Is anandi failing Shivam too?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#91

Anop went to jail because of Anandi only. How dare she gets her FIL arrested????

To keep the family together Anandi should not have handed over that information that Shiv collected. I suppose she should have shielded Anop from the eyes of law and then they all be happy big family like Shiv wanted and Anop would be happy doing illegal business and Alok will be simmering with anger and reaching for Anop's throat Anop showering Anandi's kids with gifts bought with money earned by illegal means and have DB instigating Anop every now and then.

Yes. Shiv would have been very happy that his family is together under one roof.

WHAT'S MORE SHIV WOULD HAVE LOVED THE SIGHT OF HIS CHILDREN BEING SHOWERED WITH GIFTS BOUGHT WITH MONEY EARNED THROUGH ILLEGAL AND ILLEGITIMATE MEANS AND LOVED THE SIGHT OF HIS CHILDREN BEING USED FOR ONE UOMANSHIP BY THEIR GRAND FATHER

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If people watched the episode they would know that Anandi told Daddu that Shiv wanted the family to be together and live as one BIG HAPPY FAMILY when Daddu brought up the issue of going to Singapore.

She agreed to go with him because for her family meant being with Daddu and where ever Daddu is it is her home.

It was Daddu who said he wanted to escape from memories of Shiv.hence he wanted to go to Singapore.

When she wanted to stay back because of Nandini they didn't even care enough to stay back to help her find Shiv's daughter or help her raise Shivam and Amol.

Anop and Alok who are at each other's throats when Shiv was around now can't wait to be together as soon as Anop is released from jail so what does that mean???

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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SPuja

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Posted: 10 years ago

#92

Family is together because Anandi handed over information regarding Anoop to police? Anoop's change of heart because Anandi handed over the evidence to police? No, Anoop's change of heart was because of Alok and Alok's twisted sense of shielding the culprit (Anoop). If the family is together and if Anoop has had a change of heart - it was because of Alok.

Anandi should have told the family about what Shiv's dying wish was. If after hearing this - the family still wanted to shift to Singapore - Anandi would not be guilty. Since she did not tell them - it feels like Anandi did not want to fulfill Shiv's last wish.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#93

She told Daddu when he brought up the issue of Singapore itself.

She told him it was Shiv's wish that they all stayed together but he wanted to move because his sons decided to separate and also he because he wanted escape the memories.

All things moved against Anop because of that evidence only because Anandi spoke up Alok and Daddu got to know about his illegal activities.

Had Anandi kep quiet they would not have known.

If Anop had not been caught he would not have realised the love the family had for him and how much they cared for him.

He would have gone on being his pompous self manipulated by DB . If his acts did not come to light he would have never realised.

Only when he fell did he realise the value of family because of the way they were with him,

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#94

BV watchers are mainly women and many are single and many may become single.

Many of us dont have BH or Jagya to take us in and take care of us. We would have been inspired if they showed anandi as a single mother coping with problems faced by single mothers. Anandi who was always sheltered in one big house after another would have become an interesting character if she was allowed to lead an independent life as a single mother. Found a paying job even if it is a part time job.

On some days showing video clips of happy times with shiv in KB to Shivam. Anandi reliving those moments with Shivam who could not get enough of his father. Not always but sometimes. Going to singapore on vacations. Bonding with shiv's family and amol.

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Stephi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#95

If at all anyone is to be faulted for current situation it is Jagya and Dadisa Jagya for letting his sympathy for Shivam in the way of his role as father to Abhi and Dsa who doesn't see beyond her selfish desire to have Anandi living with her.

And Anandi let him do it just like that.
This situation lasts for 11 years but Anandi sees nothing, hears nothing and it doesn't bother her at all. WOW.
When I remember how she used to lecture him for every little thing...
But then again how she can ever be faulted when there are scapegoats for everything that happens in her life.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
BV watchers are mainly women and many are single and many may become single.

Many of us dont have BH or Jagya to take us in and take care of us. We would have been inspired if they showed anandi as a single mother coping with problems faced by single mothers. Anandi who was always sheltered in one big house after another would have become an interesting character if she was allowed to lead an independent life as a single mother. Found a paying job even if it is a part time job.

