Age-just a number ??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: nandinidavid96

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#0000ff">Very interesting post, you have raised different
questions in the same post. First one is does age act as strength or weakness
in the relationship; I'd say age has nothing to do with the success of the relationship.
For any relationship to survive the couple involved have to adjust, compromise
and accommodate the priorities of the partner which has nothing to do with the
age. No individuals have similar tastes or choices even IF they are of the
same age, so adjustment is key for the success of any relationship. Though success
of the relationship is not affected by the age but priorities of the couple involved
will get affected with the age, which directly shake the basic foundation of
the marriage. The expectations and priorities are bound to change with age. Here
in RagNa, Raghav is in early 30's with stable career while kalpi is still in the budding phase of career; He might want to settle down
and start family while Kalpi is neither eager nor desperate for any sort of relationship in that case the changing priorities will take toll on their relationship </font>

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<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#0000ff">Is that females have early maturity than males or is it the way
cv's designed for ragna drama..?? Not necessarily are females are mature
but in general women are more accommodating and understanding which is more due
to social conditioning, family upbringing and economic status not due to AGE. RagNa are equally mature, level headed, stubborn and
stable as separate individuals and being elder he is more sorted out while she
is messy, holds many preconceived notions and gets easily riled up. But in the relationship
he is more vulnerable and desperate while she is realistic...this is more due
to her responsibilities towards her family while he is all alone both physically
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<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#0000ff">Professional success though not the key ingredient will
definitely play a bigger role in marriage though not in love; In case of RagNa, Kalpi is drawn more to Raghav's
professional success (not to his riches) while Raghav is attracted to her caring
nature though he is in awe with Kalpana's intelligence, her success hardly matter
to him as much as it does to Kalpi. He might cheer her and support her !</font>

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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

myra i am really liking ur replies

and yest i am liking all posts here ...wow all members suddenly seem so mature now ...r we same tapori ragna fans !!!!

Originally posted by: KyaRe...

Age is just a number which bites your behind every year😡😆😆Kalpi is 21-22ish who has s***load things to experience and enjoy before she settles for home & hearth. Ragz is 32 & has lived half his life, he is experience professionally & in other things😉

Generally girls are more matured than boys at same age & that was 1 of the reason girls were married off to older boys earlier. With time the difference has come down & these days we find couple where younger boys are married to older girls. Now the dynamics of couples have so many variations that you can't apply the age old formulas to test their compatibility & off course each couple has pros & cons🤔

Kalpi is dogs years ahead in maturity cuz of her up bringing, Can fairly say that Ragz and she have couple of years apart😉IMO Creatives got this huge age difference cuz Kalpi even with her level of maturity will bring the much needed fresh,lively, young & colourful things in Ragz life & in turn Ragz will help her with stability, experience and security she needs in her life 😃

I will be disappointed if CVs rush these two into marriageRaghav & Kalpana are in love true but they need understanding & trust before they jump into shaadi. I absolutely do not want Kalpi to get married util she gets her ek mutthi aasma😊

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

myra i am really liking ur replies

and yest i am liking all posts here ...wow all members suddenly seem so mature now ...r we same tapori ragna fans !!!!

Originally posted by: myera

Heyee..., thanx...your answers are quite diplomatic...I felt so...but you did made ur point that love nd marraige differ by their priorities...I agree to most of your lines...but still age is a vital factor for me...adjustments compromises might be closured due to situational demand...even though love is the key factor...I also feel thats reason couples fight over...yet again they unite with passion...but all the agony gone through leaves a scratch on heart...which might show up at times though...!!

Originally posted by: nandinidavid96

hmm...diplomatic😕I thought I sounded more realistic, anyways let it be.

Love and marriage are two entirely different relationships; love wont come with any responsibility and people happily make compromises and sacrifices for lovers which is not the case with marriage. Marriage is a social entitlement which comes with baggage of responsibilities.

Adjustments, compromises and fights are part & parcel of every marriage even if the couple are mirror images of each other of the same age as they bring two different upbringing along with them it got nothing to do with Age. But age takes a toll on priorities and most often on career and at the end of the day if you have love and will to make the relationship work everything seems trivial and insignificant

Originally posted by: KyaRe...

Upbringing does play a vital role...afterall it paves way for one's being n existence...even I want to see kalpi to be the woman of substance as thats the main motto of the show apart from raghavs revenge...!!
You said it all due to age raghav have had his share of experiences...n be it kalpi...shez yet to explore...hope it works out well for ragna n they gel up well with each passing day...thanks for the reply.