Age-just a number ???

Age...now that raghav has revealed his age to be some 30 plus n in previous episode it's revealed that kalpi is of some 22 plus...!
Here goes my question , is age just a number or does it act to be strength/weaknes in a relationship ??

Be it in serial , I can see it's own pros n cons.
Pros in accord to me are raghav's professional success , his experience to lively situations and his learning experience would definitely be more than that of kalpi.

Cons in accord to me are his needs n responsibilities in his particular time of age , these needs might even mismatch those of kalpi's .

But time changes n so does people followed by , change in situations n reactions.
Nobody can step into other's shoes, when we compare raghav n kalpi...bein a lot younger this girl is so calm n contented, be it her work or the way she handles her lively situations in a quite matured way...which I fail to see in raghav at times...was it just the fact that females have early maturity than males or is it the way cv's designed for ragna drama..??

In previous episode kalpi was extremely attracted to his success when the man himself blurts out that what n where I'm today is utterly coz of my hardwork.
And most importantly success comes in with its own demands n sacrifices...it took tym of some 30 plus years ...raghav might have self channelised for his todays being.
And I even want to point out even raghav was attracted to kalpi's professional talent , actually that was the point when he started restricting himself to underestimate her.

Is professional success key ingredient of love ??

Looks like it is to me, Raghav has fall in love after seeing Klpi's extraordinary talent and smartness, not the beauty. and vice versa

Originally posted by: Hydqueen

Looks like it is to me, Raghav has fall in love after seeing Klpi's extraordinary talent and smartness, not the beauty. and vice versa

Oh yeah...is it the key ingredient to fall in love ??

Kalpi is pretty, no doubt.. but just for a second... it's just a way of portrayal..!! had it been any other serial... lively ladies are more preferred over kalpi kinds .. so.. should that be the case, Paakhi would surely over rule Kalpi..
But.. here it was just a professional base relationship, which Raghav is now trying to bring it to personal level.. But at that level, how far would it be successful, I have no clue on that lines... If you re-watch the episode, Raghav, has introduced his house to Kalpi, yet, his first area of introduction started with kitchen.. when he says, you need to be comfortable in my house, because this is where you have to be in future.. and somewhere, in his expectation, I could see, he do want a typical housewife who would take care of his basic needs... care for him, cook for him, maintain house like he does, and most important, Love him..!!
I dunno, was it just me or anyone else also felt the same watching friday's episode.. I hope this is just a bad thought of my mind...!!

But.. For me... Age has an impact..!!! and a very high one.. Trust me .. i was utterly disappointed with cvs making age difference of 10 years..!!
See.. I am 22 myself... and no matter how successful a guy would be in front of me.. and most handsome one.. over age of 30, I would probably, never look at him from romantic angel.. (but personally, I did have a friend, who had age difference of 8 years, and they broke up recently, and have a cousin, who is engaged to a guy 10 years..) ... But here is case of kalpi.. who ambitious..!! I doubt marriage is at all her urgency..!! (Trust me on one thing, had it been paakhi, she would have been open chat mangni path byaah.. And Please.. am not saying Paakhi is better option for Raghav.. She can never never go ahead and fulfill 0.1% of expectations of Raghav, be it cooking, caring or cleaning, and neither is she fit at professional level... But.. when it comes to agreement and desperateness to have a spouse, ... Paakhi would be more in Raghav's category...)

Whereas Raghav.. is the person, who is 32 and is like desperate to have Kalpi in his life and so much, that before confession, he is training her to be a good wife..!! 😳
So tomorrow, when Kalpi says Yes to his love, his next step, would be marriage... whereas.. for Kalpi, that would be last thing...!! Just the fact she is delaying the confession, is a proof, there is no haste to fall in love yet..!
So.. now how will these two sail about, is something I would love to see..!!
I could already see differences in priorities and expectations from both side... So how are CVs now going to deal with age difference ka abrupt logic..!!??? I dunno..

Personally for me age doesn't matter! Also being able to have experience in the business world is a huge plus, learning to interact with ppl and understand them helps with understanding one another!?
Professional success is not the key ingredient for love in my opinion!
I think love comes with understanding and trust for one another! Ones profession can either add to helping a relation or it can break a relation! Where as one may get jealous of the other! It depends on the amount of income they work for! One might think they can rule the other just because of money! And the Other may feel that they're not good enough or May feel intimidated! It depends on the gender! Personally I don't even want to compare Paaki with Kalpi baca use they are 2 completely different ppl Personally and professionally! Kalpi is gorgeous in her own way and so is Paaki! I too want to see how cvs move ahead with these individuals! Nobody knows, we just have to wait and watch!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Kalpi is pretty, no doubt.. but just for a second... it's just a way of portrayal..!! had it been any other serial... lively ladies are more preferred over kalpi kinds .. so.. should that be the case, Paakhi would surely over rule Kalpi..
But.. here it was just a professional base relationship, which Raghav is now trying to bring it to personal level.. But at that level, how far would it be successful, I have no clue on that lines... If you re-watch the episode, Raghav, has introduced his house to Kalpi, yet, his first area of introduction started with kitchen.. when he says, you need to be comfortable in my house, because this is where you have to be in future.. and somewhere, in his expectation, I could see, he do want a typical housewife who would take care of his basic needs... care for him, cook for him, maintain house like he does, and most important, Love him..!!
I dunno, was it just me or anyone else also felt the same watching friday's episode.. I hope this is just a bad thought of my mind...!!

