Age-just a number ???

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DiVirgo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: Pookhi
I think understanding counts more than age in a relationship.

Along with trust! Most important!

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arya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#42

I just dont understand why fuss abt age difference. I ve seen so many rrlationship whr age gap is more than 10. My dad is 10 yrs older to my mom. I m 32 and ve grown watchin them . I ve seen them love, care, fight also of course but at the end of the day they are always there 4 each other. So plz guys plz I dont think age matters in relatioship as long as u ve that understandin

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myera

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Posted: 11 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: ifrini
When Raghav said he was 32 I was like yeah .. I am tired of serials where they show self made business tycoons who are barely 20 . Come on it takes time to finish studies and make name for yourself (baring some few in Internet world) . Rahgav is shown to be 10000 crore guy in construction world .. Arrogant, has attitude, very sure of himself, very set in his way, commands respect .. His age is perfect. 20+ guy showing this attitude comes as a show off .
Raghav's age is ok, now comes Kalpi and her age .. They could have shown her little older, maybe 25/26, but then it would not work as they had to show her as rookie , initial stages of her life ,, flunking inexam(I know , I know CV's seems to have forgotten) etc. so her age of 20+ is also reasonable

Now we have a couple, who seems to have a bond since childhood and compliment each other now. even though Kapli has not confessed, you cannot forget the fact that after being really illtreated , it just took a heartfelt apology and explanation from Raghav for her to forgive him, she went back next day, not just as an employee but as a person wiling to share his life - remember that's what he asked on phone. She feels the connection with him and wants it too, just scared because of the difference in statu, experience and age too :-)

My point is When people are connected , age should not matter

Yeah...age factor...that's the only point where logic went in hand in the show...bond since childhood many people keep saying...I mean every body gets attracted to kids...even I myself pat a kid/toddler/baby cheek n try doin stuff to get the attention like smile tickle etc...that's all I have seen in ragna 1st meet...and yes I agree that they compliment each other...no matter how harsh raghav attacks on kalpi afew flattering lines with emotions included calms her to melting...may be that's what the bond is all about...yeah many are with age is just number...thanx for the reply.

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myera

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Posted: 11 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: preity_d
Your question Could Professional success be the key ingredient of love? I guess, success can be one of the small ingredient but key ingredient would be one's behaviour, sensibility and other human emotions, and above all hormones which would create chemical locha in ur heart n mind for another...
and coming to the age, it all about ur power to adapt. If there is love and patience age is not a factor there, I have seen many couples who have a diff of 10-15 yrs but still so much in love...

Yet again I count on love bein blind...when it comes to age also...even I have seen happy go functioning in couples with huge age gap...being a outsider we can't go much into lines...but may be due to the couples uderstanding factor n other abilities they can gel along well...thanx for the reply :)

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myera

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Manoshono
Yes Myera everyone gets greed once in their life time, doesn't matter if its legitimate or not. But professional being a key to love seems always a doubt, at least for me.

And see first time being in a relationship or first time being somebody's wife/ husband takes a good amount of time to make understanding. Because to be honest, none of them would know how to handle a relationship that is too delicate. Then, they tend to go with the flow and see where they lack their capabilities to handle certain circumstances. But an important key to fulfill the promise is to ignore faults. Nobody is perfect in the end. Husband and wife should give an equal amount of time and space to each other so they will feel that they care about their opinions and not necessarily handcuffed in a relationship 😊

In case of ragna I so felt...infact profession n talent both played a vital role...I can even say that's the cupid here...that's the only way they got to delve on each other's life with a different perspective...and I agree bein in a relationship is a give n take process in alters though..,a new situation makes way for an equally new reaction..as humans we are neither pre - preped nor do we have rule book on life's do's n dont's...and yes with partners allowing each others space and other factors like understanding etc...two souls can gel well despite the age factor. !

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myera

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Posted: 11 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: swetagr
<font size="5">I just dont understand why fuss abt age difference. I ve seen so many rrlationship whr age gap is more than 10. My dad is 10 yrs older to my mom. I m 32 and ve grown watchin them . I ve seen them love, care, fight also of course but at the end of the day they are always there 4 each other. So plz guys plz I dont think age matters in relatioship as long as u ve that understandin</font>

Just for the confirmation and also to count on people's perspectives...I raised those questions...thanx for the reply :)

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myera

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Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Pookhi
I think understanding counts more than age in a relationship.

