than normal. I personally liked Ragna's age difference. Its unique, it's bold, it's powerful!

t@bold thats the case of just 1 percent of whole lot while 99 percent have quit a different story ..such men r also very inflexible and always think they r right and tend to underestimate the girl and many times even her right veiws r undermined saying u dont know ways of world , i know it better

such relationships r better only in case where girl is quit submissive or the boy is too very broad minded which normally is not always the case .

u get married or fall for the case as u said ...girl feels wow he is so caring...boy feels wow she is so innocent and cute ...married...and thyen what

girl feels god why he always has his way...sometimes i am right too yaar...it really suffocates

boy ...enough why does not she develop brains ...till when she is going to be like this !!!

anum i am telling u exactly what i have seen ...its never a cake walk...its terrible yaar

and u know what ...only few r able to survive such marriage that too after lot of talks and interventions from friend and psychologist while many separate saying ...fine dear it does not work anymore...thats how i see it here 😆