But.. For me... Age has an impact..!!! and a very high one.. Trust me .. i was utterly disappointed with cvs making age difference of 10 years..!!
See.. I am 22 myself... and no matter how successful a guy would be in front of me.. and most handsome one.. over age of 30, I would probably, never look at him from romantic angel.. (but personally, I did have a friend, who had age difference of 8 years, and they broke up recently, and have a cousin, who is engaged to a guy 10 years..) ... But here is case of kalpi.. who ambitious..!! I doubt marriage is at all her urgency..!! (Trust me on one thing, had it been paakhi, she would have been open chat mangni path byaah.. And Please.. am not saying Paakhi is better option for Raghav.. She can never never go ahead and fulfill 0.1% of expectations of Raghav, be it cooking, caring or cleaning, and neither is she fit at professional level... But.. when it comes to agreement and desperateness to have a spouse, ... Paakhi would be more in Raghav's category...)

Whereas Raghav.. is the person, who is 32 and is like desperate to have Kalpi in his life and so much, that before confession, he is training her to be a good wife..!! 😳
So tomorrow, when Kalpi says Yes to his love, his next step, would be marriage... whereas.. for Kalpi, that would be last thing...!! Just the fact she is delaying the confession, is a proof, there is no haste to fall in love yet..!
So.. now how will these two sail about, is something I would love to see..!!
I could already see differences in priorities and expectations from both side... So how are CVs now going to deal with age difference ka abrupt logic..!!??? I dunno..

Hey...I'm juz a year older than you...comin back to the point ...I so see kalpi loosing her audacity these days...now that ragav lended his support system all open to her...she seem to be so dependent on him...I was literally shocked when she said I myself forgot the challenge...even I 'm on your terms that I can never have relationship with such a difference in age..a decade is almost a generation...mindsets differ to hell..though it would be like one will always be giving in for you where in the other keeps on enjoying the giving...certainly ther will be a threshold...n then the wreckage starts...these people would atleast made the number to some 28 or 27...logic n practicality are way too missing in the show..even I have my very own folks whose are in a relationship with mere age gap of 10 to 12...for me it seem to be disturbing...but for them its so cool happy go functioning...as an outsider may be I could only get to see their happy bubbles...thats how I concluded myself...I'm all eyes to see how ragna prevails..thanx for the reply buddy :)

kalpi is 20 plus not 22 plus...sammy said kalpi is 20 or 21

frankly speaking living with raghav like man who is so bossy in everything and so inflexible at times is really gonna be difficult for kalpi who is very much like him .

but then if u really love ur partner then these things dont matter a lot ...their is always a way

I dont think age is such an issue in this case..

Originally posted by: Yellowdiamond

Personally for me age doesn't matter! Also being able to have experience in the business world is a huge plus, learning to interact with ppl and understand them helps with understanding one another!?
Professional success is not the key ingredient for love in my opinion!
I think love comes with understanding and trust for one another! Ones profession can either add to helping a relation or it can break a relation! Where as one may get jealous of the other! It depends on the amount of income they work for! One might think they can rule the other just because of money! And the Other may feel that they're not good enough or May feel intimidated! It depends on the gender! Personally I don't even want to compare Paaki with Kalpi baca use they are 2 completely different ppl Personally and professionally! Kalpi is gorgeous in her own way and so is Paaki! I too want to see how cvs move ahead with these individuals! Nobody knows, we just have to wait and watch!

So for you age is just a number...yep professional sucsess have its own pros n cons as I mentioned above ...I agree that professional success can make or break things in a relation...trust is entirely a timely dependent factor...so is the reason raghav doubted kalpi on that presentation issue...be it now...I bet he wont even dare to ...paakhi is so childish n quite protective in her mannerisms...like she hasn't faced the life race like raghav n kalpi did...so is her dumbness...oh yeah lets wait n watch...thanx for the reply.

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

kalpi is 20 plus not 22 plus...sammy said kalpi is 20 or 21

frankly speaking living with raghav like man who is so bossy in everything and so inflexible at times is really gonna be difficult for kalpi who is very much like him .

but then if u really love ur partner then these things dont matter a lot ...their is always a way

Shana... Somewhere, I agree marriage does bring in adjustments.. but then obviously expectations matter a lot..!! And I see hell loads of differences..! and Love is not enough to spend the whole life.. there are hell loads of other factor that affects adjustment issues..!!

First of all I am wondering, how will RagNa.. together to agree, when should they get married??
According to you? how would they plan this question and decide upon it?