On some days showing video clips of happy times with shiv in KB to Shivam. Anandi reliving those moments with Shivam who could not get enough of his father. Not always but sometimes. Going to singapore on vacations. Bonding with shiv's family and amol.

@BOLD CVs don't seem to be interested in showing all that.

They only want to show BV Ver 2.0 with Nandini.

There was a new promo with Nandini being tortured 🤢

We would have liked to see Anandi the single mother - the channel is only interested in showing drama dn the writer is obsessed with show casing his kacchi umar ki pakke rishte

They just want to make Anandi stay in BH causing problems even if Anandi did not do anything or will not do anything to cause problems because that grabs more eye balls

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Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#97

How can Jagya or Ganga be faulted at all? What should they do? Should they have told Dsa or Anandi, that Anandi is not welcome here because our lives will get entangled.

And how should Jagya treat Shivam? First of all Jagya is being indirectly forced to foster a child. If he becomes rude to Shivam (even for his fault), Anandi will not like it. (Every parents want to keep their child in check, but the same parents will object if 'others' start keeping their child in check)

Similarly, if Jagya tries to be lenient with Shivam (because technically he can't afford to get angry), then his own son is getting affected. Due to this even his wife is getting affected.

What should anyone do in Jagya's place? Should he just ignore Shivam and Anandi, yet when they are all living in the same house?

Shivam is not Jagya's son and that's why Jagya has keep in limits, which is what he is doing.

Everybody needs space. Doesn't Anandi need one, and shouldn't Shivam get one? Then why doesn't Anandi move out? Why can't she realise that she is the cause of suffocation that J and his family are going through.

It appears that Anandi is helpless because daddu asked her to move back to BH, but in real sense JaGan are helpless because they can't draw away Anandi, and are finding it hard to maintain a family based relationship with her as well

Anandi may have showed concern initially regarding JaGan, but what was J supposed to say when she asked him ' will this affect you and G?'

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#98

Anandi is bound by Daddu and Dsa when she entered BH J G2 were bound by Dsa

Neither Anandi nor JG2 were left with any choice.

Anandi realised after stepping into BH that she doesn't feel at home there and did feel that she was being imposed on them but JG2 assured that they had no problems partly because they did not foresee any problems between the three of them because they knew where they all three stand and also because of Dadisa

Dsa didn't want to hear anything about Anandi leaving

Time went by Anandi didn't want to hurt Dsa by saying she wanted to leave the place JG2 didn't want to be the reason to be Anandi's departure from BH and become villains in Dsa's eyes.

So all three of them ended up staying under one roof foisted upon each other against their own wishes.

Now with children growing up BH has become much smaller to contain all of them leaving not enough space for anyone. All three of them in order to please the elders and obeying them trusting them they ended up screwing their lives.

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rohini55

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Posted: 10 years ago

#99

Why are we being asked to imagine things that have not been shown?

If Cvs could show Anandi smearing colour on J's face, why couldn't they also show flashbacks of Ansh's holi moments? Why should we imagine this?

I'd have expected the first shot of post-leap BV to start hwith A telling Shivam about the bravery of his father. I'd have expected them to talk to Shiv's photo. That would have also been the opportune moment to tell Shivam about Nandini. And how and why he and his sister got the names Shivam and Nandini and also how in his dying moments he asked A to be mom and dad to the twins.

Why should we imagine that this happened in the 11 years? In that case I might as well imagine a completely different BV according to my taste.

If indeed all this had happened, shivam would have had no reason to feel envious about Abhi having J as his father. He'd have spoken about his heroic father instead of looking longingly at J.

If now they show A talking to Shivam about Shiv, it will be a case of too little too late. It won't negate what has already been shown.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#100

Daddu knew about Shiv's wish to see his family living together in harmony because Anandi told him and yet he wanted to leave with Anop to Singapore? Why because he couldn't bear to live amidst of the memories of grandson.

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But after what happened with Nandini they had no business leaving Anandi and her kids back in India and leave for Singapore.

They should have stayed back with their DIL and helped her take care of Shiv's children whether it was Shiv's wish or not