Age-just a number ??? - Page 6

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

Very interesting topic👍🏼A topic that is so subjective and ongoing.

I have seen this question so many times, and I have concluded that there is no one answer, as the success of a relationships with big differences in age groups between the individuals relies on the individuals themselves.

However, relating to the EMA, we have a better chance of determining the success of Ragna, because we are shown who they are day by day to make our predictions more accurate, the rest would be up to the CVS pulling a fast and unrealistic one on us.

Let us look at the nature of Kalpi. Even though she is beautiful, smart and matured for her age, she still has more ways to go in maturity. We also need to look at her unresolved issues with her Mother and hence her emotional maturity. Kalpi seems to have either let go of her insecurities of her Mother and Paakhi or the cvs have pushed that aside to focus on Ragna. Kalpi needs healing and I would not recommend her rushing into a relationship/marriage with Raghav just yet. A man cannot heal you, you have to heal yourself. However, relating to the real world, no one is perfect and many have entered into relationships with issues and somehow manage to make their relationships work. The questions are "At what cost?" "Is this a healthy way to have a relationship?"

However, Kalpi has somewhat come out of her shell and is more open to an emotional relationship with another being. Something I am sure we never expected so soon.

Let us look at the nature of Raghav. He is matured in the sense of handling business and taking care of himself. However, can we really say he is emotionally matured either? He also has unresolved issues in his childhood. A dead Father who he knows is murdered and has to look these murderers in the face day by day. A Mother who he has no clue about her fate, but feels abandoned by her.

Raghav has become somewhat of a recluse due to his experiences and is just making an attempt to come out of this sheltered emotional existence.

Raghav and Kalpi are actually good people on their own inspite of their flaws.

It is reflected in how Raghav is willing to accept when he is wrong, declare it and make amends for Kalpi's sake. It has to start somewhere.

This shows some leeway in emotional maturity.

Kalpi has become more tolerant and forgiving. She is actually slowly but surely learning emotional maturity.

Many love stories have showed, that love for another person makes you want to become and do become a better person. There is no wrong in that, you have to start somewhere. At the end of the day it is the consistency in the change to be a better person, better spouse that matters. Some people take longer than others, some successes seem to be more instantaneous.

At the end of the day,

Relationships do not always come in a perfect package with perfect people. Many are flawed, but I believe it is the nature of the persons that will pull through all the flaws and make the relationship work together.

I think that Raghav and Kalpana are flawed but their true natures are

sufficient enough to build and sustain a successful relationship. However, for them with all their issues it will take time, lots of love, understanding and patience.

In conclusion, I would say that the age is not the real issue here.

Times have changed and age is no longer an issue all over the world.

Women can have careers, even going to school while married and their husbands are okay with it, working and their husbands are okay with it. So, I can't see why Raghav would be a barrier in Kalpi's career.

Also, I see nothing wrong with Raghav being attracted to Kalpi from a professional point of view, attraction and love can develop for any reason, there is no one way to fall in love with someone.

Attraction is subjected to the individual and what makes them tick, what attracts them to others. It is clear that Raghav's attraction has now surpassed Kalpi from a professional perspective. That is why he wants to be close to her, look in her eyes, allow her in his home, enter his Kitchen. It does no mean he wants her just for housewife purposes. A good man wanting you in his kitchen does not mean he wants you as a housewife. Their reason for wanting you to cook a meal, is because that was the way their Mothers showed them love, cooking a meal for anyone is one of the most loving gestures you can ever make to anyone.

When Raghav asked Kalpi to get a glass of water for him and her, it was not about being "the boss," it was about showing her how much of his home he was willing to share with her, that she should feel comfortable in his home. The water represents how much he wants to share his life with her.

That is why I say that the success in a relationship relies on the nature of the individuals and nothing else. If two individuals do not have a genuine nature of love in their hearts for mankind,.

, they will fail in their relationships.

Just my two cents.

Heyeee hilly...so glad for ur comment...two cents...budy it was so much more than two cents lol...I agree that both raghav n kalpi have their own worlds n hell lot of issues to be dealt with before they make way to their own world...now that they paused their personal issues to resume the impending love n paving way to their own world..unaware of whats in store for them...be it age or any other intruder or any damn thing will just be a obstacle n hurdle for ragna world...even though both are tolerant enough n patient enough towards each other...how they handle will be very very fascinating...followed by their union...I never had a problem kalpi cooking food for raghav...if he can buy her food , inkling to lunch date then why can't she make him food..so thats justified for me...the only problem I see is shez goin weak n losin her audacity !!
Oh yay...u agree that their love bloomed from professional success...cool.. :):)
U said it in the best way...women are designed in such manner to shower the love to their beloved ones by preping out something delicious..not in all cases though.. bein a foodie even I can connect to that n believe in showering my love through kitchen , cooking n stuff.
Water had such significance...I never knew it..all credit goes to you for enlightenment...!!
Love wins over all odds , that's all u meant say I guess.

Originally posted by: baljodhdhanesar

Yes, I agree with you! age doesn't matter and It's Kalpi's professional skills which made Raghav to fall in love with her..Irrespective of her looks. It's Kalpi's mature attitude and Her intelligence that surprised Raghav..But Kalpi also has to learn more from Raghav because I have to admit that their age gap is kind of big. But as said that i they support and love each other and treat each other equally, There's nothing wrong with that. And I think Kalpi is much mature than raghav. But sometimes, She's the opposite. Seeing their relationship, I think that they are perfect for each other and their age gap doesn't really matter. And I agree that Kalpi needs to learn more from Raghav and Raghav from Kalpi!😊

Despite of huge age gap...nd upbringing both have their own plus n minus...so is the reason for their complimenting grace...I agree with you that both should learn from each other to be one.
Thanx for the reply :)

Originally posted by: dhanuli

Age is not any matter in love here,, and she is of 20-21 as sammy said

If Ragahv is 32 then not so be surprising coz he is the business tycoon which takes enough years to become. So let it be and just enjoy Ragna😳

Dhanuli I enjoy ragna in any state...be it a tiff or love.
Thanx for the reply :)