Yes most of them said the same here.., thanx for the reply :)

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Breathing

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Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Age is not any matter in love here,, and she is of 20-21 as sammy said

If Ragahv is 32 then not so be surprising coz he is the business tycoon which takes enough years to become. So let it be and just enjoy Ragna😳

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Baljodh

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Posted: 11 years ago

#49

Yes, I agree with you! age doesn't matter and It's Kalpi's professional skills which made Raghav to fall in love with her..Irrespective of her looks. It's Kalpi's mature attitude and Her intelligence that surprised Raghav..But Kalpi also has to learn more from Raghav because I have to admit that their age gap is kind of big. But as said that i they support and love each other and treat each other equally, There's nothing wrong with that. And I think Kalpi is much mature than raghav. But sometimes, She's the opposite. Seeing their relationship, I think that they are perfect for each other and their age gap doesn't really matter. And I agree that Kalpi needs to learn more from Raghav and Raghav from Kalpi! 😊

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Hillylove

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Posted: 11 years ago

#50

Very interesting topic👍🏼 A topic that is so subjective and ongoing.

I have seen this question so many times, and I have concluded that there is no one answer, as the success of a relationships with big differences in age groups between the individuals relies on the individuals themselves.

However, relating to the EMA, we have a better chance of determining the success of Ragna, because we are shown who they are day by day to make our predictions more accurate, the rest would be up to the CVS pulling a fast and unrealistic one on us.

Let us look at the nature of Kalpi. Even though she is beautiful, smart and matured for her age, she still has more ways to go in maturity. We also need to look at her unresolved issues with her Mother and hence her emotional maturity. Kalpi seems to have either let go of her insecurities of her Mother and Paakhi or the cvs have pushed that aside to focus on Ragna. Kalpi needs healing and I would not recommend her rushing into a relationship/marriage with Raghav just yet. A man cannot heal you, you have to heal yourself. However, relating to the real world, no one is perfect and many have entered into relationships with issues and somehow manage to make their relationships work. The questions are "At what cost?" "Is this a healthy way to have a relationship?"

However, Kalpi has somewhat come out of her shell and is more open to an emotional relationship with another being. Something I am sure we never expected so soon.

Let us look at the nature of Raghav. He is matured in the sense of handling business and taking care of himself. However, can we really say he is emotionally matured either? He also has unresolved issues in his childhood. A dead Father who he knows is murdered and has to look these murderers in the face day by day. A Mother who he has no clue about her fate, but feels abandoned by her.

Raghav has become somewhat of a recluse due to his experiences and is just making an attempt to come out of this sheltered emotional existence.

Raghav and Kalpi are actually good people on their own inspite of their flaws.

It is reflected in how Raghav is willing to accept when he is wrong, declare it and make amends for Kalpi's sake. It has to start somewhere.

This shows some leeway in emotional maturity.

Kalpi has become more tolerant and forgiving. She is actually slowly but surely learning emotional maturity.

Many love stories have showed, that love for another person makes you want to become and do become a better person. There is no wrong in that, you have to start somewhere. At the end of the day it is the consistency in the change to be a better person, better spouse that matters. Some people take longer than others, some successes seem to be more instantaneous.

At the end of the day,

Relationships do not always come in a perfect package with perfect people. Many are flawed, but I believe it is the nature of the persons that will pull through all the flaws and make the relationship work together.

I think that Raghav and Kalpana are flawed but their true natures are

sufficient enough to build and sustain a successful relationship. However, for them with all their issues it will take time, lots of love, understanding and patience.

In conclusion, I would say that the age is not the real issue here.

Times have changed and age is no longer an issue all over the world.

Women can have careers, even going to school while married and their husbands are okay with it, working and their husbands are okay with it. So, I can't see why Raghav would be a barrier in Kalpi's career.

Also, I see nothing wrong with Raghav being attracted to Kalpi from a professional point of view, attraction and love can develop for any reason, there is no one way to fall in love with someone.

Attraction is subjected to the individual and what makes them tick, what attracts them to others. It is clear that Raghav's attraction has now surpassed Kalpi from a professional perspective. That is why he wants to be close to her, look in her eyes, allow her in his home, enter his Kitchen. It does no mean he wants her just for housewife purposes. A good man wanting you in his kitchen does not mean he wants you as a housewife. Their reason for wanting you to cook a meal, is because that was the way their Mothers showed them love, cooking a meal for anyone is one of the most loving gestures you can ever make to anyone.

When Raghav asked Kalpi to get a glass of water for him and her, it was not about being "the boss," it was about showing her how much of his home he was willing to share with her, that she should feel comfortable in his home. The water represents how much he wants to share his life with her.

That is why I say that the success in a relationship relies on the nature of the individuals and nothing else. If two individuals do not have a genuine nature of love in their hearts for mankind,.

, they will fail in their relationships.

Just my two cents.

Edited by dumppurvi - 11 years ago

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