Age-just a number ??? - Page 4

Originally posted by: KyaRe...

In that case even kalpi had a darkest life...raghav atleast had his luxurious pleasures..!!
Yup they have to tame up to be in union...bingo...even I m looking forward..:)

Hey he have sammy...what do I call you ??
And he himself distanced from people...for his owm reasons though...
For kalpi...baba dada ve been mere protecters n at times a cushion to rest on for support.

Your question Could Professional success be the key ingredient of love? I guess, success can be one of the small ingredient but key ingredient would be one's behaviour, sensibility and other human emotions, and above all hormones which would create chemical locha in ur heart n mind for another...

When Raghav said he was 32 I was like yeah .. I am tired of serials where they show self made business tycoons who are barely 20 . Come on it takes time to finish studies and make name for yourself (baring some few in Internet world) . Rahgav is shown to be 10000 crore guy in construction world .. Arrogant, has attitude, very sure of himself, very set in his way, commands respect .. His age is perfect. 20+ guy showing this attitude comes as a show off .

Hey he have sammy...what do I call you ??
And he himself distanced from people...for his owm reasons though...
For kalpi...baba dada ve been mere protecters n at times a cushion to rest on for support.

Originally posted by: KyaRe...

Hey he have sammy...what do I call you ??
And he himself distanced from people...for his owm reasons though...
For kalpi...baba dada ve been mere protecters n at times a cushion to rest on for support.

Yo...I m madhu :)

I think understanding counts more than age in a relationship.

nice post and the replies...

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

t@bold thats the case of just 1 percent of whole lot while 99 percent have quit a different story ..such men r also very inflexible and always think they r right and tend to underestimate the girl and many times even her right veiws r undermined saying u dont know ways of world , i know it better

such relationships r better only in case where girl is quit submissive or the boy is too very broad minded which normally is not always the case .

u get married or fall for the case as u said ...girl feels wow he is so caring...boy feels wow she is so innocent and cute ...married...and thyen what

girl feels god why he always has his way...sometimes i am right too yaar...it really suffocates

boy ...enough why does not she develop brains ...till when she is going to be like this !!!

anum i am telling u exactly what i have seen ...its never a cake walk...its terrible yaar

and u know what ...only few r able to survive such marriage that too after lot of talks and interventions from friend and psychologist while many separate saying ...fine dear it does not work anymore...thats how i see it here 😆

I guess then I am in one of those 1% lot whose husband is caring in that sense, Alhumduella! 😳

I agree Shana! You do encounter with such men with hot head who thinks their opinion is worth knowing while the rest are dumb. But in the end, any relationship regardless of the age difference requires understanding, respect and the biggest of all tolerance. Because if you lose that then you are pretty much on the edge of the cliff. Since we both are living with these challenges practically. I am sure we know how much hard work it takes to spin the wheel going 😉

There is this funny thing and in fact it is even better Shana. When the hubby-wife argues over any issue, then the first thing they always do is to defend themselves whether they are right or wrong in their respective places. And then your tolerance strength comes into play. It test your temper because a lot of time they don't realize that they cross their limit while the matter is not even serious.

I am overwhelmed to read soo many interesting comments and interpretations..!!
I am too hoping age wouldn't come as barrier soon..!!😊

Originally posted by: myera

GREED...that's the word...I feel love to be a pretty lame extension of greed...so even you consider that age is just a num...but at times age cums with a baggage of habituality...which might become so tough to give up...oh yeah , now that u mentioned young girls are loved more...now I can connect n add on to reasons for ragna...I kind of dint like the idea of 10 year gap...I wish they showcase this factor n enlighten me how such age gaped relations prevail...thanx for the reply :)

Yes Myera everyone gets greed once in their life time, doesn't matter if its legitimate or not. But professional being a key to love seems always a doubt, at least for me.

And see first time being in a relationship or first time being somebody's wife/ husband takes a good amount of time to make understanding. Because to be honest, none of them would know how to handle a relationship that is too delicate. Then, they tend to go with the flow and see where they lack their capabilities to handle certain circumstances. But an important key to fulfill the promise is to ignore faults. Nobody is perfect in the end. Husband and wife should give an equal amount of time and space to each other so they will feel that they care about their opinions and not necessarily handcuffed in a relationship 😊